Hi, I have been with my (gay) partner for 18 months and we live together. He has been bullying me into a threesome for the last 12 months, I DO NOT WANT A THREESOME. He sends other men picture messages on his cell and has webcam wanks when i'm in work. I know I am too soft with him, because he is my first BF and I like his company along with my own apartment, but i do not like his temper or intimidating attitude. I split up with him for 4 days because of this and he came crying back to me. But now he is back to his old self. As we speak there are rice crispies all over the room because I confronted him about the pic messages sent on his phone. He has bruised me before and it really hurt, all he ever does is pick things up such as cerial boxes or deogerant cans and throw them at me. If I dump him that means I have hardly no friends, I will have to move back in with my mum and I will be lonely, thats what is stopping me splitting up with him for good Has anybody else had similar experiences?