This is a good point, also, I definitely don't have any self-worth issues (confidence and self-esteem are definitely not lacking here).
Just to be clear. I do not fear confrontation, nor am I sitting back acting like a victim. I brought this situation up looking for an invitation to share similar stories, I brought this up looking for support and advice from those with similar experiences.
I guess it does make me wonder, especially as a man like myself who is confident and doesn't really have a problem with confrontation, I wonder why to me this particular issue is difficult... It's not that I need to man up and tell my friend to shut up, that's not the point in this thread.
I would like to find a friend of mine that I can just have a real human conversation with, about a real physical human issue. I asked the group, how does one do that, is it even possible?
Have you found success talking to any of your friends about what it's like having a huge cock? I mean, I talk to my friends about all of my other issues in life, we talk through everything. It is comforting and fun and helps us bond. I thinkn part of my question is why does dick size need to be different than say, me talking about the stresses of my job and how to navigate through the issues I have there, or the issues I have being my most healthy and working out and struggling with drinking in moderation or any other human issue we like to discuss. Why does this one have to be different?
Yesterday my fiance and I had late night sex on Saturday night, and it was slightly drunk, and sexy, and wonderful. She was feeling relaxed and while she doesn't usually let me go as hard as I like, on Saturday she definitely did, and I fucking loved it. She knows I want to be the alpha, and I want to occasionally slip into my caveman mindset of that primal sexual being, she loves being my sub, it turns her on to be that for me, and it turns me on too.. and she loves the fact that I'm a big strong man who can pull her tiny body around the bed like its nothing. She loves the pressure of a big cock stretchng her. Usually we're very gentle and slow to warm her up but on saturday night when we were drunk it wasn't love making, it was fucking like animals, and its what we both wanted. The next morning we had wonderful wake-up sex too... But while we were both super horny for the rest of our lazy sunday, I couldn't fuck her any more, because I had mad her faaar too sore and her pussy was done for the day, even slipping her lelo in later that afternoon made her cringe, it still worked but it was rough, and the fact that we couldn't have sex was frustrating for both of us. We kinda fucked it up when we had the rough drunk sex, and then our sunday was kind of ruined by that. Yes we still found ways to play, but we couldn't do what we both wanted to, which was to keep fucking like animals.
So now instead of venting to my friend about this, I'm airing it out with strangers on LPSG. Don't get me wrong, I love the LPSG community, with out it my sexual experience would have been sooo different (I've been actively involved as a member on here since I was a teen and now I'm 30 with a family). So coming back to my question...
Do any of you have friends you can talk with about the issues that come with having big dick? Does anyone have advice or similar situations you can share with us? Even just talking about this stuff openly offers a feeling of communal support. Perhaps LPSG is the lone and ideal place for this discussion to happen..
Just to be clear. I do not fear confrontation, nor am I sitting back acting like a victim. I brought this situation up looking for an invitation to share similar stories, I brought this up looking for support and advice from those with similar experiences.
I guess it does make me wonder, especially as a man like myself who is confident and doesn't really have a problem with confrontation, I wonder why to me this particular issue is difficult... It's not that I need to man up and tell my friend to shut up, that's not the point in this thread.
I would like to find a friend of mine that I can just have a real human conversation with, about a real physical human issue. I asked the group, how does one do that, is it even possible?
Have you found success talking to any of your friends about what it's like having a huge cock? I mean, I talk to my friends about all of my other issues in life, we talk through everything. It is comforting and fun and helps us bond. I thinkn part of my question is why does dick size need to be different than say, me talking about the stresses of my job and how to navigate through the issues I have there, or the issues I have being my most healthy and working out and struggling with drinking in moderation or any other human issue we like to discuss. Why does this one have to be different?
Yesterday my fiance and I had late night sex on Saturday night, and it was slightly drunk, and sexy, and wonderful. She was feeling relaxed and while she doesn't usually let me go as hard as I like, on Saturday she definitely did, and I fucking loved it. She knows I want to be the alpha, and I want to occasionally slip into my caveman mindset of that primal sexual being, she loves being my sub, it turns her on to be that for me, and it turns me on too.. and she loves the fact that I'm a big strong man who can pull her tiny body around the bed like its nothing. She loves the pressure of a big cock stretchng her. Usually we're very gentle and slow to warm her up but on saturday night when we were drunk it wasn't love making, it was fucking like animals, and its what we both wanted. The next morning we had wonderful wake-up sex too... But while we were both super horny for the rest of our lazy sunday, I couldn't fuck her any more, because I had mad her faaar too sore and her pussy was done for the day, even slipping her lelo in later that afternoon made her cringe, it still worked but it was rough, and the fact that we couldn't have sex was frustrating for both of us. We kinda fucked it up when we had the rough drunk sex, and then our sunday was kind of ruined by that. Yes we still found ways to play, but we couldn't do what we both wanted to, which was to keep fucking like animals.
So now instead of venting to my friend about this, I'm airing it out with strangers on LPSG. Don't get me wrong, I love the LPSG community, with out it my sexual experience would have been sooo different (I've been actively involved as a member on here since I was a teen and now I'm 30 with a family). So coming back to my question...
Do any of you have friends you can talk with about the issues that come with having big dick? Does anyone have advice or similar situations you can share with us? Even just talking about this stuff openly offers a feeling of communal support. Perhaps LPSG is the lone and ideal place for this discussion to happen..
A real man handles his problems. Stop treating a big dick like your mothers skirt and hiding behind it.
If he went around talking about you having a small penis or being ugly, you'd shut it down ASAP.
If he went around boasting about how successful you were, how big your house was or how good you were at fighting you'd learn to take a compliment. If he over did it, you'd tell him to back off. (If you can't do it for even those kind of compliments, then you clearly have self worth issues and are wayyy too much of a people pleaser.)
Fact is, you haven't shut it down because you don't want to shut it down. Figure out why, then become a man about it