A friend of ours owns a bar and invited us to a private party there this past Saturday. Things were fine until the owner's 17 year old boy toy saunters in and no one bats an eye. One of the bartenders pours him a beer, which he then drinks... again, no one seemed shaken. Things went from awkward to rediculous when the boy went down to the basement and returned wearing a thong to which he danced around rather provocatively. (17 years old) We were upset and left. The following morning, I posted on my Facebook page that I was researching Delaware's liquor laws. Within an hour later, my boyfriend and I receive 3 calls from 3 different bar staff members accusing us of being hypocritical and that they were shocked someone would do that 'to them.' And at the moment, all the staff members of the bar are completely siding with the owner and are willing to sweep the info under the rug in hopes it will go away... which in DE, would be considered conspiracy. I'm upholding devout virtues and ethics here and am being chastized for it. What do I do? Joe.