For the past two weeks, I have had an issue with this. Not sure what's up, pardon the pun. It is a steel rod first thing in the morning every morning, to the point of being annoying at times, because there is not always time to take care of it before heading to work etc, and I am single. I thought this was confined to younger guys, but it seems to be returning for some reason. It's nice that my sex drive is still healthy, but I'd rather be in control of my dong versus it being in control of me. Any other 40+ age guys still have this problem?