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Hey everyone. Wanted to see how you felt about this. My boyfriend of 5 months and I have an amazing sex life, we're semi open but its working great. The one secret that I have is that I have an account here. I love showing my big dick off. Always have and always will. He will get jealous/upset when one of our friends talks about my dick because I sort of have a reputation. He won't let me wear speedos because of how obvious my bulge is. I know he loves my dick but it my opinion I wish he showed that more, but it's far from an issue. Anyway, I can't help it, I love it and have such a fetish for showing it off. He doesn't know I have this account, and I can't understate how pissed he would be if he found out. I just love the admiration and reactions I get to it. Am I wrong, although I'm definitely aware that it's somewhat wrong. but morally wrong? How should I feel about this and/or proceed?
 

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Hey everyone. Wanted to see how you felt about this. My boyfriend of 5 months and I have an amazing sex life, we're semi open but its working great. The one secret that I have is that I have an account here. I love showing my big dick off. Always have and always will. He will get jealous/upset when one of our friends talks about my dick because I sort of have a reputation. He won't let me wear speedos because of how obvious my bulge is. I know he loves my dick but it my opinion I wish he showed that more, but it's far from an issue. Anyway, I can't help it, I love it and have such a fetish for showing it off. He doesn't know I have this account, and I can't understate how pissed he would be if he found out. I just love the admiration and reactions I get to it. Am I wrong, although I'm definitely aware that it's somewhat wrong. but morally wrong? How should I feel about this and/or proceed?
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Dude I am in the same position as you. In a 3 month relationship and all is going well... Sex life is great and he's a great guy. But I love showing my cock off on here and elsewhere online.. in my past relationship I shared my account here and others with my ex and it wasn't a great idea. There was tons of jealousy involved and it didn't work out. Posting on here and meeting new friends is a part of who I am and that will never change. So this time around I've chosen to keep this part of my life to myself and enjoy it in my free time when I'm alone. He doesn't need to know everything and this way my relationship stays in a happy place and I'm free to be me and be happy.. keep posting dude!! Love your pics!!
 

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Hey everyone. Wanted to see how you felt about this. My boyfriend of 5 months and I have an amazing sex life, we're semi open but its working great. The one secret that I have is that I have an account here. I love showing my big dick off. Always have and always will. He will get jealous/upset when one of our friends talks about my dick because I sort of have a reputation. He won't let me wear speedos because of how obvious my bulge is. I know he loves my dick but it my opinion I wish he showed that more, but it's far from an issue. Anyway, I can't help it, I love it and have such a fetish for showing it off. He doesn't know I have this account, and I can't understate how pissed he would be if he found out. I just love the admiration and reactions I get to it. Am I wrong, although I'm definitely aware that it's somewhat wrong. but morally wrong? How should I feel about this and/or proceed?
Wow!!! That’s a beautiful big delicious looking cock!!! Be proud and show that meat off. Tell him what you said here. It’s a part of you and you have every right to do what you want. Accept those likes and private messages and enjoy them. Of course it’s great sex, it’s only been 5 months!!! He won’t let you wear speedos? Dude, that’s not right!!! I’ll be going on 25 years next December ... I don’t have your problem though as far as not being able to do what I want. That’s not the way to start off a relationship. Do you ... and then do me later!!! HaHaHa. Good Luck. And again ... amazing pics!!!
 

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If your relationship isn't strictly monogamous, then you can't exactly be faulted on that basis. The nature of your agreement sounds a bit murky. However, I think the fact that you are doing this knowing that your boyfriend would be upset and may see this as a fidelity issue indicates that you aren't doing due diligence in clarifying the agreement with that. So I suggest bringing up the appeal of this for you, and if he resists, ask how that squares with the semi-open nature of your relationship. But just going behind his back on something you know would be an issue doesn't sound like good news.
 

