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Well, there was no "agreement." Mrs. Solo split back in September after a 22-year relationship. She cleaned out the bank account and left me holding the bag on the mortgage and all our other bills. I've gotten $200 from her in the last eight months. After she left, she lived out of her car for a while from what I understand. After about three weeks, during which she wouldn't return calls, texts, etc, and me having no idea where she even was, she asked to meet and told me she wanted an informal separation followed by a divorce. About a week later, she stopped by to grab some clothes and told me she'd never asked for a divorce. She came back for a few days towards the end of October, and then left again. Apparently she's now staying with a friend about an hour away from our house. Last week I met with her, and she told me that leaving me was the worst mistake she ever made, but she doesn't know how to fix it. She also told me at this point that she's sorta seeing somebody else, and that they've been having sex, but she really wants to try to reconnect with me. *throws up a little bit in mouth* She then goes on to tell me that sex with the guy is just awful, and that he's so tiny she can't even tell when he's in. Too much information, but appropriate for this board I guess. Large penis humiliation? I asked her why she thought cheating on me would help us get back together, and that's when she explained to me that since we were separated, it wasn't cheating. That's what prompted my original question. I haven't even gone on a date since she split out of some weird misguided sense of loyalty, but that's all gonna change now that I know the rules of the game. I wasn't too keen on the idea of getting back together even before I found out she was sleeping with somebody else, but that definitely sealed the deal for me.