Moving to Japan

[B_subgirrl]

As teenagers most Japanese people aren't very comfortable with the opposite sex. Not sure if that changes when they are adults.

 

[earllogjam]

All chicks dig big dicks.

 

[Wish-4-8]

As teenagers most Japanese people aren't very comfortable with the opposite sex. Not sure if that changes when they are adults.

I have spent the last few hours reading the Gaijin Smash, and I dont really think that is necessarily true. My mouth is still wide open with the openess. 12 year old girls asking adult gaijin teacher if they have had sex? A student, in middle school pointing out to the gaijin teacher which classmate has had sex with who, both sexes? And everyone not only not denying it, but grinning about it. Its like looking at a train wreck. I couldnt look away, Im too much in shock!

 

[B_subgirrl]

I have spent the last few hours reading the Gaijin Smash, and I dont really think that is necessarily true. My mouth is still wide open with the openess. 12 year old girls asking adult gaijin teacher if they have had sex? A student, in middle school pointing out to the gaijin teacher which classmate has had sex with who, both sexes? And everyone not only not denying it, but grinning about it. Its like looking at a train wreck. I couldnt look away, Im too much in shock!

I knew around 60 Japanese students through exchange programs in high school and not one of them, male or female, was comfortable with the opposite sex.

What is the Gaijin Smash?

 

[deleted136887]

Ha ha I am very hairy so that is literally true. Thanks for the advice though everyone else! I hope that I have fun there and experience the culture...and get laid a lot.

Don't know Japan, but do know Korea, SE Asia in general.
You want to get laid a lot, it's easy.
You pay, no problem!

 

[hud01]

I knew around 60 Japanese students through exchange programs in high school and not one of them, male or female, was comfortable with the opposite sex.

What is the Gaijin Smash?

http://www.lpsg.org/2892635-post14.html

 

[Wish-4-8]

I knew around 60 Japanese students through exchange programs in high school and not one of them, male or female, was comfortable with the opposite sex.

What is the Gaijin Smash?

Where the students in Japan or some other country? Home field advantage is dangerous.

Someone in this thread posted the Gaijin Chronicles as a source. I went there and then found Gaijin Smash, the precursor. Still reading it. Still shocked.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Where the students in Japan or some other country? Home field advantage is dangerous.

The students were here, rather than in Japan. Both genders felt uncomfortable about anything even vaguely sexual, and neither gender was comfortable with others of the opposite gender (including their own classmates). The loosened up a little after exposure to us, but most of the boys would still blush if a girl talked to them (and vice versa). It could have been a result of the school they went to/area they came from. These students' families were quite well off.

Someone in this thread posted the Gaijin Chronicles as a source. I went there and then found Gaijin Smash, the precursor. Still reading it. Still shocked.

Thanks. I will take a look. Also thanks to Hud - I didn't realise the two were related.

 

[Wish-4-8]

Thanks. I will take a look. Also thanks to Hud - I didn't realise the two were related.

If you do, start from the very beginning in Gaijin smash since he references back to older stories as inside jokes. That thing reads like comedy, or fiction, till you realize the stories are true.

I dont think I could be a gaijin middle school teacher in Japan. Poor guy. Wait til you get to the "Kancho" attacks. I'd soooo bring a taser gun. Im not kidding.

 

[wallyj84]

The students were here, rather than in Japan. Both genders felt uncomfortable about anything even vaguely sexual, and neither gender was comfortable with others of the opposite gender (including their own classmates). The loosened up a little after exposure to us, but most of the boys would still blush if a girl talked to them (and vice versa). It could have been a result of the school they went to/area they came from. These students' families were quite well off.

I'm sorry, I've taught in Japanese high schools and junior high schools before, on two separate islands, and that does not match my experience at all. Japanese boys are extremely sexual and love to do things that in America would get a student automatically expelled. The girls, as innocent as they might act, are no angels. I've had wealthy students, coming from the best schools in their area, tell me truly bizarre things and ask me incredibly rude sexual questions.

