Musclemen: Hot or not?

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  1. BIGdkluver

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    How do you guys feel about muscular and buffed men?

    I'm not talking about guys who are just "fit." I mean the guys who obviously work out a lot in the gym (the real "gym rats) and have nice pecs, huge biceps, great calves, bull necks, and so on.

    (I don't mean the guys who take it to extremes! They are kind of gross!)

    For example, Zeb Atlas is a good example of the kinds of muscle studs that I'm talking about. Do you find him hot or not?

    For me, yes...I am very attracted to handsome, sexy, muscle-builders. I like to feel their big muscles and watch them flex and pose. (I guess that's called "worship," right?)

    What about musclemen as sex partners? Good or not in bed?

    Let me hear what you think or your personal experiences. Thanks! :smile:
     
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    growing up as a teen, used to think of them as odd, and maladjusted

    then had one for a one night stand, and since I've seen the light -- they're at the top pf my list
     
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    I personally prefer guys to be slim, i love athletic physiques and so muscle studs are just too built for my own interest, having said that if i met a guy i found facially attractive with a good personality then i would'nt care about his body at all.
     
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    Never been with one, mostly slim types. Would be an interesting change being the one lifted, instead of doing the lifting.
     
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    It depends. I suppose it's a matter of proportion. Some guys just get too big for their frames, and I think that's when it becomes a turn-off for me. I've seen some guys who are huge, really pumped, but because they have a large frame and don't look too big for the rest of their body, they're still attractive, whereas another guy with the same build may look like he has an acorn for a head, and that just doesn't do it for me.

    Another major turn-off is someone who looks like a pigeon with a big upper body and scrawny legs. If you're going to build up your chest, take the time to work on the rest of your body too. As I said, it's all about being in proportion.
     
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    Speaking from both sides...When I was a skinny guy I was always into the bigger guys. I've always respected someone that has that time and dedication to keeping themselves fit and healthy. So 6 yrs ago I decided to do it for myself...and couldn't be happier. I like all types ...guys..girls...thin to muscular... and preferr athletic to muscular in body types. Including the muscle bear types. Guys that are too skinny just dont do it for me.
     
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    I concur completely. I finally have the body I always wanted and I like all body types (except morbidly obese).
     
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    Love the new Avatar pic. Work that Uniform baby. Really shows off your ASS-ets !!!!! The only thing missing is my face between the cheeks...:tongue:
     
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    I like it in that it shows that a guy takes care of himself. But of course, "muscle" isn't an end-all -- if someone don't have a good personality to back it up, the body won't do much for me.

    Different people are attractive for different things. It's very holistic, in the end.
     
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    I'm sure they -feel- quite good... but my sense of sight needs to be sated more than my sense of touch, especially at this age.
     
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    I always think of them as fun for a quick lay, but I have a hard time imagining a LTR with one, that's just too much dedication in life to fitness...9hours for work, 3 at the gym, 8 sleeping, that leave 4 hours for me :(
     
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    I like Zeb's big and dumb persona, he is probably not to dumb though.
     
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    freaking love muscle
     
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    I do notice that musclemen are rather easy to pick up. Some of them seem to get really big because they need to be noticed. I don't go for muscle worship and my only pet peeve is a muscle bound guy. That kind of stiff, can't move & can't walk straight thing is a turn off.

    As for good in bed, it is hit or miss. Just like men of every other body type, ethnicity, height, weight, etc.
     
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    I've never been into the big buff guys...was always attracted the long and lean build like swimmers have. But I have met someone who reeled me in with his personality and now I can't get enough of his buff bod.
     
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    Lots of AWESOME muscle guys out there... very smart too! Don't get caught up in stereotypes. Also, you dont have to live at the gym 3 hrs a day... hell most people say they wanna work out but never have the time..yet they will sit on their ass watching tv...or hours on the computer doing nothing.
     
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    Well, I have been with muscle stud and slim. I like them a muscle stud who has a tight middle. Their thighs and ass are extreme turnons to me and they are very appreciative of an experienced tongue!

    While I am in between slim and stud, I like guys who are built AND TIGHT. Mr. NY was really hot, competition body builders are like rocks.

    Trust me Zeb and the other muscle hunks aren't stupid, they know what they like and they know who is crazed about them.
     
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    When I was younger, I was all for the huge, muscular type. I fed into the imagery and perception that came along with being around someone that looked like a bodybuilder. Luckily the few that I dated also had brains and weren't all just a big bag of muscles. :wink:

    These days, I don't put as much emphasis into body type. I still look and drool over the gym bodies, but now it's the slimmer, tone and slightly muscular variety. Freaky big just doesn't look appeasing to me anymore. Besides, the types of guys I wind up liking the most have average to slightly gym body builds, and are just a little rough on the edges. Plus a mental intellect as sharp as a razor. It's always great to find someone who is well endowed in both heads. :biggrin:
     
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    Used to LOVE the Super Muscle guys
    going back to Arnies younger days
    Zeb and Matt Rush etc ..OK'
    (possibly only because of there sexual performances)
    these days more than content with..
    the 'smaller' more Natural type look
    enz
    (funny how changes .. happen in life')
     
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    i can't be in a relationship with someone more vane than i am.
     
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