More powerful orgasms triggered by pain?

[B_Nicodemous]

RD, I think it`s safe to say that we ALL love your visual aides! ;P We (my guy and I) have been charting my back to see if there is any ryhme or reason to the distribution of my e-zones (esp in regards to the zones that like the most abuse painwise) I have some interesting things to share regarding that (well we thought they were) that I will share when I get home from work (on break so really don`t have time) will post 3 more hrs or so.

 

[B_Nicodemous]

Ok. Real quick then it's off to bed. As I stated in one of your threads I have a super sensitive e-spot left side of my back, bout 2 inches left of the spine around the thoracic and lumbar vertebrae meet. It's like a roughly 4sqin area that goes into blissful twitchiness when touched, and has a hotline to my cock and ass.

Anyhoo...about 2 inches above (or more appropriately beginning 2 inches above) is the area I LOVE having clawed to hell and back. Like it doesn't even register as pain anymore. It gets hot and prickly after a bit, but that just makes me want to have him scratch harder. Continuing up to my neck and you encounter a painfully ticklish spot. Well it can be highly ticklish, and it's only through major concentration that I can translate it to pure pleasure. My left nipple (directly in a straight line from my scratch me center) is also the one I love having bit, nipped, and sucked till it's gloriously bruised. When he does these things I build up to orgasm faster and seem to cum harder once I am there. I just find it wired that I have, fairly in a line on my back ticklish/sensual, painful/sensual, and then hyper-sensual.

My right side seems totally wired differently. That nipple can't take biting, but is overly sensitive to the point that the slightest flick of the tongue sends it into overdrive. Its corresponding back area likes only light scratches, (it can do hard scratches for so long before needing a break) and the lower back area is, meh, to touch. The right side of my neck is almost exclusively ticklish. After I cum once or twice the right side seems to line up better sensorywise with the left. I guess I found it cool because it seems to me like there is a funky nerve wiring going on along the left side, where pain seems to be interpreted more as pleasure. My right side does better only after I cum, when my body is flooded with endorphins. I think I am my own best example of my two theories!

I will put this to the test over the next few months, and see if my inital obsevations are correct. I am still having a difficult time to report details in a lucid way when my body wants only to ride the waves of pleasure and details be damned! Wish me luck!:biggrin1:

 

[B_subgirrl]

RD, I think it`s safe to say that we ALL love your visual aides! ;P

Seconded! And I'm not usually into the visual stuff. I like these ones though. They're quick and illustrative.

Anyhoo...about 2 inches above (or more appropriately beginning 2 inches above) is the area I LOVE having clawed to hell and back. Like it doesn't even register as pain anymore. It gets hot and prickly after a bit, but that just makes me want to have him scratch harder.

My left nipple (directly in a straight line from my scratch me center) is also the one I love having bit, nipped, and sucked till it's gloriously bruised. When he does these things I build up to orgasm faster and seem to cum harder once I am there.

Mmmmm . . . . *squirm*

This is not fair! First I had RawDog getting me horny every two seconds (married so no follow through :frown1 and now I have YOU getting me horny (with no follow through :frown1. Very not fair.

Seriously, those are some of the things that make me melt with pleasure.

My right side seems totally wired differently.

Now this I find very strange but extremely interesting.

I will put this to the test over the next few months, and see if my inital obsevations are correct.

I look forward to hearing about it, especially if it's as good as this post was :biggrin1:

I am still having a difficult time to report details in a lucid way when my body wants only to ride the waves of pleasure and details be damned! Wish me luck!:biggrin1:

Tell me about it! Sex for me is all about sensations. I find it really difficult to translate those sensations into visuals and words.

Much as I want to hear the details, make sure you take time to ride the waves as well :tongue:

 

[RawDog]

Interesting details, Nicodemous, very interesting.

 

[B_Nicodemous]

Well, I just found it weird is all.:redface:

It's like someone slapped two separate people together and called it a night lol! Actually the disconnect seems limited to that. Deep pressure is registered consistently. When my Guy is giving me a massage, I find it equally intoxicating having him kneed either side. I do enjoy him digging his thumbs into my trapezius muscles to the point where I almost pass out :biggrin1:lol I like the pain/pleasure line to be blurred there. Likewise my legs. If he are 69ing or I am rimming him while laying on my back and he is in a reverse cowgirl I enjoy him raking his nails over my legs. They seem rather well in synch. Scratching in an s shape from below my patellas around the inner thigh above the patella then a quick turn back into my thigh works on both legs. It sends shivers all over just thinking about it.:tongue: So no differences there.

I wish I could be sure of my arms, but I have nerve damage from being attacked by an Akita almost 10 years ago. I recovered all sensation in my right arm, even though that was the one that got ripped open way worse. The left got only a few bites, but I had a numb spot over half of it for more than six years.:frown1: So no real way to compare the arms.

