plumbr
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1. Should I accept that people drink, dropping my morals ( or attempting to ) altogether in order to fit in since I am the odd one out?
My belief is that drinking shouldn't be associated with morals. People make a choice to drink, smoke, gamble, etc. The consequences of these things, however, can reflect their morals. If you drink responsibly, chances are you are less inclined to do "sin." I have friends that drink socially to network and never get drunk. To him, I believe that it does more good than harm. If you don't drink because you're allergic or have any health problems, then I agree with you about not drinking a drop. But if you choose not to drink because it is a bad "moral," then you shunned yourself of an experience you can learn about. You can decide what you want after you have had a drink. And if you did but still hate drinking then don't drink.
2. Have you ever had to make such a decision?
I shunned my friend that I've grew up with because she started to drag her drinking problems into other people's lives. I never persecuted her because she was drinking, in fact, I encouraged her to drink responsibly and enjoy the social aspects of it. I cannot remember how many times I told her to becareful and be wary of the people you're drinking with. I warned her the possible about the consequences of drinking. But after all that advice, she seemed to take my word lightly. I started to shun her because she started blaming me for a problem and refused my help. In short, my close friend was a victim of an argument and she, first, placed blame onto herself and then onto me when I was never ever even involved with the problem. It took me quite a while to consider shunning her, but I eventually did it.
My belief is that drinking shouldn't be associated with morals. People make a choice to drink, smoke, gamble, etc. The consequences of these things, however, can reflect their morals. If you drink responsibly, chances are you are less inclined to do "sin." I have friends that drink socially to network and never get drunk. To him, I believe that it does more good than harm. If you don't drink because you're allergic or have any health problems, then I agree with you about not drinking a drop. But if you choose not to drink because it is a bad "moral," then you shunned yourself of an experience you can learn about. You can decide what you want after you have had a drink. And if you did but still hate drinking then don't drink.
2. Have you ever had to make such a decision?
I shunned my friend that I've grew up with because she started to drag her drinking problems into other people's lives. I never persecuted her because she was drinking, in fact, I encouraged her to drink responsibly and enjoy the social aspects of it. I cannot remember how many times I told her to becareful and be wary of the people you're drinking with. I warned her the possible about the consequences of drinking. But after all that advice, she seemed to take my word lightly. I started to shun her because she started blaming me for a problem and refused my help. In short, my close friend was a victim of an argument and she, first, placed blame onto herself and then onto me when I was never ever even involved with the problem. It took me quite a while to consider shunning her, but I eventually did it.