- lois,
So, to make a long story short, my bf has a larger than normal sized cock and we tried having sex the other night. This was my first time in over 4 years and I was really excited about it. But, it ended up being a terrible experience. It hurt really bad and bled a little all night. Even though it hurt I told him to keep going cause I figured I am just going to have to get used to it. But, he never could really get it in very far and evidently I didn't do very well at hiding the pain cause after a while he stopped because he said he didn't want to hurt me. We tried two or three different positions but none of them seemed to help.
I've never had this problem before and been with two other guys in the past. When I lost my virginity, it hurt a little but it was nowhere nearly as painful as the other night.
So, my question is, does it get better? Like once my vagina stretches will it stay that way, because what I've read seems to say otherwise (which is not what I figured)? Anyone have any tips?
All I can say is that I've always enjoyed sex in the past and this guy is absolutely wonderful and I want to enjoy with him. I'm already terrible at giving him head since he's so big and he's really good at giving it to me. So, I want this to be as enjoyable for him as for me and right now it's looking like no one is enjoying it....
thanks,
lois
I've never had this problem before and been with two other guys in the past. When I lost my virginity, it hurt a little but it was nowhere nearly as painful as the other night.
So, my question is, does it get better? Like once my vagina stretches will it stay that way, because what I've read seems to say otherwise (which is not what I figured)? Anyone have any tips?
All I can say is that I've always enjoyed sex in the past and this guy is absolutely wonderful and I want to enjoy with him. I'm already terrible at giving him head since he's so big and he's really good at giving it to me. So, I want this to be as enjoyable for him as for me and right now it's looking like no one is enjoying it....
thanks,
lois