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This is a good point, also, I definitely don't have any self-worth issues (confidence and self-esteem are definitely not lacking here).

Just to be clear. I do not fear confrontation, nor am I sitting back acting like a victim. I brought this situation up looking for an invitation to share similar stories, I brought this up looking for support and advice from those with similar experiences.

I guess it does make me wonder, especially as a man like myself who is confident and doesn't really have a problem with confrontation, I wonder why to me this particular issue is difficult... It's not that I need to man up and tell my friend to shut up, that's not the point in this thread.

I would like to find a friend of mine that I can just have a real human conversation with, about a real physical human issue. I asked the group, how does one do that, is it even possible?

Have you found success talking to any of your friends about what it's like having a huge cock? I mean, I talk to my friends about all of my other issues in life, we talk through everything. It is comforting and fun and helps us bond. I thinkn part of my question is why does dick size need to be different than say, me talking about the stresses of my job and how to navigate through the issues I have there, or the issues I have being my most healthy and working out and struggling with drinking in moderation or any other human issue we like to discuss. Why does this one have to be different?

Yesterday my fiance and I had late night sex on Saturday night, and it was slightly drunk, and sexy, and wonderful. She was feeling relaxed and while she doesn't usually let me go as hard as I like, on Saturday she definitely did, and I fucking loved it. She knows I want to be the alpha, and I want to occasionally slip into my caveman mindset of that primal sexual being, she loves being my sub, it turns her on to be that for me, and it turns me on too.. and she loves the fact that I'm a big strong man who can pull her tiny body around the bed like its nothing. She loves the pressure of a big cock stretchng her. Usually we're very gentle and slow to warm her up but on saturday night when we were drunk it wasn't love making, it was fucking like animals, and its what we both wanted. The next morning we had wonderful wake-up sex too... But while we were both super horny for the rest of our lazy sunday, I couldn't fuck her any more, because I had mad her faaar too sore and her pussy was done for the day, even slipping her lelo in later that afternoon made her cringe, it still worked but it was rough, and the fact that we couldn't have sex was frustrating for both of us. We kinda fucked it up when we had the rough drunk sex, and then our sunday was kind of ruined by that. Yes we still found ways to play, but we couldn't do what we both wanted to, which was to keep fucking like animals.

So now instead of venting to my friend about this, I'm airing it out with strangers on LPSG. Don't get me wrong, I love the LPSG community, with out it my sexual experience would have been sooo different (I've been actively involved as a member on here since I was a teen and now I'm 30 with a family). So coming back to my question...

Do any of you have friends you can talk with about the issues that come with having big dick? Does anyone have advice or similar situations you can share with us? Even just talking about this stuff openly offers a feeling of communal support. Perhaps LPSG is the lone and ideal place for this discussion to happen..




A real man handles his problems. Stop treating a big dick like your mothers skirt and hiding behind it.

If he went around talking about you having a small penis or being ugly, you'd shut it down ASAP.

If he went around boasting about how successful you were, how big your house was or how good you were at fighting you'd learn to take a compliment. If he over did it, you'd tell him to back off. (If you can't do it for even those kind of compliments, then you clearly have self worth issues and are wayyy too much of a people pleaser.)

Fact is, you haven't shut it down because you don't want to shut it down. Figure out why, then become a man about it
 

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Bla bla bla with all the babble bullshit, bottom line he wants to suck ur dick.... And given the chance u wud let him

while I'm very comfortable with my sexuality, and I am open to all sorts of new ideas, and while I'm not interested in the idea of being with a man now, who knows if one day that will ever change. The idea of him going down on me is not something that would turn me on at all.
 

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I have the opposite "problem". My best bud knows what I'm packing (from gym showers back in the day to sharing hotel rooms today) and likes to joke with our mutual friends that I have a tiny cock. I usually smile and don't bother correcting the record. :)

I think a lot of straight guys try to be complementary using reverse psychology ... Blurting out "my bff has a huge dick" can come across strange.

I kind of tried this for myself one in college. All the guys in my hall knew I was hung, and I went this route in my own way by whenever sex would come up in group settings I would always announce to the group that I was hung like a chapstick. I thought it was funny and a nice deflection from the issue (how my mind worked when I was 18 and not as secure with myself as I am now)

It actually didn't work, I got just as much attention if not more by bringing attention to penis size, even when took it in the opposite direction of telling girls it was tiny.
 
