hmmm, how to respond to you... I've read many of your posts since you are reasonably articulate and have useful input on the discussions you enter... yet you tend to be less accepting of some of the less mainstream diversions. It's ok to disagree with a persons fetish/philia, but to extend it to an explanation as to why they are wrong in their beliefs is the problem I have with many of the responses I see here.Who is anyone here to judge anyone on their sexuality. Any judgment at all as to the appropriateness of any sexual behavior is anathema to the idea of free and open sexuality. correct me if Im wrong.
I knew you were referring to me, thats why i asked. My childhood, background, family values, parents, personality and sexual proclivities make me who i am. Just as yours make you who you are. It's human to have some sort of judgement in areas of our lives. I dont think you can remove judgement from the human mind.
I am a very sexual person, I am not 100% straight and i participate in fetish. What i don't like is incest being portrayed as something totally natural and mainstream porn making women out to be whores, sluts and cumbuckets. I've seen 500 "Sluts for Hire" videos on Xtube today alone.
I think most of my opinions are pretty accepting. If incest or an obvious humiliation factor towards women strike a nerve with you i am willing to accept that. As what i believe is not what everyone believes. I would not have jumped out and posted the Sluts and Whores thread if i didn't feel that most straight men and women didn't agree with me.
I was not trying to be contriversial intentionally rather than to run my ideas of what i was compiling from what i was seeing in the professional industry as of late. I spend too many hours watching porn of all sorts from things that are pretty softcore to things i care not to mention here because it might freak some people out.
I have no problem admitting that my views might not hold water with everyone here but i am quite thoughtful in my posts that inquire the opinions of others. I don't create new threads all the time just to keep the conversation going. If i am truly bothered by something i see time and time again i will run it by the people i can talk to about it. As i can't just pick up the phone and have this conversation with my mom or grandma.
LPSG is a sounding board for many of us. We find out if we are alone in our thoughts on an issue or if a majority feels the way we do which makes us all feel a little bit better to know we aren't losing our mind.