B_debonair87
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Wow, I thought Europeans were more friendly than Americans.
Couldn't be farther from the truth.
From my experiences, europeans seem to have that 'keep to myself, mind my own business" complex.
Wow, I thought Europeans were more friendly than Americans.
Couldn't be farther from the truth.
From my experiences, europeans seem to have that 'keep to myself, mind my own business" complex.
PSG, you are correct, most of the time I will have my little guy with me! TheBF has offered to babysit when he can so I can do things on my own, but he's a very busy person. I have looked into trying to find mommy groups in my area where I can meet other women in the same situation and where I can bring my baby along with me.
I found a website called Meetup.com. There are a lot of different kinds of groups there and some look very interesting. There are book clubs and groups for people into sports or cooking or politics or recreational activities like sports or gaming or dancing. I went to one thing and it turned out to be a fraud, an invitation to a sales pitch that made me feel like a moron for taking the time to go to it, but I think I just had bad luck on my first try and I'm going to try Meetup.com again.
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It's not a complex. It's a matter of perception. North Americans approach socialising and friend-making very differently from most Europeans. I'm a UK-US bi-national and act differnetly depending where I am. :smile:
It's true that in most of northern and western Europe (not so much in southern), talking randomly to a stanger would be considered odd unless you had some reason to do so, llike a common interest or acquaintance. For instance in a pub in England, I would never introduce myself at the beginning of the conversatiion with "Hi I'm John Doe", I would save it for the end, and only introduce myself if I hit it off with the person after a very low-key and casual conversation. I would never start a conversation with something personal (where they live, what they do, their kids), you begin with a common thing like how crowded the pub is, or the weather, or the traffic, or the sports on the tv. It's not a right or wrong thing, socialising is just approached differently from place to place.
where?
in many places, just starting to talk to someone will more likely make you seem like a nutcase rather than a potential new friend.
It's not a complex. It's a matter of perception. North Americans approach socialising and friend-making very differently from most Europeans. I'm a UK-US bi-national and act differnetly depending where I am. :smile:
It's true that in most of northern and western Europe (not so much in southern), talking randomly to a stanger would be considered odd unless you had some reason to do so, llike a common interest or acquaintance. For instance in a pub in England, I would never introduce myself at the beginning of the conversatiion with "Hi I'm John Doe", I would save it for the end, and only introduce myself if I hit it off with the person after a very low-key and casual conversation. I would never start a conversation with something personal (where they live, what they do, their kids), you begin with a common thing like how crowded the pub is, or the weather, or the traffic, or the sports on the tv. It's not a right or wrong thing, socialising is just approached differently from place to place.
Americans are much quicker to make "fast friends", which most Europeans would classify as casual acquaintances. I've found that it's slower to make a friend in Europe, but they are much more permanent and deep when you do.
But that's just my experience.