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If it really bothers you, tell him, If it doesn`t, enjoy it.

I choose to enjoy it, even when it is embarrassing a little to have it brought up. Most of the time I say fuck it, and lean in to the experience.
 
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I don't usually tell my guy friends that I have a big dick. Over the years this has come up through various scenarios and sometimes its not a big deal, and sometimes it gets a little awkward. So I usually try to just not bring it up, and keep that business to myself.

My friend Derek and I have become really close friends over the last few years, we have known each other since our student days (now in our 30s) and we didn't become super close until about 4 or 5 years ago, and now we're nearly best friends. One late night over beers while we were out, I felt comfortable enough and trusted him, and we were having a discussion about sex, and I mentioned that I'm very well endowed, and I was confiding in him some of the issues I've had in my relationship revolving around this issue (size issues, discomfort during sex, etc) It felt nice to have a supportive friend who I could talk openly about this with who wasn't all immature about the subject and was there for me.

Well that didn't last long.

He became a little infatuated with my size, and he brings it up constantly. Honestly I'm not sure how I feel about it and don't really know what to do about it.

One night, my fiance and I, and his girlfriend and him, were all sitting around the bonfire in his backyard, (we were drinking) and Derek decided to bring up how "average" in size he was, and how "massive" I was. It was a little awkward and we all tried to move the conversation along and change the subject.

Derek brings up how big my dick is when all of the guys get together too. Derek brings up my dick size in front of my fiance and I, and in front of strangers too! I've told him, "dude you gotta cool it" but he doesn't really get the point.

About a month ago, we were all out late night, at a party and he went up to a very attractive woman, and said, "Hey, have you met my friend (points at me), he has a HUGE COCK and he and his fiance are looking to have a threesome."

I immediately apologized to her and changed the subject but it was awkward. (I mean, yes, my fiance and I have discussed having a threesome as she is bisexual, and wants to share me, but to have my friend try to orchestrate that is a different story) The funny thing about that scenario is that that woman later approached my fiance and I that night and offered herself to us. But that's not the point, the point is that my friend keeps bringing this dick size issue up, and now I can't get him to shut up about it. Sometimes it gets me in trouble too.... For example that same night, my fiance came up to me and accused me of hitting on that gorgeous woman who offered herself to us, and i had to explain to her how my friend hit on her on my behalf, and I never even asked him to. Which was a hard one to explain... Even harder for her to believe especially because I have a history of flirting (a behavior that we've worked through and mostly resolved).

The other day he started a text message thread between me, his girlfriend, and I, and was talking about how huge my cock is. I immediately messaged his girlfriend on a side thread and apologized and asked her what she thought he was trying to do and she responded to me "Derek knew you were feeling down that day and I think he was just trying to bring your spirits up by reminding you about how you have a huge cock."

So in some ways its a little sweet that my friend is trying to be "Nice"? I guess... By bringing up my dick size... But in other ways its super awkward. My friend Derek is also not an insecure guy really, he's actually incredibly self assured and confident, he is very handsome, young, has a very successful career, has slept with many women in the past, and is now in a happy relationship with a very sexy and smart woman, he is well educated, athletic, tall and fit and has a full head of hair, and is very healthy, comes from a very prominent and well connected family. So it's not like he has a lot of insecurity issues... He actually comes off as one of the most confident guys I know, and for good reason. He's got a lot going for him, I mean, he has definitely brought up how his penis is average size (as I mentioned earlier in this post) so maybe that is the one thing he is lacking?

I don't know... I wish I hadn't told him about my size, and now he has a big mouth about it.

I'm sure I'm not the only guy who has been in this scenario, do you guys have any similar experiences or advice to share on this one?
I think it's just a guy thing, my husbands mates often give him a ribbing for having a huge dick when their out drinking etc.
My friends often comment on my boobs as well, it's just what people do.
 

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I don't usually tell my guy friends that I have a big dick. Over the years this has come up through various scenarios and sometimes its not a big deal, and sometimes it gets a little awkward. So I usually try to just not bring it up, and keep that business to myself.

My friend Derek and I have become really close friends over the last few years, we have known each other since our student days (now in our 30s) and we didn't become super close until about 4 or 5 years ago, and now we're nearly best friends. One late night over beers while we were out, I felt comfortable enough and trusted him, and we were having a discussion about sex, and I mentioned that I'm very well endowed, and I was confiding in him some of the issues I've had in my relationship revolving around this issue (size issues, discomfort during sex, etc) It felt nice to have a supportive friend who I could talk openly about this with who wasn't all immature about the subject and was there for me.

