Mr average

[Thenavigatorcometh]

Well picking up the idea of "Porn Actresses" most of them are are slim, yes, I know there are the BBW and SSBBW actresses but as a proportion of porn it's not that much. I fall into the catergory of only getting rock hard when faced with large strong powerful women who can be gentle and just enjoy me as I am, - skinny basically.

Point is, this isnt average, I'm 6.5" erect, this might be average or not, I'm that confused it's stopped making a difference to be honest. I think there is no Mr. Average and God willing there is never going to be a Miss Average or Mrs Average if this happens my faith in human DNA will cease to exist and will kill myself in a very unaverage way!

So if you are browsing this forum Queen Latifah and you cant get to sleep thinking "what would it be like if I could eat what I wanted and a man might actually enjoy it if I went to the Gym and did some free weights and got some muscles" then yes please PM me.....

 

[carter2006]

Hey OP, thanks for pointing me to that site. It makes really interesting reading.

Personally I don't believe how most people report their own stats, and it's great to see a site with a healthy outlook on cock size. There are some fruitloops on this site who seem to think that people with average or smaller cocks are inferior, but that's just bullshit. Some people need a reality check and Mr Average is just that. Cool.

 

[D_Cock_Hudson]

Seems fairly objective. Won't stop men lying about their size of course.

 

[rabbit12345]

And what part of my statement leads you to believe I don't know women very well?

Because you said the following....

"Let's face it, women are much more likely to have sex with a guy who has a big dick than one with a small dick for a whole multitude of reasons. So whatever statistically average is for penis size, that same number is probably below the average size for what women deal with."

Women look at the whole package: face, personality, body, status etc etc.

They don't just see a big dick and want sex with that person. I am sure there are women like that, but I wouldn't say all.

 

[KTF40]

Because you said the following....

"Let's face it, women are much more likely to have sex with a guy who has a big dick than one with a small dick for a whole multitude of reasons. So whatever statistically average is for penis size, that same number is probably below the average size for what women deal with."

Women look at the whole package: face, personality, body, status etc etc.

They don't just see a big dick and want sex with that person. I am sure there are women like that, but I wouldn't say all.

If that's honestly what you think I mean what make that statement, you're completely misunderstanding my point. I think you should re-read some of my other posts in this thread directed at other members to understand the point I'm making.

Also while you address the demand issue (although underestimating it imo), you like Paige and Qwerty, seem to completely dismiss/ignore factors such as confidence and insecurity issues that certain segments of the male population have regarding their penis size.

 

[rabbit12345]

If that's honestly what you think I mean what make that statement, you're completely misunderstanding my point. I think you should re-read some of my other posts in this thread directed at other members to understand the point I'm making.

Also while you address the demand issue (although underestimating it imo), you like Paige and Qwerty, seem to completely dismiss/ignore factors such as confidence and insecurity issues that certain segments of the male population have regarding their penis size.

You make a really good point about size and confidence, but I have yet to meet a man who is so insecure he won't chase a girl he likes. In fact, in todays world it would appear that most people think they are gods gift to women, or may be it is just the city I live it.

While I am sure their are insecure and non-confident males around, there are many super confident avergae if not below averge males.

 

[KTF40]

You make a really good point about size and confidence, but I have yet to meet a man who is so insecure he won't chase a girl he likes. In fact, in todays world it would appear that most people think they are gods gift to women, or may be it is just the city I live it.

While I am sure their are insecure and non-confident males around, there are many super confident avergae if not below averge males.

Feel free to visit any small penis site and take a look at the general comments and attitude of many of its members towards their small penises (such as the one I posted earlier). You'll probably notice a difference between their perspective and the general perspective of people on this site or just the general attitude of men with average/above average endowments.

 

[NorthSwell]

Let's face it, women are much more likely to have sex with a guy who has a big dick than one with a small dick for a whole multitude of reasons. So whatever statistically average is for penis size, that same number is probably below the average size for what women deal with.

Interesting thread and interesting thought. All other things being equal I'd totally agree with you.

But there's a whole human being walking around attached to that cock. And I think your statement either assumes that all things are in fact equal or that above-average size is directly correlated with other 'make a woman much more likely to have sex with a guy' attributes (looks, money, intelligence, humor, charm, great abs, whatever...)

 

[basincreek]

You make a really good point about size and confidence, but I have yet to meet a man who is so insecure he won't chase a girl he likes. In fact, in todays world it would appear that most people think they are gods gift to women, or may be it is just the city I live it.

While I am sure their are insecure and non-confident males around, there are many super confident avergae if not below averge males.

I didn't chase many women I liked for years because I thought I was inadequate in the penis department. In fact I wouldn't even talk to some of them because I assumed that they wouldn't want the company of a non-huge guy.


Yeah I was messed up.

 

[karldergrosse]

(that being said, I think the Lifestyle/Ansel study mr.average is citing is one of the most scientific studies out there.)

I agree, DD. Of all the charts and graphs that I've found and studied, it seems to be the most reasonable and reality-based...for one reason, it is based on a larger sample than most. True, Kinsey had a much larger data base, but self-measurements are notoriously inexact and unreliable. Even LifeStyles' Cancun study also has uncertainties about it. How typical of the general population might (mostly) American students on spring break in Mexico be considered? And yes, there's the big (sic!) possibility that a preponderance of larger men were willing to be measured. It also most likely unintentionally excludes gay men, since measurable erections were brought on by presumably pulchritudinous female nurses. Is that important? Perhaps yes, perhaps no; one or two studies, at least, purport to have discovered different size averages between straight and gay men (a conclusion which I personally consider very suspect). Still other factors need to be considered, but perhaps most important is the fact (so far as I can discover) that we are not told whether measurements were bone-pressed or simply taken from the surface of the pubic pad. Though opinions can--and do--vary on which method is the "proper" one, it is important to know which was used. (In my opinion, bone-pressed is preferable for determining an individual man's length, and is absolutely imperative for the accuracy of a population-wide size comparison.)