I think these were either the best of the best, most serious students or they just wanted to keep up a good face in front of the foreigners. The average Japanese person, once you get under their shell, is very sexual.

 

[B_subgirrl]

I'm sorry, I've taught in Japanese high schools and junior high schools before, on two separate islands, and that does not match my experience at all. Japanese boys are extremely sexual and love to do things that in America would get a student automatically expelled. The girls, as innocent as they might act, are no angels. I've had wealthy students, coming from the best schools in their area, tell me truly bizarre things and ask me incredibly rude sexual questions.

I think these were either the best of the best, most serious students or they just wanted to keep up a good face in front of the foreigners. The average Japanese person, once you get under their shell, is very sexual.

Who knows what was up with our lot then?

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

Yeah I have to say when I visited a huge Manga and Anime emporium in Tokyo there was isle after isle of porn, a lot of it gay porn and a lot of it very explicit and very bizarre indeed which is targeted at Japanese school girls, and there were Japanese school girls everywhere, unabashedly leafing through hardcore cartoon gay pornography. It was very eye opening.

 

[ssongs]

I'm not too worried about how the school girls will act because I'm looking for someone that isn't, you know, a child. Thanks anyway!

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

I'm not too worried about how the school girls will act because I'm looking for someone that isn't, you know, a child. Thanks anyway!

Yeah I know, I was just responding to the discussion of the previous posters about whether Japanese teenagers were open about sexuality or not. Besides I suspect that if young people in Japan are so unabashed about sex that their older brothers and sisters probably are too. I wasn't suggesting you try and fuck a minor

 

[wallyj84]

I'm not too worried about how the school girls will act because I'm looking for someone that isn't, you know, a child. Thanks anyway!

Okay, one thing about Japanese women though is that sometimes they like to go comatose in bed. They just stop moving, responding and revert to almost vegetative state. Most of the guys that I've talked to have had this happen to them at least once, and it happened to me quite a few times as well.

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

Okay, one thing about Japanese women though is that sometimes they like to go comatose in bed. They just stop moving, responding and revert to almost vegetative state. Most of the guys that I've talked to have had this happen to them at least once, and it happened to me quite a few times as well.

Wow, Japanese guys do this too, less frequently I think from what you're saying, but what is with that? Is it from orgasmic pleasure or is it some kind of submissive sex technique thing?

 

[ssongs]

Okay, one thing about Japanese women though is that sometimes they like to go comatose in bed. They just stop moving, responding and revert to almost vegetative state. Most of the guys that I've talked to have had this happen to them at least once, and it happened to me quite a few times as well.

Weird! That's like those goats who freeze up when they get startled.

 

[wallyj84]

Wow, Japanese guys do this too, less frequently I think from what you're saying, but what is with that? Is it from orgasmic pleasure or is it some kind of submissive sex technique thing?

I think it's some kind of submission thing. A person's rank is very important in Japanese culture and those of lower rank are supposed to do whatever the person of higher rank wants, so I think it's their way of submitting.

It is very odd and a bit of a mood killer.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Yeah I know, I was just responding to the discussion of the previous posters about whether Japanese teenagers were open about sexuality or not. Besides I suspect that if young people in Japan are so unabashed about sex that their older brothers and sisters probably are too. I wasn't suggesting you try and fuck a minor

This was my point in bringing up the teenagers I knew.

 

[BigBen83UK]

mate you'll be fine, i've been living here for over a year now. I'm a mixed race british dude.

Yeah watch out for the 'maguro' (means tuna, basically what they call girls who lay there like a dead fish), generally girls over 23 seem to be a bit less inhibited like that. The first girl I slept with when I got here was 20 and it was awful! Now dating a 26yr old who doesn't mind putting her back into it

Spend some time to learn the language as it seems to be (in the opionion of the gaijin community) the best way to pick up the hottest girls that usually only Japanese guys can get.

Good luck mate, happy hunting.

Also bring condoms and deodorant from back home if you can. They both suck over here!