My BIGGEST turn-off is....

[sizehungry]

Arrogance , smart asses , inconsiderate self absorbed people , smelly foreskins / vagina's , poor hygiene in general , idiot behavior of any kind .There are more but i'm getting pissed off just thinking about them .

 

[compton]

being called baby by a man

 

[HunggGreek]

Smoking would have to be it.

 

[K.Dst]

being called baby by a man

Uuuuk, +100 to that one.

As a joke no problem ("Welcome to the carribean baby!"-style) but other than that you might as well chop my dick off...

 

[Italian1986]

Cigarettes smell and bad smell

 

[hotdogmustard]

Unwillingness and/or inability to give a good blow job and swallow at the end.

People that start inflammatory arguments in forums for no reason other than they can't keep their personal opinions to themselves, and feel that their world view is the one and only thing that matters.
People that take everything written in forums as 100% serious and worth debating, so that an offhand comment about a particular aspect of life can suddenly reveal the posters whole identity and illuminates every detail about the posters personality, allowing readers to assume things like 'man that guys life must be sheltered' from a comment such as 'I like when woman swallow after a BJ' whether they know the original motivation behind the post or not.
Oh and bad breath cuz no one said that yet. /s

BHM10, I am with you on all counts.

I am not entirely sure what the purpose of a blow job is if the blow-er is not willing to take a load in the mouth. And while I could prob piss people off here by saying that to me a good blow job involves no hands or fingers on my cock........ I do think a little more respect for others on here would be a great thing. I've had, in my brief time posting thoughts here, a number of people tell me things like I need to deal with x, y, or z. Whatever. To each their own. However, I am not willing to consent to bad breath. Ever. There is no excuse. Even if there is a medical issue causing it, bad breath can be resolved.

Oh and did I mention? I really like blow jobs?

 

[AlexDB9]

Put me down for arrogance.

A few years ago my answer would have been stupidity but as I age I find I'll take a kind heart over a brilliant bitch.

 

[dallas_dad65]

being called baby by a man

Right there with you on that one!

 

[jamescasey]

I really do not like when girls smoke weed. I do not do it myself so I am not a hypocrite. I just do not find it very sexy.

 

[temptotalk]

Treating another human being like shit. Either physically or intellectually. That has killed many a boner.

 

[chesschess]

Arrogance, mistreatment of their fellow, cigarettes, many of the ones mentioned before would be ones for me as well, but since I figure by the time we get to the bottom line/final turnoff, all of those factors would have already been eliminated so the one final turnoff for me would be - Facial Hair. Just don't like it, never have and doubt I ever will. A little scruff, maybe, but beard, moustache, etc., no way.

 

[chesschess]

Hmm, guess I have to add tattoos to that also. A few discrete tattoos can be really nice and really really sexy, but skin that's been totally covered with tattoos is now just burned skin.

 

[niceone0305]

Loud mouth arrogant women who think they know every thing and cant be told they are wrong whe they are bltantly worn
or who try and control you by the fact they are females and privaleged , snotty arrogance as if they are gift to all humanity
ie. nurses,receptionist,sales clerks,cashiers. But a truly educated women is pleasure to be around who know who she is
and doent need to be act in a foul nazis like manor.

 

[_Edu]

Narrow/small minds.
Dishonesty.
Uncouthness.
Arrogance (when it's not part of the foreplay)
Desinterest (I don't beg for attention).
Bad hygiene.
Mediocre lovers, and by that I mean, selfish.

And particularly talking about gay men:

Entitlement.
Rigidness... in the sense that if you're a top you cant' do "x" and if you're a bottom you can't do "y".

 

[braalian]

In the gay scene, I'm really not into the whole over-the-top leather, fake cop, fake biker fetish thing. I don't think it seems masculine at all. Nothing screams "nelly" to me more than a gay man decked out in leather chaps and all the paraphernalia.

 

[malakos]

Emotional coldness (and not the somber, depressed kind, but the harsh steely kind). I'm pretty much immediately out when I encounter such a person.

 

[maturanga]

As a lot of people already have said arrogance, although I obtain an evil pleasure in humiliating with smartess to arrogant persons and I suppose that turns me into a arrogant person also.

Drug, and where i live weed is used look cool ¿¿¿...??? and cocain to boasting of money

Selfishness and egocentrism. derogatory words about other people physique, clothing... etc.

Demanding very much offering nothing.

Adult woman with teenage behavior, mainly infantile tantrums when things are not as she wants.

When she think that is the princess in the tower, and the man is who must conquer her while she does not make an effort for the relation.

Overemphasizing the money and the social status.

Sex passivity. She think that is a sex godness but in the bed she limits to open her legs, does not move, neither blink. donn´t say what she likes and donn´t care what he likes. And the end, the bad sex is fault of the man.

 

[Brandon1]

Let's see turn offs: indecisiveness, repetitive personality, too detail oriented, OCD,liar, narcissism, oblivious arrogance, better-than-you attitude, blatant ignorance ( I can take regular ignorance, but don't make it a habit), hypocrisy and double standard-ism, lol.

 

[Doranq]

I don't like women that start/participate in a lot of drama.
I don't like rudeness.
Short tempers
smokers and drunks.
grammar Nazis. By this I mean you could be talking mid sentence and she feels the need to correct your grammar.
bigots, rascists, sexists, etc.
arrogance/better than others
low sex drive/ sex negative
.. while having sex and she's on top out of the blue just punches you in the face because that's "hot."




I'm not a hippy but I think I'd best describe what I don't like. I don't like all that bad energy. It really kills my vibe. I like positive energy.

 

[mushroomcap]

For me it's arrogance and hypocrisy.