My Best Friend

[boxersboy75]

His girl may not know six inches from eight if she's young.

She is only 20.
-B

 

[B_dxjnorto]

I just rubbed one out with my best friend. I think it's a luxury to not be uptight about dickz and nutz in friendship.

But, I have another good friend who I didn't see for five years after we rubbed one out together, and it was HIS idea. It just fucked with his preferred self image too much is my guess.

 

[Nomad]

You should feel his biceps, chest and traps; they are awesome.

I'd like to, yes. Where is the line?

 

[Nomad]

He doesnt know Im bi, but since we tell eachother "I love you" and give hugs at goodbyes, I dont know if he would mind or not.

You could say, "If you really loved me, you'd show it to me." :biggrin1:

 

[bareamigo]

Oh please. When I first read this post I thought you were in high school, then I looked at your profile and find that you're 31. Assuming your friend who you hug and say 'I love you' is about your age, I'd guess he can handle a little challenge without damaging the friendship. Just get in a private place--like someone said, maybe out in the woods--whatever--maybe watching porn. Just say how horny you are and say you're really wanta jack off--not asking permission, just sayin what ur gunna do--and then say cum on jack with me. He'll do it and u'll see it. that's that.

Gabe

 

[Greekdick69]

Yes, the "I am bi and in love with you" could really put the friendship on hold (it happened to me, I mean I did not say it, but it was something like that). I thinkithe best is Rabudo's idea...just get some liquor/beers and pop in the porn, if he likes where that is going he'll stay and follow your lead, and afterwards both of you will be mature enough to realize this is just one more thing that makes your friendship stronger...just be careful if you fall in love and for him it's just being horny!

Good lick! and let us know what happened!

 

[davidjh7]

Well, you can steer the conversation to sex, then talk about some of the hassles you get from having a big one. He likely will comiserate with you if he is also hung. Once on the topic, you can work the conversation to telling him your size, and he will likely tell you his. It CAN just be "guy talk". If you are good friends, and close, he will be honest, and you will have your answer without having to get him naked, or in an uncomfortable position. If he is uncomfortable talking about it, he definaterly will be uncomfortable DOING anything. If he shows discomfort, drop the subject, and keep the friendship. My two cents.

 

[D_Bob_Crotchitch]

In some places in Europe, the I love you and hugs are nothing out of the ordinary. I wish I had such a friendship in the United States. I don't think I'd ever risk messing it up just to get a glimpse of his dick or to jerk off together. A spiritual heart bond is more important to me than a dick bond.

 

[boxersboy75]

In some places in Europe, the I love you and hugs are nothing out of the ordinary. I wish I had such a friendship in the United States. I don't think I'd ever risk messing it up just to get a glimpse of his dick or to jerk off together. A spiritual heart bond is more important to me than a dick bond.

The friendship is a great one. We are like brothers. Even people who see us together, who dont know us, will ask if we are brothers. He even put down on a job application for references me, and listed me as his brother.
-B

 

[D_Sheffield Thongbynder]

The friendship is a great one. We are like brothers. Even people who see us together, who dont know us, will ask if we are brothers. He even put down on a job application for references me, and listed me as his brother.
-B

Is that worth risking?

 

[boxersboy75]

Is that worth risking?

No. I was just curious is all.
-B

 

[D_Bob_Crotchitch]

You are so blessed. If I had that relationship, I'd walk with a smile on my face every single day.

 

[boxersboy75]

You are so blessed. If I had that relationship, I'd walk with a smile on my face every single day.

I know. I am a lucky one. I was with my friend last night, we were playing Guitar Hero. He said out-of-the-blue "Im officially giving up women!". We shall see what all happens I guess.
-B

 

[JackbytheSea]

Just tell the dude you want to see what the big deal is about.

Tell him you know it sounds queer, but you want to see it anyway, because all the rumors are driving you nuts with insecurity. Tell him it's bugging the $#*+ outta you and offer him money - like ten bucks.

I had a buddy, who wanted to see my equipment, and I didn't make a big thing of it, but only for money. I said, after I do this, and you pay, we never talk about this ever again. I damn sure showed him the store for that tenspot, and now it's over and behind us. We never talk about it.

You're not gay for wanting to see what the next guy's packing. You might be gay, if you want to touch what he's packing; so, watch it.

 

[boxersboy75]

Some of the posts on here are sounding kinda mean or bitter or something, I dont know what. All I wanted was suggestions because of my curiosity.
-B

 

[CUBE]

Hello, get him drunk, watch some porn, then take a shower together like all the rest of us did with our buddies growing up...geeeezz:tongue:

 

[CURVEDANDTHICKK]

If any of this helps, me and my best friend have maybe a little more going on then a typical friendship. We give eachother hugs whenever we part ( i felt wood once but I dont know if it was mine or his), we say "i love you", I've photographed him flexing and working out before in nothing but boxers. So honestly Im not sure how straight he really really is.
-B

How can you not know whose penis you were feeling?

 

[boxersboy75]

How can you not know whose penis you were feeling?

I just couldnt. It might have been mine since Im pretty big soft, and I was wearing thick jeans. I do know that if I felt it, then he sure must have felt it; and he didnt seem weirded out by it at all.


That tells you how close the hugs are. They just arent quick buddy hugs. They are arms-all-the-way-around real tight close hugs, that last quite a while. Usually he rubs my back at the same time.
-B

 

[boxersboy75]

I would like to thank all of you who have sent me PMs regarding this thread so far. They have been most welcomed to help me figure all this out.

-B

 

[amberleafbabe]

i think i kind of know where you are coming from.however i do agree with alot of the post that you have to be careful about "coming out."i am also bisexual,and i was married for 4 years.i did in fact lose some friends when i told them i was bi.i have a post in here.where a friend of mine asked me to have a 3'some with her,and her husband.this dude and i are pretty tight.we go to the gym,drink,and have even gone to strip clubs together.i had no idea this guy was well in his words"bi curious."i had a feeling he was,but i did not react on it.hell yeah i was curious to see what he was packing,but i let him make the first move.the way i see it is you either come straight out,and ask him to play with it.you get him drunk,or you just let it go.just remember whatever happens,you have to live with.