I keep wanting to do PE, and I'll go for a few weeks or so, but I don't really see any gains, because I have a feeling I just need to do it for longer. Unfortunately, I just keep losing motivation to do it. Any ideas to keep myself motivated?
The desire for a bigger penis should motivate you if you truly want it. Are you keeping a journal of your exercises? Are you measuring regularly? Hopefully, these will help: http://www.lpsg.org/125004-achieving-success.html http://www.lpsg.org/124562-believe-in-your-gains.html
First weeks you should not expect any gains. Not because it's impossible, but it helps keep motivated. You should expect to find the best workout for yuo in the first few weeks. practice the exorcizes. Once you own the techniques you should be expecting growth
Thanks guys. I think one of the biggest things for me is that I usually use porn to get semi-hard for the jelqing and such. I always feel guilty about doing it because I feel like I'm cheating on my girl. I think I'm gonna start again but instead of using porn, I'll just concentrate. It'll take a little more effort, but then I feel like the work I'm doing will be for her more than if I was using porn.
Well, whatever rocks your boat I guess Use a hot towel. Really, your cock soaking up some hot water works wonders as a warmup
This is a separate issue, but why do you feel you are cheating on your girl? Do you feel guilty after you masturbate because she wasnt around? Think of it this way. Porn is not real. Its fantasy. ITs all in your head. Which is what you may need to get a semi chub for the excersizes. I mean, if you draw two stick figures fucking, that could be considered porn. Now if your girl feels uncomfortable with you watching porn, and she has mentioned it, and you promised you wouldnt, but you still do behind her back, that IS a form of cheating, I guess. ITs you going back on a promise without her knowledge. And if it that is the case, then you got bigger issues to deal with. Sorry guy.
Peer pressure, if friendly, can be a good motivator. On the many foreskin restoration sites, guys find peers and mentors, fellows that feel "stuck" at what ever stage they are at, and keep in touch with each other to report on attempts made, rather than giving up. They keep written and photographic diaries on their progress and share their experience with it, with each other, for years sometimes. Should work for PE guys as well, if willing to communicate and move forward. And frankly, if porn helps you get motivated to do exercises that eventually will benefit your girlfriend... I see no reason for guilt feelings! Onan
I'm sure it's possible... those are pretty serious gains, in a short time. Was surprised that there were no replies for my suggestion... Isn't that pretty much what you do as a "Coach" at your site, Big Al? (Thanks for being SO generous with all the info you share, bro!)