I think it’s impossible to separate what the attraction is. I know by women, I’ve been approached way more because of my looks than for any hint of my size. However, amongst the gay men that have approached me, the percentage that have gawked at any vpl or bulge is maybe a bit higher.
Sometimes. But overall I think being approached is a confidence booster regardless of the reasons.
Of course. It’s always in my mind somewhere. My factory setting is rough. That’s still possible. I’m bigger than 99.9% of people, yet biologically, it isn’t that different from average. Vaginas are sturdy. I think I feel the difference with lack of full penetration. 3-4” of depth does wonders.
Not at all. Not with women I’m not involved with Tried it a few times in my late teens as an approach and it failed miserably. Tried it to pull an ex back, and it didn’t work. But “bragging” about how I’m going to use it with my wife or someone I was then currently dating turned them on. I suspect it was just the dirty talk they liked.