Well that didn't last long.

He became a little infatuated with my size, and he brings it up constantly. Honestly I'm not sure how I feel about it and don't really know what to do about it.

One night, my fiance and I, and his girlfriend and him, were all sitting around the bonfire in his backyard, (we were drinking) and Derek decided to bring up how "average" in size he was, and how "massive" I was. It was a little awkward and we all tried to move the conversation along and change the subject.

Derek brings up how big my dick is when all of the guys get together too. Derek brings up my dick size in front of my fiance and I, and in front of strangers too! I've told him, "dude you gotta cool it" but he doesn't really get the point.

About a month ago, we were all out late night, at a party and he went up to a very attractive woman, and said, "Hey, have you met my friend (points at me), he has a HUGE COCK and he and his fiance are looking to have a threesome."

I immediately apologized to her and changed the subject but it was awkward. (I mean, yes, my fiance and I have discussed having a threesome as she is bisexual, and wants to share me, but to have my friend try to orchestrate that is a different story) The funny thing about that scenario is that that woman later approached my fiance and I that night and offered herself to us. But that's not the point, the point is that my friend keeps bringing this dick size issue up, and now I can't get him to shut up about it. Sometimes it gets me in trouble too.... For example that same night, my fiance came up to me and accused me of hitting on that gorgeous woman who offered herself to us, and i had to explain to her how my friend hit on her on my behalf, and I never even asked him to. Which was a hard one to explain... Even harder for her to believe especially because I have a history of flirting (a behavior that we've worked through and mostly resolved).

The other day he started a text message thread between me, his girlfriend, and I, and was talking about how huge my cock is. I immediately messaged his girlfriend on a side thread and apologized and asked her what she thought he was trying to do and she responded to me "Derek knew you were feeling down that day and I think he was just trying to bring your spirits up by reminding you about how you have a huge cock."

So in some ways its a little sweet that my friend is trying to be "Nice"? I guess... By bringing up my dick size... But in other ways its super awkward. My friend Derek is also not an insecure guy really, he's actually incredibly self assured and confident, he is very handsome, young, has a very successful career, has slept with many women in the past, and is now in a happy relationship with a very sexy and smart woman, he is well educated, athletic, tall and fit and has a full head of hair, and is very healthy, comes from a very prominent and well connected family. So it's not like he has a lot of insecurity issues... He actually comes off as one of the most confident guys I know, and for good reason. He's got a lot going for him, I mean, he has definitely brought up how his penis is average size (as I mentioned earlier in this post) so maybe that is the one thing he is lacking?

I don't know... I wish I hadn't told him about my size, and now he has a big mouth about it.

I'm sure I'm not the only guy who has been in this scenario, do you guys have any similar experiences or advice to share on this one?

I wouldnt say I had close friends (but maybe they were just less secure in themselves) who brought up my size but I have come across and made aquitences who became friends, who were guys like your friend who would 'brag' or bring up my dick size frequently within social groups or with strangers at clubs, pubs and parties. I guess some people are just like that, self confident and perhaps enjoy seeing the reaction of others, perhaps they are a little voyeristic and get a bit of a thrill from seeing how people react towards a large endowed friend, perhaps its almost like the way small fish feed off the morcels living off a blue whale in the ocean, they enjoy people knowing there are associated with a big alpha?

Who knows for sure (without a pyscological assessment) but there are certainly plenty of guys out there who do this sort of thing.
 

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I kind of tried this for myself one in college. All the guys in my hall knew I was hung, and I went this route in my own way by whenever sex would come up in group settings I would always announce to the group that I was hung like a chapstick. I thought it was funny and a nice deflection from the issue (how my mind worked when I was 18 and not as secure with myself as I am now)

It actually didn't work, I got just as much attention if not more by bringing attention to penis size, even when took it in the opposite direction of telling girls it was tiny.
I've always been confused and perplexed by this phenomenon, guys who are hung claiming to be small.

