mutual masturbation or more...?

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  1. johnjacobs

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    i'd like to do something with my friend but i'm not so sure he'd be up for it even though it's happened before. i wouldn't mind jacking off while looking at porn together or sharing a girl together. awhile ago, a girl friend of ours took turns blowing us together. she was pretty hot and it was pretty hot because i'm pretty big but my friend is huge - so watching the girl suck down two big cocks was obviously hot. now even though situations have arisen, not much else has happened other than mild discussion when we're hanging out looking at porn or something. and even asking him he'll just blow it off. as for his orientation, he looks at straight porn BUT he does and says some homosexual things often. like asking me if i need help when i'm talking about how hard i am if we're looking at porn or telling me to "thank him later" after he tells girls i think are hot that i'm big. part of me feels like he wants it but the other part feels he's afraid of doing more straight stuff together, enjoying watching me get sucked etc, THEN wanting to do guy/guy stuff. which i guess is understandable. i've blatantly told him before i wasn't necessarily interested in that, just doing things with a girl or watching him get sucked OR instead of bitching about having no girls around to just enjoy ourselves and not care about the "gayness" of two guys in the same room jerking off, like it would be any different with a girl in the room. damn i hate homophobia!

    has anyone been in a similar situation?
     
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    Just asking him when you guys are watching porn, do you mind if i jerk off, if he says go ahead start doing it when you're in the middle of it all, if he is still not jerking off along with you, ask him dude mind helping me blow my load, pointing at your cock and hinting he should grab it and jerk you, its all in the asking, better ask and get a no than spend your whole time asking what if, and having regrets!
     
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    look the fact you have doubts about it proofs your not that gay, so screw it and do what you want! Trust me, just ask, he might secretly want it while hiding it just like you, I know that from experience!
     
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    Seems you have both proved yr relativly str .. so go the next step as buddys
    Just ask him to grab yr dik and have a feel/he may do so/not .. and return the favour
    thats all it is...play and experimenting
    iIthink many of us str/gay...have done similar...and im sure most have never regretted it
    good luck matey....it happens..usually at a younger age..than yr probably now
    dont let yr maturity??? stop you with harmless experimentation
    enz
     
  5. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    Seriously, What is the deal with you guys wanting to jack off with mates?
     
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    I think it could be called 'Living Life' Lee M
    thats my serious take on it all,truly..not at all being offensive to your fair question
    on a sexuality slant i have personally spent a lifetime with both sexes,,with the outcome being as my posts suggest..i have 100% Gay (solo)as thats pretty much as close to where i am,at this time.
    I would love to put 50/50,but thats not the case
    enz
     
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    I am all for "living life" and i think its great if guys gay and straight are comfortable enough to jack off with mates. It would have to mean much less homophobia and better relationships between all men.

    I just think its something i don't wholly because ive never known any woman who wanted to masturbate with a mutual friend. Maybe we should take a page from your book and start it off as a new trend for the ladies
     
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    What do you mean? I see women masturbating together in porn all the time. :rolleyes:
     
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    Maybe there the type of women i need to befriend :biggrin1:
     
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    Haha Jovial... in porn yes... getting paid for it and being directed to do it for guys to wack to it. I doubt women would make a habit of it or anything... maybe experimentation. But us guys...we'd get off any way we can.
     
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