for dating, okcupid.com is pretty good.... well populated, and most of the profiles actually have substance.... manline.com also has a section for people just looking to date, but there is also a section for people looking for sex.... as for hookup sites, adam4adam.com is the best one out there at the moment.... it has the most free features, and during peak times there's over 100 thousand people online.... if you want to pay to use sites like this, manhunt.net and squirt.org are the places to go.... gayromeo sadly is pretty crappy in north america.... i was on guys4men.com before they were merged with gayromeo, and i pretty much haven't been back since.... (it seems nobody else on guys4men.com liked it either because nobody - from toronto at least - is there anymore....) bearforest.com is a pretty fun site.... if you like bears.... silverdaddies.com is fun if you like older guys.... if you like mobile apps, maleforce and findfred are good ones on android.... i don't use mac so i can't say which ones work best on iphones.... okcupid and adam4adam also have mobile versions of their sites for when you're on the go.... (i should mention i have profiles in most of these places....)
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