More Men Claiming To Be Straight Looking For Gay Sex?

Over the last 5 years, are more and more men claiming to be straight looking for gay sex?

  • Yes, that has been my experience

    Votes: 37 41.1%
  • Yes, that is my perception

    Votes: 37 41.1%
  • No, that has not been my experience

    Votes: 7 7.8%
  • No, that is not my perception

    Votes: 9 10.0%

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If you are someone open to having sex with other men, you'd be crazy not to try it.

In any athletic activity, men generally have an advantage over women. Sex is no different.

Other men also know what works for them, something women can only imagine. If you want your dick sucked right, your best bet is a gay man.
 

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I've been reading about more and more straight men in unfulfilled marriages, where their wives either don't have sex with them anymore or are not good lovers, or who are single and don't want the drama of a relationship with a woman to deal with, who regularly hook up with with another guy to receive blowjobs and/or hand jobs. I think it's far more common that most people would think.
 

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I've been reading about more and more straight men in unfulfilled marriages, where their wives either don't have sex with them anymore or are not good lovers, or who are single and don't want the drama of a relationship with a woman to deal with, who regularly hook up with with another guy to receive blowjobs and/or hand jobs. I think it's far more common that most people would think.
Thanks for your response......I think this is definitely part of it.......add in the increased availability and visibility of gay / bisexual porn.....just increases a guy's interest and curiosity about MM sex.......he's very horny, and the sex in gay porn often looks pretty damn hot.....
 

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Thanks for your response......I think this is definitely part of it.......add in the increased availability and visibility of gay / bisexual porn.....just increases a guy's interest and curiosity about MM sex.......he's very horny, and the sex in gay porn often looks pretty damn hot.....
In my experience as an observer, it's really not so much about that, although MM sex is certainly very hot. :) It's more about straight men realizing that a male partner will focus 100% of his energy on pleasuring them to the maximum extent possible. I've chatted quite a bit with a straight guy who is divorced and in his mid-50s. He has no interest whatsoever in dating women. Out of curiosity, he started hooking up with a few guys for hand jobs and blowjobs, and much to his surprise he's getting the best sex of his life. To paraphrase his words, he's experiencing the most intense and satisfying orgasms he's ever had. His penis is being worshiped in a way no woman has ever even remotely considered doing. After each encounter, he and his male partner are fully satisfied: he's had an amazing orgasm, and his male partner has enjoyed the sheer thrill of sexually satisfying him. It's a total win-win for them both.

Quoted from his profile on the site where I met him: "I'm a straight guy who learned a secret: gay and bi guys give the best head. And many of them want nothing but a mouthful of hot seed in return. Some are total sperm-addicted cock sluts who can't help themselves. I always unzip for these guys. I think of it as feeding the hungry."
 

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Thanks for your response......I think this is definitely part of it.......add in the increased availability and visibility of gay / bisexual porn.....just increases a guy's interest and curiosity about MM sex.......he's very horny, and the sex in gay porn often looks pretty damn hot.....
I think you're conflating two different things here. Unfulfilled guys going to like a gloryhole for a good blowjob is not the same as watching gay porn in my mind. One doesn't require any attraction to men, just pure physical pleasure. If you watch gay porn though and become aroused while doing so, it seems like there is something a bit more going on there. imho
 
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I think you're conflating two different things here. Unfulfilled guys going to like a gloryhole for a good blowjob is not the same as watching gay porn in my mind. One doesn't require any attraction to men, just pure physical pleasure. If you watch gay porn though and become aroused while doing so, it seems like there is something a bit more going on there. imho
I'm just saying that more and more unfulfilled guys may be going to glory holes more often in part because they may have watched some gay porn.....watching a guy getting his dick sucked by another man......and it looked so damn good, that the unfulfilled guys begin looking for and going more often to glory holes........
I do agree that there are also those guys watching and getting into gay porn who may actually be looking for more than a simple blow job. Either way, I think both activities are a "good thing".....more and more men stepping outside of their comfort zone to enjoy MM sex and relationships....
 