Condomania has indicated that it intends to release its own study, based on data from its Theyfit measurement kit for ordering custom-sized condoms. Its subject pool (if correct) is immense: 27,000+ men from 70 or so different countries. Thus it promises to provide the most reliable figures so far--but here again we will have to be informed just how measurements have been taken. And there's always that old question: is average in one region or country or race the same as in others? Some claim that there are such variations. Should there therefore be a separate chart for each different constituency? Condomania already has released lists of the comparative rankings of overall populations (not broken down by individuals) of fifty states and twelve largest American cities.

In sum, the variables and confusions would seem to be far too great to ever yield complete certainty. Maybe, sooner or later, we'll come closer to definitively answering just what, exactly, constitutes average...maybe. But, realistically, do we really care...? Should we...?

 

[dirkjesje]

95% or more are between 4.5" and 7.25".
The variation is very small.
The perception of this site and porno set a dick of 5.7/8" small which is completly average.
I'm lucky to be 53. In my younger life, lenght, girth, didnt matter.
As long if you were caring, and had an ear for problems, you get a fuck. Whatever your dick was or is...

 

[D_Hammond Happydipper]

You make a really good point about size and confidence, but I have yet to meet a man who is so insecure he won't chase a girl he likes. In fact, in todays world it would appear that most people think they are gods gift to women, or may be it is just the city I live it.

My confidence is variable from day to day some days it's in the shitter other days I am over confident

 

[mexdude]

In my younger life, lenght, girth, didnt matter.
As long if you were caring, and had an ear for problems, you get a fuck. Whatever your dick was or is...

From all the guys ive ever heard that where quite lucky with women, ive never heard that they where hung ot anything

 

[rabbit12345]

Feel free to visit any small penis site and take a look at the general comments and attitude of many of its members towards their small penises (such as the one I posted earlier). You'll probably notice a difference between their perspective and the general perspective of people on this site or just the general attitude of men with average/above average endowments.

Thank you for directing me to those posts and sites.

Personality and personal insecurities are such in-depth topics. However, firstly, I generally do not take posts written on forums to be factually true. I wouldn’t compare posts from forums and my experience with this forum has led me to believe many members are inexperienced people.

I do believe you are right, smaller guys will have less confidence, but so will a guy who doesn’t have six pack abs. Everyone has insecurities to some degree.

Leading on from this, many women will tell you, those who are smaller can be much better in the bedroom because they compensate for their weaknesses. However, again this does not include everyone.

I think people are so unique and different that it would be hard to produce actual evidence for a claim on either side.

 

[Titsdude21]

Looks about right to me...idk about girth tho.

 

[bananaclubcock]

From all the guys ive ever heard that where quite lucky with women, ive never heard that they where hung ot anything

Not only that, I've heard through the grapevine that many of those 'lucky' guys were quite small. Getting people into bed isn't all about your cock and certainly isn't all about the size of your cock.

 

[KTF40]

Interesting thread and interesting thought. All other things being equal I'd totally agree with you.

But there's a whole human being walking around attached to that cock. And I think your statement either assumes that all things are in fact equal or that above-average size is directly correlated with other 'make a woman much more likely to have sex with a guy' attributes (looks, money, intelligence, humor, charm, great abs, whatever...)

There is no possible way you could conclude this is my point because I have been the biggest opponent in this thread of the idea that, "all things are in fact equal."

I think you should re-read some of my other posts in this thread directed at other members to understand the point I'm making.

 

[theoloniuscock]

Being in my late 40s I can relate to the earlier post about a time when penis size wasn't as much of a factor to males.

The advent of the internet, masses of freely available porn, size surveys and even sites like this have changed everything. Sex, porn and everything that goes along with it are mainstream topics of conversation now. It wasn't like this 20 years ago.

I remember not knowing where I stood, thinking maybe I was smaller than average as some women seemed cavernous (??!!!) others snug
I think I had read that a 6" penis was normal - maybe this was from the Kinsey info?

Today's woman is far better informed. She has access to everything, but I'm sure her perception of what is average is as influenced by porn as ours is. I think this is what is scary particularly for averagely endowed younger men. I remember how lacking in confidence I was in my teens and early 20s this is just added pressure.

That said the average repeatedly comes in at around 5.5 - 6" for length and just under 5" for girth whether its self reported or medically measured.
I would think 5 - 6.5" is the average range for length 4.5 - 5.25" for girth.
But that's just based on the limited info we have to work with.

 

[theoloniuscock]

Oh yes, the last woman I asked thought I was average in size.
Previously I have had women say - very long, huge head, thick, perfect, not small, above average etc.
They are more likely to use words like - very neat, beautiful, good looking etc which is something that men seem to skip over.
I'm 7 - 7.5" x 5"

 

[ivernios]

I'm 7 inches from base to tip along the top, and about 8 inches from below, and 5 inches in girth. I really do think that I am comparatively small with regard to other men in my experience. I have never met another man less than @ 7 inches.