More Straight or More Gay?

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  1. jack_again

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    I have my straight/gay percentage set at 50/50 as you can see, but I'm wondering - what should determine this ratio? I've had sex with many more men than women, but it's usually been a one-off situation and rarely many multiple times or, gasp, a relationship. I've had much more heterosexual sex with women, meaning, a greater quantity of sexual encounters, girlfriends, etc. I plan to itemize my sexual history so I can get a number of men/women I've been with. SO, what do you say? Should the straight/gay ratio be based on number of partners or number of instances? If the determining factor is partners, then I'd say I'm about 90% gay. If the other way around, it's probably the opposite! Thanks :smile:
     
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    I'll start with the ladies. Alice and I kissed a lot in high school, but never went very far. Hilary sucked my cock a lot and eventually took my virginity. I changed over to her friend Christine not long after. In college Liz was a fuckbuddy. And then I stayed with K for a long time. There was that one-off with Susan. At work I was with Hannah, a GREAT fuck. Then Donna and I fucked our way across Europe. On the road I managed Monica and Ricky and some whore in a stairwell in NY city. Iris, of course. That one drama girl. I chowed her box but she told me she was sleepy - ha! Before my current girlfriend Pammy, I fooled around with Martha. So, doesn't seem like many, I'll feel really bad if I'm forgetting anyone. 15?!

    Now the gents....

    Damn. In Amsterdam I started out by going to gay porn houses. This ancient guy jerked my rod. When I got back I met a guy in a (straight) porn theater who took me back to his house and really fucked me silly - and he turned out to be my girlfriend's neighbor! Before that I bravely ventured into a gay bar and afterwards had bad car sex in a parking lot and got busted by the cops for doing so :( My favorite was Mike who I met on gaydar. Japanese guy at the local college, we had amazing sex 4 times, our cocks were perfect matches. I often still fantasize about him. Gaydar gave me about, let's say, 10 encounters. I've been to a handfull of sex clubs a handfull of times and there had sex with a handfull of guys each time. So let's just say 5 times 5 times 5 - 125? That's a bit steep, let's say 50. My favorite was in SF where I had sex with 2 shemales in the same night! But I guess they're a wash. Recently, I've been seeing about 1 guy a year for the last 10 years. So, grand total, give or take: 65

    If I were to go strictly by the numbers - I'm 80% gay! Snap
    This list may have to be updated.
     
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    Well I have mine posted as 50/50 as well, but it changes from day to day. Shit, even hour to hour. It all depends on what I am in the mood for at that moment. So who knows, maybe one day it's 80 gay and 20 str8 then an hour later its 20 gay and 80 str8. I figure "Fuck it!" (literally) just go with it:tongue:
     
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    I put myself as 100% straight because I would never let another guy fuck me. However I have had a fantasy for awhile now where my girlfriend/wife would fuck another man in front of me and make me eat his cum. Does that make me gay at all?
     
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    Well not letting another guy fuck you would just make you a top hehe. Wanting to watch your wife/gf get plowed by another dude is just hot period. The eating his load part?...a walk on the gay side for sure. Although if you are doing all of this with your wife/gf wanting it, then it's all good. Why even worry if it was gay of you or not if your girl is getting off with you? :eek:
     
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    Wow! What a GREAT fantasy! Hmm, are you at all gay because you fantasize about slurping down another man's jizz? Why do you find this idea sexy? How would your girl make you eat his cum, as you imagine it? I've drank semen before and I love the taste and texture. But usually I find that after I myself ejaculate, I no longer have any interest in eating spunk, neither mine nor anyone else's. Do you consume your own sperm? Thanks for the comment!
     
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    Wow! What a GREAT fantasy! Hmm, are you at all gay because you fantasize about slurping down another man's jizz? Why do you find this idea sexy? How would your girl make you eat his cum, as you imagine it? I've drank semen before and I love the taste and texture. But usually I find that after I myself ejaculate, I no longer have any interest in eating spunk, neither mine nor anyone else's. Do you consume your own sperm? Thanks for the comment!
     
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    Not sure why I find it sexy exactly. I couldn't give an exact answer but for some reason I wouldn't shallow a another guys load unless my girlfriend fucked him first and told me to shallow it. Eating another dude's sperm isn't really a turn on for me unless I feel like my girlfriend/wife/mistress was forcing me to do it. I was watching a cuckold porn once and yes I did consume my own sperm but I pretty much just did it out of being really horny that night. I didn't really enjoy the taste but I kind of feel like that is what makes it all the more hot. The fact that it doesn't taste good and I guess it's the ultimate humiliation. I think swallowing the other dude's load would be like the final nail in the coffin of the other guy being superior to me.
     
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    Ahh ok, now I get it, That makes sense...still sounds hot. Maybe one day you'll get a chance to actually try that out, and I'll want to hear all about it:biggrin1:
     
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    AH, I see, it's more about excitement through humiliation for you. I don't have this particular fetish, but tell me this: How would you like it if some guy forcibly raped you while your girl sat there and cackled tauntingly? He'd fuck your ass silly as your girl watched and laughed, stroke your stiffened cock to make sure that you came, and then pulled out and sprayed his jizz all over your face and in your mouth? Would that figure into your cuckolding kink? Just curious
     
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    Not even gonna lie, that made me hard. Really hard!
     
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    :) Glad to help
     
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    I would say judge it on preference. If you HAD to have a threesome, would you want it to be with 2 girls, one guy and one girl, or 2 guys? 50/50 sexuality would make you want to do it with one guy and one girl I suppose.
     
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    Interesting theory eyescream. Actually any of those combinations you mention sound inviting! Two girls, two guys, one of each, sounds great to me. In fact, I have ever only had one three-way and yes, it was two guys :) Have you ever had a three-way? Would you do it with another girl involved?
     
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    Well it does sound like you're bi then. Embrace it, I think you've got a lot of love to give in this case!:wink:

    Never had a threesome but if I were to, I would want it to be with 2 guys. I'm trying my best to be open-minded and sometimes I wish I was bi (I believe sexuality is a form of discrimination in a way). But for now, I could only do it with 2 guys. That would be really hot.:redface:
     
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    Okay, well be sure to give me a call if you wanna get it together ;)
     
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    What kind of threesome are you looking for? Like what turns you on about it being two guys? Do you just want two guys to fuck you or is it all about one of them being humiliated?
     
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    I wasn't sure what to put, but decided on 60/40 (straight/gay) BUT it's a rough estimation. I generally seem to prefer guys (have more crushes/had more boyfriends/have fallen in love with a man now etc) so I put it like that instead of 50/50. However, it can change a lot really - I've realized several times since I first discovered I like girls how fluid sexuality can be. For awhile in the past I thought I only liked girls, then awhile later I realized I was bisexual.
     
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    Lovely to hear from you lustful, thanks for contributing :) So, how many men to women would you say you've been with?
     
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    so if you don't have any experiences... what percentages do u have to take then?
     
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