tricknc: I've thought about it for a while, and I think I want to try masturbating with someone else. I don't know who, but definetely someone I already know. Problem is that I'm just not sure how to ask. You can't just walk up to someone and say, "Do you want to masturbate with me? We can have pizza afterwards. My treat!" So I'm wondering, what is the best way to ask someone if they want to masturbate with you?
Wow,what a concept! I think it depends if you want to do it with a girl or a guy first off. There's another thread in this section about doing it with your friends, so you might want to check that out. I've been masturbating with my best buddy for a couple of years but it's been when we're wasted & watching porn together. But we've known each other since grade school so I guess I trust him to be cool about it. I think you should just see who you like to hang with & then it'll happen naturally, I mean rather than doing some big planning thing. The poor guy you're after will think you're stalking him! So far in my expereince, no girl or guy has ever come up to me out of no where & asked if would masturbate with them. I think I would freak if it happened. :wow:
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Actually, it might be the best way just to say "Hay, want to masturbate together and grab a pizza afterwards?" though introduce it like you arent serious, and if he gives you funny looks, you can recover easily with a "I was just joking, and I knew you'd give me that look!" or ofcourse, you might get a positive or a thoughtfull response.
Depends on who you ask, but I suggest you probe them a bit first as to how open minded they are etc before poping the question.
I personally know none of my friends would say "yes" but Id really love to.
Depends on who you ask, but I suggest you probe them a bit first as to how open minded they are etc before poping the question.
I personally know none of my friends would say "yes" but Id really love to.
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I think people should be as open as they can be,
I asked my str8 buddy this exact question once.
I said" you know we're both really into masterbating, what about getting together
and pounding one out together over some porn?"
His reaction was great. He said" WOW that took a lot of balls to ask and I appreciate your
honesty. but I'm not really into it."
We joke about it sometimes still. We're still great buddies and do lots of things together and with our wives.
I'd still like to do it but I respect his limits.
End of story, I don't have to wonder anymore and he doesn't have to feel like I'm stalking him.
I asked my str8 buddy this exact question once.
I said" you know we're both really into masterbating, what about getting together
and pounding one out together over some porn?"
His reaction was great. He said" WOW that took a lot of balls to ask and I appreciate your
honesty. but I'm not really into it."
We joke about it sometimes still. We're still great buddies and do lots of things together and with our wives.
I'd still like to do it but I respect his limits.
End of story, I don't have to wonder anymore and he doesn't have to feel like I'm stalking him.
BloomingLate: Meh, late on this but whatever.
I've done it before, liek when I was 11/12 with my friend, I don't remember how it escalated into that, but um... les see it was on bunk beds and we were jackign it since no one was home. then somehow I like got on the top bunk with him and we started wacking it... and we were reassuring each other bein like other guys do this and its natural and shit. It was sorta weird but I mean it wasn't all that great.
I've done it before, liek when I was 11/12 with my friend, I don't remember how it escalated into that, but um... les see it was on bunk beds and we were jackign it since no one was home. then somehow I like got on the top bunk with him and we started wacking it... and we were reassuring each other bein like other guys do this and its natural and shit. It was sorta weird but I mean it wasn't all that great.
Herble: I dont know, Most of the younger gay men just want to fuck and leave and have nothing o B) f the rest of the relationship in my experience B)
I've been lucky enough to have indulged in a bit of MM in my time. My first time was with my best friend in grade 7. He broached the subject by just talking about masturbating and testing the waters with my responses. From my point of view he made it all feel so normal and appealing (which it is, but not when you're 13?) It took a bit, but the first chance he got, after joking around a showing me his hard cock through his jeans, we both whipped it out and had a race. We did it all the time after that, and after a while we would 'help' each other out. One thing led to another, and while both declaring quite strongly that we were straight, blow jobs became more popular. Years later, after he had a fight with his GF, we met up after a 4 year break, and picked up where we had left off, but this time it got a little more intence. After that night, we never spoke again. Long story short, it's a great thing, just be careful you don't lose your friends or put yourself in a bad position, so to speak.
Good luck! I have no regrets!
We did it all the time after that, and after a while we would 'help' each other out. One thing led to another, and while both declaring quite strongly that we were straight, blow jobs became more popular. Years later, after he had a fight with his GF, we met up after a 4 year break, and picked up where we had left off, but this time it got a little more intence. After that night, we never spoke again. Long story short, it's a great thing, just be careful you don't lose your friends or put yourself in a bad position, so to speak.Good luck! I have no regrets!
i have tried it, and it didnt work out so well for me.
if you look at my info, you will see that i am gay (10% straight just in case something happens). i have known for a long time that i was gay, i just didnt fully understand that i really was and i think i didnt want to accept it.
i have really wanted to jack off with someone else for a long time, and when i became close with a guy at my school this fall, i figured it was my chance. all my life ive been really close friends with girls and gay guys in theater, and rarely a straight guy. thinking that i had a close straight friend made this chance good.
we talked about it, and he said that he had never done it either and would love to try it. the next week, he came out to me- and that changed things a lot. all of a sudden i started to realize why i was only getting close to girls and gay guys- i felt comfortable around them because i was gay too.
i didnt come out to my friend for a few months, so when we jerked off together, i think i was getting just as much out of it as he did. when i DID come out to him, he freaked out a bit- i think he figured that i was in love with him (which was party right, but i got over that fast).
we hooked up a few times, and then it just got weird. i rarely talk to him now. we both have boyfriends and everyone around us knows that we hooked up (i cant trust him with anything... he tells everyone my secrets)
so yeah- just be careful because you dont know if you can really trust them
if you look at my info, you will see that i am gay (10% straight just in case something happens). i have known for a long time that i was gay, i just didnt fully understand that i really was and i think i didnt want to accept it.
i have really wanted to jack off with someone else for a long time, and when i became close with a guy at my school this fall, i figured it was my chance. all my life ive been really close friends with girls and gay guys in theater, and rarely a straight guy. thinking that i had a close straight friend made this chance good.
we talked about it, and he said that he had never done it either and would love to try it. the next week, he came out to me- and that changed things a lot. all of a sudden i started to realize why i was only getting close to girls and gay guys- i felt comfortable around them because i was gay too.
i didnt come out to my friend for a few months, so when we jerked off together, i think i was getting just as much out of it as he did. when i DID come out to him, he freaked out a bit- i think he figured that i was in love with him (which was party right, but i got over that fast).
we hooked up a few times, and then it just got weird. i rarely talk to him now. we both have boyfriends and everyone around us knows that we hooked up (i cant trust him with anything... he tells everyone my secrets)
so yeah- just be careful because you dont know if you can really trust them
I did it first time with my best friend......Now, I am doing that with my gril friend.... I read somewhere that u must say what u except from a partner in a bed, so I always asked my partners if i wanna do something.........Also, I asked my best friend can I jerk him, but only if he also jerks mine...After a couple minutes of "don't know, not sure, not gay........" we do that.....
Well, when young and horny I have found there is very little that "str8" guys are not willing to try
. I've only had a few experiences with mutual masturbation myself, all before the age of 17. One was an experience that I didn't actually participate in but overheard in the next tent during a scout campout (several guys were involved). This was the first time that I realized other guys "experimented."
TrickNC: Unfortunately, I can't quite remember how these sessions got started so I can't offer any suggestions on inviting someone else to join in. Perhaps a slumber party is in order?
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