Ok, this isn't meant to come off as racist or anything but I figured this would be a good place to ask Let me start off by saying that I think interracial porn is the hottest porn out there. Anyways, I recently confessed my feelings to my best friend and she said that while she finds me to be a great friend she really wants to try things with another friend of hers. I asked her why she would take another friend over her best friend and she said because he makes her fell good about herself. I told her I thought I did the same to which she responded telling me that I do but for some reason he makes her feel sexy. She told me she's just waiting for him to ask her out but definitely wants to try it and that she had never been with a black guy but the idea excites her. My ex also cheated on me with a black guy and I've been cock blocked in the past by black guys. So ladies of LPSG I'm just curious what attracts you most to a black man and what do you think this guy is doing better than me?
My best friend turned me down for a black guy
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Because she doesn't just date black guys. She has never been with a black guy before, however she turned me down for a black guy. Also I'm not sure why this was moved to the sex with a large penis section and not the relationship section considering I didn't mention any sex being involved.
Well look in the mirror are you what I like to call a RIC. Racial Identity Crisis a whiteboy that likes to dress black talk black and wants to be black. If that is the case then you need to start being who you really are and then people that are friends with you or want to get with you will be feeling that way for the right reasons. If a girl is in to black guys and you are a pretend blackguy hate to say it but you are gonna lose out. Same thing with blackguys who try to act white. I stole my wife away from one and it was super easy. You know why? Simple because I am a genuine white man that is not ashamed to be white. This may not apply to you but to me it sounds like you are if noting else comingly with people of the opposite race, and I would have to say that if you can not handle getting cock blocked or having someone choose a black man over you then you need to change the type of girls you are pitching too, or change your style and crowd that you are repping. One more thing if you are bestfriends with a girl how the hell you gonna all of a sudden flip the script and decide you should be fucking? That girl really trusts you and has let you in a special place in her life. You honestly need to sit down with yourself and figure out who you really are and what you want to do. It is never good to start fucking your friends. Friends are meant to be friends. I did not type this offend anyone at all. I am not racist nor to harbor hate towards anyone for being what they are. I am just telling it like it is.
I don't dress black or talk black at all so that certainly isn't the case. In fact, this girl doesn't even come off as someone who is generally attracted to black guys which is why it surprised me.
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This is all going downhill very fast.
Are you sure it's because he's black? Maybe he's taller, funnier, more educated, wealthier or really handy around the house. However, if she just happens to have a taste for chocolate at this particular time the best thing to do is stand aside.
Also, stop with the talk/dress black thing. That's just ignorant.
Are you sure it's because he's black? Maybe he's taller, funnier, more educated, wealthier or really handy around the house. However, if she just happens to have a taste for chocolate at this particular time the best thing to do is stand aside.
Also, stop with the talk/dress black thing. That's just ignorant.
What the heck is acting black or acting white? This acting crap is BS. There's no such thing. Please don't take what you see on TV and paint everyone the same. There has to be only an ounce of truth for it to be a stereotypes, but that does not mean it's the truth.
Race really has nothing to do with why she chose him over you. The same could happen with a white guy....then what? I don't believe it would make you feel better. You'd still be without the girl.
As for as why she chose a black guy, she chose that guy who happens to be black. I'm certain his race is not as big a factor as you may think. He's making her a feel good about herself. And although you're doing that too, she's "just not that in to you," beyond being a friend. Maybe she respects your friendship and doesn't want to jeopardize it. Women generally have three types of male friends. One's a best friend: guy she bounces ideas off of and tells everything to without the threat of being judged. Keeps her grounded and provides sound advice. Another guy may be the guy she likes to go out with every once in a while, but not a sexual relationship: just friends. The last guy is gives her heart and soul to. Sometimes blindly, which is where guy number one comes in to keep her grounded. Fortunately or unfortunately for you, you're that guy...Mr. Grounded.
Race really has nothing to do with why she chose him over you. The same could happen with a white guy....then what? I don't believe it would make you feel better. You'd still be without the girl.
As for as why she chose a black guy, she chose that guy who happens to be black. I'm certain his race is not as big a factor as you may think. He's making her a feel good about herself. And although you're doing that too, she's "just not that in to you," beyond being a friend. Maybe she respects your friendship and doesn't want to jeopardize it. Women generally have three types of male friends. One's a best friend: guy she bounces ideas off of and tells everything to without the threat of being judged. Keeps her grounded and provides sound advice. Another guy may be the guy she likes to go out with every once in a while, but not a sexual relationship: just friends. The last guy is gives her heart and soul to. Sometimes blindly, which is where guy number one comes in to keep her grounded. Fortunately or unfortunately for you, you're that guy...Mr. Grounded.
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I don't think 12 year olds are permitted to post here...
to the o.poster, really it isn't that he's better it's just that your friend isn't mature enough to accept a real relationship so instead she's after a fling
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