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I love it and have such a fetish for showing it off. He doesn't know I have this account, and I can't understate how pissed he would be if he found out. I just love the admiration and reactions I get to it. Am I wrong, although I'm definitely aware that it's somewhat wrong. but morally wrong? How should I feel about this and/or proceed?

I cannot stress this enough. There are two key components to a successful relationship. Communication and boundaries. If there is something you like and get off on, talk to him about it. That's the first part and can be great. Be open, talk about what you want / need, then, and this is VERY important, listen to what he wants and needs. Why is he jealous? Does he not want to share? Is he insecure about his own dick? Whats his needs / wants? Really listen.

If he doesn't like you being on here and doesn't want to share you in that way, then you either 1. Respect his boundaries and work on the relationship and stay off of here or 2. Don't care about respecting boundaries and continue doing something without communication. There is nothing that can ruin trust, friendship, and a relationship quite like being selfish and non-communicative.

This may sound harsh but really its the way relationships work. Communication and boundaries / trust are key. If you find that you are just going to be on here without his knowing and keep secrets from him maybe you should think about whether or not you are ready for a relationship.
 

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My boyfriend of 5 months and I have an amazing sex life, we're semi open but its working great.. one secret that I have is..I love showing my big dick off. ...He will get jealous/upset when one of our friends talks about my dick...He won't let me wear speedos because of..my bulge...he loves my dick but... I wish he showed that more...He doesn't know I have this account, and I can't understate how pissed he would be if he found out. I just love the admiration and reactions I get to it. Am I wrong, although I'm definitely aware that it's somewhat wrong. but morally wrong? How should I ..proceed?

Tell your boyfriend that he is in a relationship with a person who likes wearing speedos and is an exhibitionist. Ask him to quit his controlling and jealous behaviour. If he truly loves and trusts you he should be able to accept you just as you are.
 

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Hey everyone. Wanted to see how you felt about this. My boyfriend of 5 months and I have an amazing sex life, we're semi open but its working great. The one secret that I have is that I have an account here. I love showing my big dick off. Always have and always will. He will get jealous/upset when one of our friends talks about my dick because I sort of have a reputation. He won't let me wear speedos because of how obvious my bulge is. I know he loves my dick but it my opinion I wish he showed that more, but it's far from an issue. Anyway, I can't help it, I love it and have such a fetish for showing it off. He doesn't know I have this account, and I can't understate how pissed he would be if he found out. I just love the admiration and reactions I get to it. Am I wrong, although I'm definitely aware that it's somewhat wrong. but morally wrong? How should I feel about this and/or proceed?

I've been in the same boat. I've been with my current partner for 11 years. When we met the sex was amazing. At the time, I had been a member of this website, but I stopped using it for awhile. And then the need to look at dicks and show mine off brought me back to here. I started a new account because I didn't remember my login details and I no longer had that email account. I cannot tell my current partner about this website, he is the super jealous type and the smallest things will send him into a jealous mood. I did accidentally forget to lock my computer one day and he looked at what was on the website, which was LPSG. He questioned me later and wanted to look at it. I told him no. He got mad at first, but I reminded him that he has his things he does on the internet and this was my thing. I wanted to keep it mine too. He thought about and agreed. We are a different couple though, we live an hour apart, at our choice, but we work together. We have an open relationship because we both realize that sometimes things will happen and it is better if we just be open about it and not lie. So far it has worked for us, but I realize that this isn't for everybody.

I believe you need to be open with each other and communicate your feelings and thoughts. That is the backbone for a good relationship.

Is he insecure about his own dick? Whats his needs / wants? Really listen.
This is the problem I had with my ex. When my dick is soft, it hangs. I cannot help that. My ex, his dick was the opposite. It would "turtle" (his term) up into his body and would hide. Of course he never had any kind of bulge. That was a problem we had, that 1) I didn't notice and 2) we never talked about besides him complaining that I was "showing off too much". He thought I was always trying to show my dick off, which I admit sometimes I would. If you've got it, flaunt it. But at times I wasn't trying to show it off, he would still complain about my package.
 