There's a group of us guys who get together two or three times a year, for gambling, golfing, guys stuff, etc. Las Vegas is a favorite destination. There's one guy who's very wealthy, has two or three homes around the country (with a chick stashed in each it seems). He's also a total jerk.* And from reports of guys who've "roomed" with him, hung like a mule. Gob-smackingly so. He's always mouthing off that he's real tiny. Constantly! Like the time we went to a club and one of the dancers looked him over and called him, "Big Boy." He shot back, "Oh, no, I'm tiny, real tiny!" Like LargeInLife, it didn't fool her for a second.

I have a real close friend who's gay. Like a second father to me. He was my after-school employer in college. He's got a younger lover (my age) who goes through the same routine. Especially around me. Claims it's an innie, when I've heard from good sources that he's definitely on the big side: long but slender. (The clinching clue: His lover is an admitted size queen.) There may be an added dimension in his case: He knows I'm "hung like a chipmunk" so it may be a not-so-subtle way to tease me.

So it's kinda interesting hearing LargeInLife explain his strategy of "smalling down". It may apply in the first case; something else may be in play in the second. Frankly, in my opinion, I think it's a not-so-subtly way of bragging about having a big cock, since in both cases everyone knows it's BS.





* Why do we put up with him? First, he's also a live wire. Whenever he's around, things happen. Second, he doesn't hesitate to pick up the tab. So it balances out.
 
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I don't usually tell my guy friends that I have a big dick. Over the years this has come up through various scenarios and sometimes its not a big deal, and sometimes it gets a little awkward. So I usually try to just not bring it up, and keep that business to myself.

My friend Derek and I have become really close friends over the last few years, we have known each other since our student days (now in our 30s) and we didn't become super close until about 4 or 5 years ago, and now we're nearly best friends. One late night over beers while we were out, I felt comfortable enough and trusted him, and we were having a discussion about sex, and I mentioned that I'm very well endowed, and I was confiding in him some of the issues I've had in my relationship revolving around this issue (size issues, discomfort during sex, etc) It felt nice to have a supportive friend who I could talk openly about this with who wasn't all immature about the subject and was there for me.

Well that didn't last long.

He became a little infatuated with my size, and he brings it up constantly. Honestly I'm not sure how I feel about it and don't really know what to do about it.

One night, my fiance and I, and his girlfriend and him, were all sitting around the bonfire in his backyard, (we were drinking) and Derek decided to bring up how "average" in size he was, and how "massive" I was. It was a little awkward and we all tried to move the conversation along and change the subject.

Derek brings up how big my dick is when all of the guys get together too. Derek brings up my dick size in front of my fiance and I, and in front of strangers too! I've told him, "dude you gotta cool it" but he doesn't really get the point.

About a month ago, we were all out late night, at a party and he went up to a very attractive woman, and said, "Hey, have you met my friend (points at me), he has a HUGE COCK and he and his fiance are looking to have a threesome."

I immediately apologized to her and changed the subject but it was awkward. (I mean, yes, my fiance and I have discussed having a threesome as she is bisexual, and wants to share me, but to have my friend try to orchestrate that is a different story) The funny thing about that scenario is that that woman later approached my fiance and I that night and offered herself to us. But that's not the point, the point is that my friend keeps bringing this dick size issue up, and now I can't get him to shut up about it. Sometimes it gets me in trouble too.... For example that same night, my fiance came up to me and accused me of hitting on that gorgeous woman who offered herself to us, and i had to explain to her how my friend hit on her on my behalf, and I never even asked him to. Which was a hard one to explain... Even harder for her to believe especially because I have a history of flirting (a behavior that we've worked through and mostly resolved).

The other day he started a text message thread between me, his girlfriend, and I, and was talking about how huge my cock is. I immediately messaged his girlfriend on a side thread and apologized and asked her what she thought he was trying to do and she responded to me "Derek knew you were feeling down that day and I think he was just trying to bring your spirits up by reminding you about how you have a huge cock."

So in some ways its a little sweet that my friend is trying to be "Nice"? I guess... By bringing up my dick size... But in other ways its super awkward. My friend Derek is also not an insecure guy really, he's actually incredibly self assured and confident, he is very handsome, young, has a very successful career, has slept with many women in the past, and is now in a happy relationship with a very sexy and smart woman, he is well educated, athletic, tall and fit and has a full head of hair, and is very healthy, comes from a very prominent and well connected family. So it's not like he has a lot of insecurity issues... He actually comes off as one of the most confident guys I know, and for good reason. He's got a lot going for him, I mean, he has definitely brought up how his penis is average size (as I mentioned earlier in this post) so maybe that is the one thing he is lacking?