My ears react the same to nibbling and biting, and my lovers whispered words of encouragement.:wink:

Anyways... we got together for a bit today and he had me on my back, pounding the hell out of me. He slowed down and shifted my legs so that my left leg was draped over his left shoulder while my right was on the bed. He was restraining my left arm. He pulled almost all the way out then rammed pushed it back in, but I had bucked back really fast, and the collision, well it was a doozy. Took my breath away. He paused all concerned an asked how I was, and started apologizing and I told him there was nothing to apologize for and if he could do it again. We did it a few more times and the pain/pleasure was fuckin' intense. He asked if I wanted to try two in a row, and I said yes. He fired them of in rapid succession, as I rammed back as fast...at which point I asked him to stop (which of course started a whole new round of apologies! lol He's a sweetie. I told him I was the one who asked him too!)

Anyways, although it hurt a bit more then I normally like, I was super turned on. I mounted him and bucked until I came (don't ask for the details on this one RD, I was to blissed out to notice!:redface::tongue I guess I ended up at some point bending his dick in that funky way where it should hurt but feels great, and he said he came harder then he has in a while.

I don't think I will have him double tap me like that again (well at least not anytime soon! lol) but it was pretty cool.

 

[B_Nicodemous]

What sucks is that we have conflicting schedules for a month (maybe two!)...so this rendezvous will have to last me *sigh*:frown1:

 

[RawDog]

I need to experiment with the scratching the legs while doing 69. Good insight on the massage thing tooThe almost hurting until you pass out was a good one.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Well, I just found it weird is all.:redface:

Definitely strange. I wonder if you are quite unusual, or if there are many others out there with a right/left side mismatch.

When my Guy is giving me a massage, I find it equally intoxicating having him kneed either side. I do enjoy him digging his thumbs into my trapezius muscles to the point where I almost pass out :biggrin1:lol I like the pain/pleasure line to be blurred there.

Deep massage prompts moans from me that are nearly as loud as when I'm having sex. Interesting that we both like pleasure/pain there too.

I wish I could be sure of my arms, but I have nerve damage from being attacked by an Akita almost 10 years ago.

My friend also has extensive nerve damage in her hand from a dog bite. Apparently dog teeth and the human body don't mix . . .

Anyways, although it hurt a bit more then I normally like, I was super turned on. I mounted him and bucked until I came (don't ask for the details on this one RD, I was to blissed out to notice!:redface::tongue

You were in my wonderful floaty place? I'm usually fucked for details, thanks to the floating.

You've given enough details to keep me happy for a while at least :biggrin1:

I don't think I will have him double tap me like that again (well at least not anytime soon! lol) but it was pretty cool.

Sounds fantastic! I might have to keep it in mind for my next play session.

What sucks is that we have conflicting schedules for a month (maybe two!)...so this rendezvous will have to last me *sigh*:frown1:

:frown1: I'm in a similar position with my FB. I don't get to see him often, but when I do it gives me enough fantasy material to keep me going for months.

 

[Empathizer]

I tend not to let anyone massage me because I don't trust anyone not to misread the signals (loud moaning, etc.). Also, as with just about any pleasurable touching, all of it is rather powerfully sexual for me.

 

[B_subgirrl]

I tend not to let anyone massage me because I don't trust anyone not to misread the signals (loud moaning, etc.).

ROFL :biggrin1:. I do get some funny looks when I'm getting a massage.

On the serious side, there is a guy I know who has been trying to convince me to have sex with him for YEARS. He always wants to give me a massage, and I end up sitting there like a petrified tree trying my hardest not to give out any false signals. Then I start to worry that he might feel bad, because he's seen other people massage me which of course produced the loud moans, and now nothing he's doing is getting a reaction. So
I wriggle my shoulders a little bit, and make some itty bitty noises. But then I get scared that I'm encouraging him, so I make some kind of excuse and run away!

 

[B_Nicodemous]

I tend not to let anyone massage me because I don't trust anyone not to misread the signals (loud moaning, etc.). Also, as with just about any pleasurable touching, all of it is rather powerfully sexual for me.

Emp, I only let certain people massage me (My guy bieng at the top of my list!) due to that reason. I will let my close friends massage me, becuase they know that my moans, grols, ect are just how I react to having my back (they don't get to massage any other parts:wink rubbed.

ROFL :biggrin1:. I do get some funny looks when I'm getting a massage.

On the serious side, there is a guy I know who has been trying to convince me to have sex with him for YEARS. He always wants to give me a massage, and I end up sitting there like a petrified tree trying my hardest not to give out any false signals. Then I start to worry that he might feel bad, because he's seen other people massage me which of course produced the loud moans, and now nothing he's doing is getting a reaction. So
I wriggle my shoulders a little bit, and make some itty bitty noises. But then I get scared that I'm encouraging him, so I make some kind of excuse and run away!

