My Boyfriend's Penis Is Too Big...

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Me and my boyfriend tried to have sex recently a couple of times, but everytime we try he only gets a little further...talking about just the tip. He tries to push further, but I can't handle it, so what should I do to help?
Send him to me!
 

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I'm sorry to hear this. I've been the "too big" guy on a lot of occasions, and had some relationships end because of it, and it sucks. All I know to say is try to be patient and relaxed with one another, communicate, and bear in mind there's a lot more to sex and intimacy than just penis in vagina.

Also you might want to post your question in either women's issues Women's Issues
or ask a woman Ask a Woman

You're more likely to get serious, helpful responses in those subforums, and, although I can't speak to anyone else's experience, I believe there are many female members who have a lot of knowledge to share about sex and love with a bigger partner and I trust they'll be happy to share insights with you.

Good luck to you and your boyfriend!
 

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Me and my boyfriend tried to have sex recently a couple of times, but everytime we try he only gets a little further...talking about just the tip. He tries to push further, but I can't handle it, so what should I do to help?

Story of my fucking life. It sucks. Big time. Try rubbing your clit as he enters you with a very very lubed cock. Tell him to go verrrrrry slow. It will still hurt like a bitch but he will be inside you if you follow me.
 

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Me and my boyfriend tried to have sex recently a couple of times, but everytime we try he only gets a little further...talking about just the tip. He tries to push further, but I can't handle it, so what should I do to help?

Not without pictures of this so-called Big Penis can we offer any advice or even believe it.
 

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All the dudes give terrible advice. As they camt possibly understand this level of pain. It's not a good pain. It makes you tear up. It sucks ass. It's nothing to joke about.
 

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Use silicon base lube. That should work. I know it works for me!

It won't solve the problem. I've tried it all. I just have a micropussy. And he happened to be wayyyyyy too thick. I never got used to it. Between position changes I'd tighten up all over again and getting in was difficult multiple times per sex session.
 

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Me and my boyfriend tried to have sex recently a couple of times, but everytime we try he only gets a little further...talking about just the tip. He tries to push further, but I can't handle it, so what should I do to help?

Send him my way!! I will take him balls deep!! lol
 
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Sorry! don't know what to tell ya! if it's just a "boyfriend"...not like its a life commitment...some people can't take length or girth
Or people should just stick to: "If you have nothing useful to say, say nothing at all". Because quite honestly, the guys mocking her come across as total insensitive douchebags. So congratulations on that.


Me and my boyfriend tried to have sex recently a couple of times, but everytime we try he only gets a little further...talking about just the tip. He tries to push further, but I can't handle it, so what should I do to help?
Ok, maybe a stupid question. But do you both make sure you're dripping wet before he enters? Do you use lube? Did you use dildos to get used to bigger sizes? Is it the girth or the length that's a bigger problem?
 

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All the insensitive men will be tied tightly to the spanking bench and receive 50 lashes from my pink flogger. Naughty bois.

Where do we get in line and are you doing the 50 lashes? I like to be flogged by good looking woman.
 
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Send him to me!
Just how big is this dude?
....... penis is never too big, :)
I agree, TOTALLY!
Not without pictures of this so-called Big Penis can we offer any advice or even believe it.
Foreplay and lube!!
Use silicon base lube. That should work. I know it works for me!
Send him my way!! I will take him balls deep!! lol

As with any new poster, I assume she and her post to be legitimate. So then, why shouldn't we try and help with legitimate feedback based on the real-life experiences, especially from women who've had difficulty in accommodating a large penis?

Or how about some more responses from a man, like @Snakebyte who asks some good questions or @XL_Lingam, who states experiences similar to the young lady's endowed boyfriend? That's the type of advice a man should provide. From someone qualified! Why do all the other responses smack of sexually-themed self-satisfaction? All that tells me is none of you have ever had that problem, lol.

And my fellow gay brethren chiming in? No need. Because a guy's ass ain't the same as a lady's bits. Nope. Even those who call your ass your "boy (or boi) pussy". It ain't.

LPSG suffers a dearth of cis women on this site as it is. The responses from most of the men here are a classic example of perhaps why that is. But I'll let the women speak about that.

But I am curious? How are any of these comments relative to the young lady's Opening Post? How does your thirst for pictures and/or offering to service her man's penis help HER address a problem she came here to solve? Have none of you any empathy? Or is it always all about YOU and getting yourself off? WTF?

You've each demonstrated quite a level of ignorance along with just being downright thoughtless. I don't get it. At all. C'mon guys, aren't you all better than this? Or are some of you just one-handed typists? Sheesh.