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I'm just saying that more and more unfulfilled guys may be going to glory holes more often in part because they may have watched some gay porn.....watching a guy getting his dick sucked by another man......and it looked so damn good, that the unfulfilled guys begin looking for and going more often to glory holes........
I do agree that there are also those guys watching and getting into gay porn who may actually be looking for more than a simple blow job. Either way, I think both activities are a "good thing".....more and more men stepping outside of their comfort zone to enjoy MM sex and relationships....
Ah I see what you mean in the first instance. I agree then. I certainly am not opposed to men discovering new dimensions to their sexuality, whether it's a simple blowjob or something more. I think for some it could be just mere curiosity and for others they might actually discover something much deeper. Seems good all around as long as people are able to be honest with themselves and others.
 
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In my experience as an observer, it's really not so much about that, although MM sex is certainly very hot. :) It's more about straight men realizing that a male partner will focus 100% of his energy on pleasuring them to the maximum extent possible. I've chatted quite a bit with a straight guy who is divorced and in his mid-50s. He has no interest whatsoever in dating women. Out of curiosity, he started hooking up with a few guys for hand jobs and blowjobs, and much to his surprise he's getting the best sex of his life. To paraphrase his words, he's experiencing the most intense and satisfying orgasms he's ever had. His penis is being worshiped in a way no woman has ever even remotely considered doing. After each encounter, he and his male partner are fully satisfied: he's had an amazing orgasm, and his male partner has enjoyed the sheer thrill of sexually satisfying him. It's a total win-win for them both.

Quoted from his profile on the site where I met him: "I'm a straight guy who learned a secret: gay and bi guys give the best head. And many of them want nothing but a mouthful of hot seed in return. Some are total sperm-addicted cock sluts who can't help themselves. I always unzip for these guys. I think of it as feeding the hungry."
I think you are hitting on two other aspects of MM sex that are very appealing to many men......the fact that it is much easier to "hook up" for sex with another man (vice with a woman....less time, energy, drama, etc....).....and how very very good MM sex can be. The orgasms can be so powerful and fulfilling. It's easy to hook up, and the MM sex is wonderful.....all without the "hassles" a man often goes through when dealing with women. Just my opinion.
 
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I think you are hitting on two other aspects of MM sex that are very appealing to many men......the fact that it is much easier to "hook up" for sex with another man (vice with a woman....less time, energy, drama, etc....).....and how very very good MM sex can be. The orgasms can be so powerful and fulfilling. It's easy to hook up, and the MM sex is wonderful.....all without the "hassles" a man often goes through when dealing with women. Just my opinion.
I can certainly attest to what you're saying about MM sex. Hooking up was never something I particularly enjoyed, but even so those experiences were intense and satisfying to a degree. I love the fact that MM sex is very penis-focused and orgasm-driven. In the context of a loving relationship, the intensity is still a big part of it. When my husband and I make love, I get so much energy and excitement from sucking his penis and experiencing the rush of his orgasm.
 
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Reading this thread has enlightened me a bit about men’s perceptions of sexuality, the idea to get a blowjob through a gloryhole without seeing the guy, for pleasure and feeling straight? fair game.

But I feel we need as a society to just end terms gay and straight as often as not they only end in hate. That straight guy you sucked off might then go make a homophobic joke with his work mates or cause his Mrs to feel devalued or abused, I’m very much gay but I can’t say I’ll never ever be attracted to a woman, we are all too complex for such basic terms.
 
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I think we've had centuries where the most empowered demographic has been white straight Christian biologically male people.

To be anything else would result in a significant loss in opportunities in many ways.

So from that perspective, it's not so much the straight label itself that's the problem. It is really the loss of social standing that comes with being gay or bi or whatever.

While that is changing, we still have a long way to go.