My Buddy Wants Me To Take His Wife On A Date...

[oldguyontinder]

While he is out of town next week. They recently agreed to have a polyamorous marriage, but he confided in me that neither of them have slept with anyone else yet. I’ve met his wife twice before and she is great, a very cute and curvy Indian woman the same age as me, mid 40s. I knew she had a crush on me, but I’m pretty psyched that she wants to go on a date. My Buddy is a newer friend and not a lifelong one, so it shouldn’t be too weird. I feel like in some ways I’m cuckolding him, but at the same time, I think he just wants his wife to be happy and fulfilled, so who am I to argue. Anyone else have experience with this? Not just sleeping with friends wives, but actually dating and spending time alone with them, while the husband is fully aware?

 

[Don Logan]

Well, if you have no prospect of him being a better friend with you, then why not? Because that date may backfire with him (jealousy, etc.). If you guys were good buddies from way back, I'd categorically say, Don't do it, period.