I don't know... I wish I hadn't told him about my size, and now he has a big mouth about it.

I'm sure I'm not the only guy who has been in this scenario, do you guys have any similar experiences or advice to share on this one?
It's very simple. Tell him to shut the hell up and mind his own business.
 
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Many years ago 20 or so of us got naked at a drunken cottage party (including my brother and cousin). Every so often someone makes a comment about me having the biggest dick in the group. I usually try to change the subject. The uncomfortable part is when my brother comments about how big my penis is in front of his wife. She looks down at my crotch and I am like "uh, yeah...next topic".
 
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I've always been confused and perplexed by this phenomenon, guys who are hung claiming to be small.

There's a group of us guys who get together two or three times a year, for gambling, golfing, guys stuff, etc. Las Vegas is a favorite destination. There's one guy who's very wealthy, has two or three homes around the country (with a chick stashed in each it seems). He's also a total jerk.* And from reports of guys who've "roomed" with him, hung like a mule. Gob-smackingly so. He's always mouthing off that he's real tiny. Constantly! Like the time we went to a club and one of the dancers looked him over and called him, "Big Boy." He shot back, "Oh, no, I'm tiny, real tiny!" Like LargeInLife, it didn't fool her for a second.

I have a real close friend who's gay. Like a second father to me. He was my after-school employer in college. He's got a younger lover (my age) who goes through the same routine. Especially around me. Claims it's an innie, when I've heard from good sources that he's definitely on the big side: long but slender. (The clinching clue: His lover is an admitted size queen.) There may be an added dimension in his case: He knows I'm "hung like a chipmunk" so it may be a not-so-subtle way to tease me.

So it's kinda interesting hearing LargeInLife explain his strategy of "smalling down". It may apply in the first case; something else may be in play in the second. Frankly, in my opinion, I think it's a not-so-subtly way of bragging about having a big cock, since in both cases everyone knows it's BS.





* Why do we put up with him? First, he's also a live wire. Whenever he's around, things happen. Second, he doesn't hesitate to pick up the tab. So it balances out.

I've done this before "telling people I'm hung like a mouse" on dating/hookup apps. For the most part for me it's because I don't want someone to like me just cause of the size of my dick. Now in person i had a girl that heard I might be big, she never told me she heard that til after we had sex. In person I wouldn't deny it, but probably wouldn't acknowledge it depending on the situation
 
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I am known in my family circle for having a big dick and can fuck for a long time. I also choose to enjoy it! It's true and my wife talk to a family member about my ability to fuck for a long time. This traveled through our family like wildfire. Her sister ask her a couple weeks ago about how could I fuck for so long. I just enjoy it and scratch my crotch where family members are present.
 

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This is a good point, also, I definitely don't have any self-worth issues (confidence and self-esteem are definitely not lacking here).

Just to be clear. I do not fear confrontation, nor am I sitting back acting like a victim. I brought this situation up looking for an invitation to share similar stories, I brought this up looking for support and advice from those with similar experiences.

I guess it does make me wonder, especially as a man like myself who is confident and doesn't really have a problem with confrontation, I wonder why to me this particular issue is difficult... It's not that I need to man up and tell my friend to shut up, that's not the point in this thread.

I would like to find a friend of mine that I can just have a real human conversation with, about a real physical human issue. I asked the group, how does one do that, is it even possible?

Have you found success talking to any of your friends about what it's like having a huge cock? I mean, I talk to my friends about all of my other issues in life, we talk through everything. It is comforting and fun and helps us bond. I thinkn part of my question is why does dick size need to be different than say, me talking about the stresses of my job and how to navigate through the issues I have there, or the issues I have being my most healthy and working out and struggling with drinking in moderation or any other human issue we like to discuss. Why does this one have to be different?

