I've been reading this forum, and the subject of looking, or being looked at has come up recently, don't know if it's a recurring subject. So I thought of mentioning my problem... As the title promises, it's about my best friend :wink:
About a year ago, my best friend (let's call him Chris), another friend (who will be called Simon) and me (Nikov, off course) were watching a movie together, bit of drinking, you know, relaxing stuff. And I don't know how he does it, but Simon has always been able to transform everything we do into a conversation about sex :tongue: The hot topic of the evening being size. We didn't flash anything, but the ranking was: Simon, 3rd place with a 5-incher; I came in second with 7 inches and Chris first with 8+ inches. I was, well, intrigued :biggrin1:
On to the problem; I want to see it :biggrin1:
I don't know how to aproach him, he IS my best friend, he is straight (me too btw) And I do try to rationalize it, thinking it's only 1 inch. But when I'm not rational,when I haven't had an orgasm in a couple of days for example :biggrin1:, I tend to fantasize about it. I'm not objectifying him and I can still have normal conversations with him, but I have caught myself taking a peek in the urinal.
I have been talking to my gf about it, she is totally cool about it. She knows I won't end up chasing him or anything :biggrin1: Couldn't give me any advice tough, but still a super girl in my eyes.
So, any comments, advice, personal experiences? I just don't want to ruin our friendship with this, because, when I am rational, that one inch isn't worth it
About a year ago, my best friend (let's call him Chris), another friend (who will be called Simon) and me (Nikov, off course) were watching a movie together, bit of drinking, you know, relaxing stuff. And I don't know how he does it, but Simon has always been able to transform everything we do into a conversation about sex :tongue: The hot topic of the evening being size. We didn't flash anything, but the ranking was: Simon, 3rd place with a 5-incher; I came in second with 7 inches and Chris first with 8+ inches. I was, well, intrigued :biggrin1:
On to the problem; I want to see it :biggrin1:
I don't know how to aproach him, he IS my best friend, he is straight (me too btw) And I do try to rationalize it, thinking it's only 1 inch. But when I'm not rational,when I haven't had an orgasm in a couple of days for example :biggrin1:, I tend to fantasize about it. I'm not objectifying him and I can still have normal conversations with him, but I have caught myself taking a peek in the urinal.
I have been talking to my gf about it, she is totally cool about it. She knows I won't end up chasing him or anything :biggrin1: Couldn't give me any advice tough, but still a super girl in my eyes.
So, any comments, advice, personal experiences? I just don't want to ruin our friendship with this, because, when I am rational, that one inch isn't worth it