hey, question for the women here... sooo i'm pretty large for my gf (she's petite about 5'3 and 95lbs) and i'm about 8inches. i'm the only guy she's ever been with and right now she's not really used to the feeling of penetration (even when she's on top its more trying to grind than going up and down). in her words, there's just too much pressure and no matter how fast or slow i go she says it feels like she's being jack-hammered. one of her suggestions is to make the sex more passionate and i'm not sure where to go with this. any ideas??