Yesterday my fiance and I had late night sex on Saturday night, and it was slightly drunk, and sexy, and wonderful. She was feeling relaxed and while she doesn't usually let me go as hard as I like, on Saturday she definitely did, and I fucking loved it. She knows I want to be the alpha, and I want to occasionally slip into my caveman mindset of that primal sexual being, she loves being my sub, it turns her on to be that for me, and it turns me on too.. and she loves the fact that I'm a big strong man who can pull her tiny body around the bed like its nothing. She loves the pressure of a big cock stretchng her. Usually we're very gentle and slow to warm her up but on saturday night when we were drunk it wasn't love making, it was fucking like animals, and its what we both wanted. The next morning we had wonderful wake-up sex too... But while we were both super horny for the rest of our lazy sunday, I couldn't fuck her any more, because I had mad her faaar too sore and her pussy was done for the day, even slipping her lelo in later that afternoon made her cringe, it still worked but it was rough, and the fact that we couldn't have sex was frustrating for both of us. We kinda fucked it up when we had the rough drunk sex, and then our sunday was kind of ruined by that. Yes we still found ways to play, but we couldn't do what we both wanted to, which was to keep fucking like animals.

So now instead of venting to my friend about this, I'm airing it out with strangers on LPSG. Don't get me wrong, I love the LPSG community, with out it my sexual experience would have been sooo different (I've been actively involved as a member on here since I was a teen and now I'm 30 with a family). So coming back to my question...

Do any of you have friends you can talk with about the issues that come with having big dick? Does anyone have advice or similar situations you can share with us? Even just talking about this stuff openly offers a feeling of communal support. Perhaps LPSG is the lone and ideal place for this discussion to happen..



For you I think the problem hinges more around people stigmatizing big dicks. yes - having a big cock is awesome. But with great power comes great responsibility - and in the case it falls into the are of physical comfort.

My BF is big. Period. He can rail me as much as he wants - but - if he goes too deep - I tap out. I do love his size though and we both brag about the other but yeah - its not something you bring up in polite company or with your friends as a random topic (unless you have special friends).
 

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@LilJock @bkbll2010 regarding the "pretending I'm small" thing... I haven't done that since I was a kid, but I did do that, and it never really worked haha so I just kinda let that one go.

@Notaes good for you man! That's probably the best way to handle it, I think I'll use your example as my goal to strive for.

@EquusAZ it is an interesting phenomenon tho isn't it, the stigma of a big dick. It sounds like you and your man have a great time together, good for y'all!

@Jeffebean2003 I'm kinda with you on this, its one thing to get attention when you're single, and looking to find partners and fuck, in that case its different. But your situation is more like mine, than some of the other examples on here, because you're obviously not gonna fuck your brothers wife, and then once that comes up, it might in some subtle ways make him more uncomfortable or insecure, while also risking the potential for creating sexual tension between you and his wife.

When my best friend brings up how big my cock is, and he does it in front of his girlfriend, I totally sense her attention on me, I can just tell she's the type who would be curious about a little extra size and how it would feel. She's totally aware of the fact I'm big, because he brings it up all the time haha, and she's an attractive woman, and sometimes we all hang out and drink together and inhibitions diminish, and I wouldn't want to risk messing up a great friendship because of sexual tension. However, I think my friend might have some possible cuckold fantasies buried deep down in his subconscious that he hasn't accepted yet, and I would not be surprised if one day, he asks me to bang her and let him watch. I'm not hoping for this scenario, I just won't be totally surprised if it happened, not that I'd do it, I can just see it happening. Who actually knows what I'd do in that scenario....

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It's not difficult at all: Tell him to stop. It's causing problems in your relationship with him, with your gf and socially. If he's a true friend he will understand. If not, you know what to do. If you decide not to tell him, then consider that you might actually enjoy the attention and therefore, its not his fault but yours. Either way, the decision is yours to make.
 

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While your post has my dick hard right now I get that- once in a while when you and he are alone and drinking a few- it's great to talk about your nice big dick and one of these days you should just show it to him and get a lot of his issues out of the way but it is not cool for him to bring it up out in public without you wanting him to
 

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While your post has my dick hard right now I get that- once in a while when you and he are alone and drinking a few- it's great to talk about your nice big dick and one of these days you should just show it to him and get a lot of his issues out of the way but it is not cool for him to bring it up out in public without you wanting him to

Right. It's not as though his big penis is his only significant positive attribute.
 
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I’m thinking your friend is definitely insecure about his size and that’s probably why he’s got a preoccupation with how big yours is, because if he was hung too, he wouldn’t bother with the comments.

I actually would be really fucking annoyed (but also secretly flattered) if one of my buddies was always telling everyone one my size, especially because I’m not the kind of douchebag that goes around talking about my penis (at least not offline).

But I agree with everyone else, I would tell him to knock it off too, even if it means not having my own one-person-fan-club that brags about my big dick all the time for me lol