ROTFLMAO!!! uttahere:I am incapable of only making itty bitty noises, so if I was in that situation I would either freeze up, run off, or just go with the flow and let the massage venture further south...:wink:

 

[Empathizer]

Nico--

Exactly. I can't shut up, so I would have to be pretty vehement about it. Although I'm not certain that letting someone who fancies you give you massages if he doesn't know (that is, if you've never told him) that it's never going any fiurther isn't just a bit mean. Men are capable of bittersweet longing, too.

 

[B_Nicodemous]

That would be mean. But with me I do let them know, and really, if i trusted some guy enough, were that close of friends with him,to let him massage me...he'd have a really good (99.9999%) shot of it going further if he wanted it to. I'd see it as another expresion of friendship (probably why i had so many FWB once upon a time! lol)

 

[RawDog]

I tend not to let anyone massage me because I don't trust anyone not to misread the signals (loud moaning, etc.). Also, as with just about any pleasurable touching, all of it is rather powerfully sexual for me.

One of my favorite massages with my wife involves the prone-bone position while giving her a massage. No misreading the signals there.

 

[B_Nicodemous]

LOL! I guess not!:wink::smile::tongue:

 

[B_subgirrl]

Nico--

Exactly. I can't shut up, so I would have to be pretty vehement about it. Although I'm not certain that letting someone who fancies you give you massages if he doesn't know (that is, if you've never told him) that it's never going any fiurther isn't just a bit mean. Men are capable of bittersweet longing, too.

That would be mean.

Do you guys really think it's mean? I'd never thought that it might be mean. I've never told him that outright that it's not going any further, but I've been saying no to sharing his bed for a decade. I would have thought I was being obvious enough, but maybe not?

And sharing massages with people you aren't having sex with is quite common in that community of people (as is flirting), so I've never seen accepting a massage from someone there as being a promise of (or even hinting at) sex - despite my rather pornographic sound effects. I think it would be even worse to say I don't want a massage from him. I'd think that would send the message that I'm so grossed out by him that I don't want him touching me, which isn't true. But I don't want him to think I'm leading him on either. That's something I've always tried not to do with anyone, unless I intend to follow through.

I'd see it as another expresion of friendship (probably why i had so many FWB once upon a time! lol)

I also see it as an expression of friendship and have had quite a few FBs. Maybe it was all the massages

One of my favorite massages with my wife involves the prone-bone position while giving her a massage. No misreading the signals there.

It doesn't stay a massage for long if you've got me in THAT position. Putting your hands all over me, with your cock nestled between my legs . . . definitely not the ingredients of a long massage :tongue:

 

[Empathizer]

I just think that transparent honesty is the way to go. I think men can nurse forever the hope that this time maybe she'll let me..., and if you never discussed it, you never know how he feels about it.

 

[RawDog]

It doesn't stay a massage for long if you've got me in THAT position. Putting your hands all over me, with your cock nestled between my legs . . . definitely not the ingredients of a long massage :tongue:

My cock is nestled inside the vagina, not between the legs. Basically my hands giving a massage, while the rest of me is doing this:

http://www.lpsg.org/members/rawdog/albums/some+of+my+favorite+gifs/65918-pronebonetrance.html

I just think that transparent honesty is the way to go. I think men can nurse forever the hope that this time maybe she'll let me..., and if you never discussed it, you never know how he feels about it.

This I agree with totally.

 

[B_subgirrl]

I just think that transparent honesty is the way to go. I think men can nurse forever the hope that this time maybe she'll let me..., and if you never discussed it, you never know how he feels about it.

Thanks for the feedback on that one Emp. You know how you sometimes say you're socially retarded? Well, I fall firmly into that category too sometimes, so the different point of view is truly helpful.

If I can think of a not-too-hurtful way of doing it I'll tell him next time it comes up. I have a particularly hard time with this guy because we've known each other a long time, if not well. And well . . . he's heard me having sex. A lot, and often. He knows I've screwed a bunch of people we know. And I don't really want him to wonder why I've had sex with them and not him (and why I practically melt over my FB, when I'm supposedly not having sex with him), and I really don't want him to get hurt over it. But I guess from what you've said he may be thinking and feeling all that already.

 

[B_subgirrl]

My cock is nestled inside the vagina, not between the legs. Basically my hands giving a massage, while the rest of me is doing this:

http://www.lpsg.org/members/rawdog/albums/some+of+my+favorite+gifs/65918-pronebonetrance.html

Oh, seriously? I thought you only meant you were in that position, not that you were actually fucking . . .

In THAT case, I'd be wriggling my ass around, telling you to stop the massage and get on with fucking me!

This I agree with totally.

Alright guys, you've convinced me. I usually think honesty is the best policy but I hate saying no, especially with this guy, for the reasons I've already described. Apparently it's time for me to grow some balls.