Last night we were at a pool party after our coed softball game, we were all swimming in out underwear. Me and my wife were both college athletes and still work out a lot. I am 6'9" 320lbs, and a muscular guy. I have 20" biceps and bench 405lbs. I am proud to walk around other "average people" in my draws because I know that I am a shower that is more than 7" soft. My wife is 6'1" 200lbs, fit and very muscular. We work out together and she can bench 225 and curl 65lb dumbbells. She is not a body builder, but you can tell she works out a lot. I was in the pool and one of the guys was standing outside of the pool and pointed to me then started flexing and he said, "How you like that big boy". He is about 5'9" and weighs around 160lbs. I got out of the pool and stood next to him and started spreading my lats and flexing my chest, as a joke. One of the girls got out and came over by us and started flexing her muscles, she is about 5' tall and very attractive. Then she took off her bra, (we were all in our underwear) and said, "but now who are they looking at?" Then my wife got out of the pool and stood next to the guy and started flexing. Then she took off her top and faced the other woman flexing her chest and poking it out as far as she could. The other people said they looked like 2 different species. Then the other guy whipped out his dick, which got instantly hard and said, "oh yeah" (or something like that). and I whipped mine out that was soft and every one could tell that I was much bigger than him, but he is a good sport and knows that we don't even compare physically. That was the end of the show and tell. Later, we were all in the pool and one of the other girls came over to my wife and asked to feel her muscle. When my wife flexed her bicep she was rubbing all over it. She said it felt like her skin was 2 sizes too small. I watched them flex and feel each others muscles and compare. The other woman said she works out and curls 10lb dumbbells, and could do 15 push-ups. I have seen my wife do 75 push-ups and was really turned on by the fact that my wife was 6 times stronger than the other woman. We then all started talking about the size of people, my wife is a big muscular woman and many men are turned off by that, but many women really envy her. I am a big muscular man who is well hung and everyone loves to see that. Why are men so accepting of men that are larger, stronger and more hung than they are, but so judgmental of women that are stronger than they are?