Moving Off Of Sph

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I started getting turned on by sph in my early 20's. From day 1, you know that something like sph can't possibly be healthy, but we do unhealthy things when the other option is to do nothing at all, and when you are small, at least sph gets your dick SOME attention, be it unflattering. There is always kind of a feeling in the back of your mind that what you're doing is sick and as soon as a better option comes along you will be done with it. I'm 38 now and the other option never came along, and I've been having mental changes lately to where sph is becoming less and less attractive. I don't know if I've just gotten tired of sph after so many years or if I'm seeing myself, others, or the world much differently than I used to and I believe more in the chance that my dick might be adequate. Or maybe I'm just hitting the back end of life and the lower testosterone production has me so much less horny that my fetishes aren't appealing anymore. Either way, I'm finally losing interest in sph after years of countless awkward situations and really very few successful outcomes related to sph. It is certainly a band aid for a wound that requires stitches. I wish I had more to offer as far as what the stitches might be, but I don't.
 

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I don't know if this relates or not to your issue. But, things that turned me on about women in my 20's (or didn't) have evolved/changed too. In my teens and early 20's to 30's women with big shapely natural breasts were a major attraction. In fact I sort of put those women on a pedestal. Then as time progressed that aspect was OK but nothing special and I found I could be attracted to all types of looks and builds. So, if you have a small penis and at one time enjoyed having it made fun of and now inot so much well there are different there things within our personalities that change with age. I feel if you enjoy SPH or not, or whatever, as long as it doesn't harm others, enjoy life and whatever you find to turn you on.
 

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I think our tastes change over time, what once turns us on can, over time, evolve. I went through a redheads phase, then an indians phase etc., now, neither do it for me. As far as the "unhealthy" aspect, I would caution against equating sexual desires with self-identity. If it gets you hard, it must be filling an unfulfilled desire.
 
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