My best friend wants to see my penis in person, please advise

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Bbucko is right, man. If it makes you uncomfortable, don't. You have every right to not compare your penis size with anyone else.
 

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is it just me who gets creeped out by the guys who seem to think there is some sort of obligation to show, despite the fact that the OP is so obviously distressed by the situation?
 

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Given the size of your massive cock if I were your friend I wouldn't want to compare. It will just give him an inferiority complex if he is just average size.
 

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Well I'm back, and things didn't go as planned but I think they ended for the better.

I had been set on going with FancyPants' suggestion and offering to show him in the urinal, but when push came to shove I couldn't even bring myself to suggest that. Instead I just told him it would really make me feel uncomfortable and he said 'no problem then'... just like that. I guess I had overreacted and been reading way too deep into it, coz there doesn't seem to be any change in our friendship and it was all business as usual afterwards. Sorry for wasting all your time here, though I do appreciate all your help (guess that's why this site has Support in the name).

On a side note, in response to some of the other posts, I can show my wang here because none of you know me and, more importantly, you aren't in close physical proximity to me, which is what I wanted to avoid and why I had no problem with sending him a pic.
 

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Me and my best friend have seen eachother naked I'd say... over 20 times. Easy. To me it's just part of being a best friend. We even jack off with eachother, however, we talked about this before hand. What we were comfortable with and what we were not. You need to talk to him about this and tell him that your not ok with it.

I can understand you wanting his friendship and not wanting to mess it up, but you shouldn't do anything your not comfotable with. Bottom line, if you don't want to do it, then dont.
 
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I s what you are saying, and if it was a flaccid cock fine, but he wants to see him fully erect. Have you seen you buddies fully aroused? Have they asked you straight out to see yours hard or vice versa? If not then it really isn't the same, no?

I don't recall the OP stating that his friend wanted to see his cock hard. If that was the case, then it is without a doubt a come on. The impression that I got is that his friend wants to see how he stacks up with his buddy like all guys do regardless of their orientation. I wanted to see what my friends were packing because it's natural to compare, and I was curious how I measured up. I wouldn't have been freaked out if they got erect around me in the locker room, but it wouldn't have been what I expected to see either. No, they have never asked me straight out to see mine, nor did I to see theirs. The fact that we were all subtly checking each other out though goes to show that they were just as curious as I was. If they had asked staright out to see my cock either flaccid or erect, it would have been uncomfortable and awkward. The fact that we were casually nude around each other removed that awkwardness and weirdness.
 
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don't show him. thats just creepy.

I'm sure majority in here have seen a friend naked but asking to see their penis seems a lil bi-curious to me. he's definitely coming on to you
 

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After reading through most of the posts it seems that people on here are divided as to the request to see a friend's dick as being creepy or just curious. The OP kept stating that the friend had been proven to be very trustworthy, had been there for him etc....I just didn't get a creep value from that request. It seemed like he was a really good friend. Yeah, he was curious as guys can be. He wanted to see a hard cock and he the person he felt comfortable enough asking was his best friend. The guy was curious. I think in the way he handled the rejection of his request shows his character. I wouldn't mind having a best friend like that guy. The OP? Nah. Dude, you over think and over sexualize too much. You put your best friend in a terrible light on here...even if it was anonymous. Shame on you. You knew that he would react the way he did. You allowed others to doubt him and call him all sorts of stuff. You should have put the brakes on this thread a long time back. Be a better friend in the future.
 

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Shame on you. You knew that he would react the way he did. You allowed others to doubt him and call him all sorts of stuff. You should have put the brakes on this thread a long time back. Be a better friend in the future.
bullshit.
he thought his friend would be upset and take it as an indication of lack of trust. he defended his friend against my assumtions, pointing out what a great guy he is. he asked for advice, he took advice, it worked out well.
 

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Don't do it man. It's not worth wrecking a good friendship over. Tell him that you are not comfortable with it. Some thing like this happened to me with a very close buddy, and I regret to this day doing it. We are no longer friends and I miss him a lot.

Just my two cents
 

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bullshit.
he thought his friend would be upset and take it as an indication of lack of trust. he defended his friend against my assumtions, pointing out what a great guy he is. he asked for advice, he took advice, it worked out well.

I stand by my original statement....You have a different code of friendship, dolfette. I wouldn't put it out here and allow my friend to be put in a 'creepy' light when I know him to be a solid guy. You don't do that to a 'best friend.' Period....but, perhaps, you do. To each his own.
 

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Glad it worked out!
On a side note, I love how people post a problem here, get advice, resolve it, and then for weeks after people continue to post advice. :tongue: I'm sure that in two years, somebody will resurrect this thread with a post reading "Don't do it, man! He should know better than to make you uncomfortable!"
Yeah, I know that some people don't want to take the time to read all of the replies, but still kinda funny.