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What are you guys thoughts on having more than one fuck buddy?
I have this guy I met (let’s call him Buddy #2) and we have had a handful of great times in the sack. Problem is I met him when one of my other fuck buddy’s (we’ll call him buddy 1) wasn’t around and I assume they were ghosting me but then out of the blue they started hitting me up again.
Buddy 1 tends to ghost a lot but hes got a great muscle body, cock is incredible and big and the sex is always exciting.
Buddy 2 is more of the average guy (like me), nice and very cute but more reserved. But so far has been way more reliable when it comes to meeting up.
But honestly both are great in bed so I don’t want to choose. Is it always understood that you never have to be beholden to one fuckbuddy? They are both bottom for me and I breed them too. I am on prep.

Just wondering do I need to be more responsible and have a convo with them so they know they aren’t my only bud or is that weird and something like that doesn’t need to be discussed it’s understood?
Funny enough there was a third buddy but they became increasingly unreliable but he was actually the hottest out of the 3 so if they spring up idk what I’m gonna do . Lol
 

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Tend to agree here - fuck as many guys as you wish. I would say to be honest with them if they were to ask you if they were the "only one", but in my experience, fuck buddies already know the likeliness that they are not the only buddy, and rarely ask.
 

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Most gay men, especially in large urban areas, understand that a fuck buddy relationship comes with no expectation of exclusivity. Indeed, back when I had fuck buddies, a lot of the fun was sharing stories our escapades with other guys. If it’s really bothering you that you haven’t provided full disclosure, you could bring up the idea of group sex and see how they react.
 
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Most gay men, especially in large urban areas, understand that a fuck buddy relationship comes with no expectation of exclusivity. Indeed, back when I had fuck buddies, a lot of the fun was sharing stories our escapades with other guys. If it’s really bothering you that you haven’t provided full disclosure, you could bring up the idea of group sex and see how they react.
Or two of them know each other and realise they are both fucking you, so turn up together next time and tag team you...
 
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They're fuck buddies, not FwBs. It should be fine to have a series of them without getting anyone's approval. As long as you are all using due care and diligence and making sure you're having safe(r) sex, it should be fine.
If either of them get bothered by the fact that you have another FB, then they're not being an FB; they're tossing a string in the no-string arrangement.
 

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You don’t have a ring on your finger.. they are fuck buddys


My opinion is more the merrier .. me fucking them or them fucking me..

Sure the more buddy’s you have the more people think you’re a slut or ho

Couple members of my family knows how active I’ve been in my life.. including my parents ..

Until recently I just had a hard time looking at a guy as someone to love.. all I’d look at them ass was another cock n ass to suck n fuck