Moving for School....

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  1. B_Think_Kink

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    Alas I am so sad that I am moving across the province to attend school for 3 years. I'm sad for a number of reasons, I just made new friends, there will be no rave scene there and how many gay men will there be in a population of 4500 people?!


    Arg.. *cries*

    9 days left at home.
     
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    Awww, sorry to hear that. But I'm sure it'll be ok.
     
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    Agreed: life is always better where the gay men are. I can give a few reasons why, none of which is sexual in nature.

    I hope the transition won't be that bad. If it is, can you go somewhere else?

    Nowadays, location is everything to me. It seems at times that I put way too much emphasis on it, but I have to be in a place where I feel comfortable (that leave very few choices for me).

    Best of luck, Bull!
     
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    Get-R-Dun.

    Seriously...your life will be Sooooo much better after your done.
     
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    I know it will be, but that is 3 years away and 3 years is a long time for me not to have really fabulous friends. Lets hope the school has some flamers or someone equally fun.
     
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    TK, I am sure you will make some great new friends in college. The best is yet to come. My college days were among my happiest, as I am sure yours will be.
     
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    I've already graduated once from college. This is just a small college town now.
     
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    It's okay, you'll do fine. Three years from now when you graduate, they'll still be here posting and arguing.
     
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    Oh of course they will be here.. but all my friends off the site are all gay men. With exception to one straight guy.
     
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    It wont be so bad :smile:
     
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    How many gay men? Hmmm..... 4500 people, 5% of population...... should be 62.5 gay men minimum! That's 62 new queens who will be dazzled by your fabulousness!

    I think you will have a GREAT time!

    If you should HATE it though, leave. Don't stay for your parents or anything else. Leave, come home, find somewhere else. It's not a prison sentence. You can always change your mind.
     
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    It will all be good! Don't worry, you'll find people equally funny, amusing and friendly anywhere you'll go! Have fun!

    Although I do understand your sadness from having to stay apart (physically) from you present friends. But distance does actually strengthen friendship (whenever it's real friendship) so you won't have to worry.
     
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    As long as you have a computer. You will have us with you.
     
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    Are you trying to scare her into getting counseling?
     
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    Hahaha, Indeed it's almost a threaten!

    As in: "we're following your every move" :eek:
     
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    Just try to keep your three years to three years. I'm starting year number six on the wrong side of my state.
     
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    My mother tells me not to fret and that there will be plenty of gays just for me, lmao.
     
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    Awww once you settle in to things, it'll pass by faster than you'll realize. Then, you'll have to find new gay guys.
     
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    Hi Think Kink! Best of luck at school. You'll meet new people and hopefully a few will become your friends. Try to go back to visit your friends when your schedule and funds permit. Change often brings growth, and I hope that it's a positive experience for you.
     
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    Ugh one more day at home.. my room is so bare. I'm so sad.
     
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