mother found in bed with girlfriend what would you do?

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  1. the_1homie

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    this is crazy but true a few weeks ago my best friend of mine walked in on his girlfriend in bed with each other nude kissing and of course they were surprised and tried to explain but he left and hasnt spoken to either since he and his gf were set to get married and thats why the gf and his mother had inital contact he threw all her things out and doesnt answer her or his mothers calls its just a crazy situation what would you do?
     
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    Pardon?
     
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    The same damn thing!

    Did he know his girlfriend was bi-sexual before this happend? I'm assuning he thought his mom was straight, though I could be wrong.

    I might seek therapy to deal with the obvious feelings of pain, hurt; and betrayal. I know therapy isn't for everybody so I'm not saying your friend should do this.

    The more important outcome of this IMO is that he probably won't trust another woman again for a very, long time. That saddens me.



    This is too weird for words. :eek::confused::eek: My answer is based on the fact that this is in fact true; and not some sort of bizarre fictitious story which was accidentally put in the wrong forum category.
     
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    Have periods, commas and capital letters been outlawed?
     
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    And a quick read through before hitting the send button would be nice. This post makes no sense at all. If it wasn't for the title of the post I would not even have known who was in bed together.
     
  7. Principessa

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    Ease up fellas! Not sure about the OP because his profile is incomplete; however many of the people who post here do not have English as a first language. I try to cut them some slack on grammar because of this.

    That said, I did have to read his initial post 2 times to fully comprehend what was going on.
     
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    Yes, you could be right but......the title reads clearly. We all get the point though. Mother, girlfriend, bed.
     
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    So how would you respond to seeing your boyfriend in bed with your father on the eve of your marriage or civil union?
     
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    if the mom was his step mom id say games on and join the fun lol.

    not quite sure how'd id react in that situation to be honest
     
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    Can't wait to see the gag video on YouTube.
     
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    Indeed.
     
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    If the people are Alabamians.....the answer is quite simple.....HE HAS A THREESOME WITH HIS MOTHER AND GIRLFRIEND!
     
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    Ugh, that sucks... I guess I would do much the same, I would probably not talk to either ever again, but who knows, I mean, my mom...
     
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    My mom does this shit to me all the time. I just wish she wouldn't interfere in my life.

    :biggrin1:
     
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    yah that's wierd
    if I found my girl in bed with another woman I'd be ok with it I think
    (can't be 100% on that) but with my MOM
    wtf
     
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    if it was my girlfriend and HER MOM thats ok
    my girlfriend and MY MOM thats just weird
     
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    As October is breast cancer awareness month, obviously she was just thanking mom for giving her a breast exam when I stepped in the room.


    And I swear that this is only a picture of your dad, brother and I getting lubed up for our prostate exams:

    http://andrejkoymasky.com/lou/abc/e.jpg


    Just a simple misunderstanding or two, eh?:wink:
     
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    gives a whole new meaning to the phrase...."a loving family":biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1:
     
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    Well, my dad is almost 80 so the shock alone would most likely kill me.
     
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