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Hey everyone. Wanted to see how you felt about this. My boyfriend of 5 months and I have an amazing sex life, we're semi open but its working great. The one secret that I have is that I have an account here. I love showing my big dick off. Always have and always will. He will get jealous/upset when one of our friends talks about my dick because I sort of have a reputation. He won't let me wear speedos because of how obvious my bulge is. I know he loves my dick but it my opinion I wish he showed that more, but it's far from an issue. Anyway, I can't help it, I love it and have such a fetish for showing it off. He doesn't know I have this account, and I can't understate how pissed he would be if he found out. I just love the admiration and reactions I get to it. Am I wrong, although I'm definitely aware that it's somewhat wrong. but morally wrong? How should I feel about this and/or proceed?

I've been in an open relationship for nearly 12 years and we couldn't be happier. The important thing for our relationship is there are no rules or boundaries, other than always being "safe" with others. We can do whatever we like with whoever we like and it works great for us. We often talk about what we've been up to with other people, it turns us on to discuss such things. We share the same passcodes for our phones so he could look through my phone and vice versa, though to my knowledge he never has looked through mine and I've never felt the need to look through his.

I know boundaries are important for many relationships and on the whole, it's important to stick to those, however, I would be very hesitant to accept any rule that dictates what I can wear, which seems hugely manipulative and could be a possible slippery slope to more controlling rules. When it comes to your posting here, we all need our privacy sometimes, even from our significant others, and if you decide to show your perfect dick off to the internet as part of your private time then that's your decision. I don't see any reason for him to know at all. It makes you happy and It's unfortunate that his jealousy means you won't be able to share this part of your life with him, but that is his problem, not yours.
 

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I've been in an open relationship for nearly 12 years and we couldn't be happier. The important thing for our relationship is there are no rules or boundaries, other than always being "safe" with others. We can do whatever we like with whoever we like and it works great for us. We often talk about what we've been up to with other people, it turns us on to discuss such things. We share the same passcodes for our phones so he could look through my phone and vice versa, though to my knowledge he never has looked through mine and I've never felt the need to look through his.

I know boundaries are important for many relationships and on the whole, it's important to stick to those, however, I would be very hesitant to accept any rule that dictates what I can wear, which seems hugely manipulative and could be a possible slippery slope to more controlling rules. When it comes to your posting here, we all need our privacy sometimes, even from our significant others, and if you decide to show your perfect dick off to the internet as part of your private time then that's your decision. I don't see any reason for him to know at all. It makes you happy and It's unfortunate that his jealousy means you won't be able to share this part of your life with him, but that is his problem, not yours.

I wish my partner and I were at the same point in our open relationship. I would love to be able to talk with him about what I do and what he does, but he is the type that overreacts to a situation, thinks about it later and then calms down. I'm the opposite, I let a situation happen, I think about it and then I react.

One thing he has gotten a lot better about is looking at other guys. Before the open relationship, if he saw me looking at a guy, he would blow up and accuse me of cheating. At the start of the open relationship, he would accuse me of sleeping with the guy. Now, we discuss the guy. What we find hot about him and talk about what we would like to do. Those conversations are interesting because it turns out we have very different tastes in men. So I am learning a lot more about what he likes and doesn't like.
 

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This thread is a different way of saying Look At Me, for sure.

Perhaps you feel yr bf doesn't pay you enough attention (in which case you should probably be talking to him rather than a bunch of strangers)... or is this some exhibitionist streak (in which case yr probably in the right place but unless yr looking for further entanglements, probs just leave out the threads in future and concentrate on waving yr dick about. Apparently people like it).

All the best!

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My boyfriend knows what I'm doing online. He always says what he doesn't see doesn't bother him.

But he doesn't know that I'm here either and he doesn't have to. It has nothing to do with cheating or something, it's just my private business.
 
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