MY conclusion on penis size...

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  1. LemacST

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    This is funny because me and the kid I just thread-copied basically have the same penis :wink:. 6.5" length with average, decent girth--maybe the ultimate definition of "average size".

    Anyways, I somewhat agree with what he's saying that in general, this average-by-anyones-standards size can target more ranges of vagina size than an exclusively small or exclusively large penis might.

    The only difference is that I feel every person has a genuinely "perfect fit" genetalia waiting for them on someone of the opposite sex. There are definitely women out there who would not be very satisfied with my size because theirs was designed to better suit an 8 incher. There are also women out there who cannot take more than 7 inches. I'm not sure what gives people the impression that all vaginas are one standard size despite all the sex they're supposedly having which would prove otherwise. Then again, it's not so surprising when every guy claims he's "about 8 inches" and every girl is so small and taut she can "only stick like two fingers inside". Pretty great match, right?

    I wonder how long people will continue thinking like this...I know I used to. Honestly, I think the only way to break the whole "having a big cock are the be all end all of satisfying women" thing is to have influencial men (pop celebrities obviously) to admit they have average or small penises and make it a well-known thing that vaginas naturally come in the same dimensions. Same goes with admitting to not being circumcised and whatever. It'd start clearing all the stigma associated with not having a giant pornstar cock.

    By the way, is it just me or does anyone feel America (or products created by America) is most responsible for making society having an obsession over large units? Maybe having an obsession with sex period? Doesn't this all root back to the Puritans' simultanious tendancies of obsessing over sex behind closed dure while brutally shunning it in public?

    These are just my own thoughts...I want to hear yours!
     
  2. themember

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    Preach It Brother
     
  3. whatireallywant

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    Yes...

    I think a lot of people don't realize that women come in different sizes just as men do. That's because you can't see the woman. It's obvious with the men - since it's on the outside and easily visible.

    I didn't think much about the idea that women come in different sizes myself for a long time, although I should've guessed this. I may have known, just didn't give it much thought.

    My guess is that as most men are "average" size, most women have an average size that is corresponding to the average size men. I've known women who, from what they have said, I would guess that they are smaller than average. And I am apparently bigger than average, but I don't know by how much.
     
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    One thing I forgot to mention though is that there are women out there who have an average vagina but do enjoy a larger than average penis...but lots of these girls also love the pleasurable pain associated with it. Some girls don't. How often do we hear "BIG ISNT ALWAYS BETTER, I HAD SEX WITH A BIGGER GUY AND HE HURT ME. AVERAGE SIZE IS BETTER". It's just like lots of guys love the feel of pistoning in and out of a super-tight pussy. This probably isn't so great when the guy is so big that it almost doesn't work. A certain degree of oppositeness (big penis vs. average vagina, average penis vs. small vagina) can feel amazing, but average penis vs. average vagina still feels very good.

    This is why the "does size matter" question is so complicated.

    Take a girl who's had sex with like 4 guys--1 small, 3 average. Let's say they all sucked in bed and didn't get her off. Their size obviously made no difference to her. "Size doesn't matter".

    Now another girl who's had sex with 5 guys--5 average, 1 big. The biggest one got her off because he was skilled in bed the rest didn't. She will most likely place the achievement on his size. She will proudly admit that size matters.

    Etc, Etc, Etc. I'm sure you can all see what I'm getting to here.


    So finally, DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER?

    YE--NO!.

    I hate this game.
     
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    Actually if you look back to my posts when I started here.. you'd find something similar to that.
     
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    I think it's safe to say people's attitudes towards sex tend to change as they mature emotionally.

    Yes, there are many men (and women) obsessed over size. I learned here in this very forum that some women ARE larger in their respective genital sizes too, and find larger endowed men more pleasurable. Until that time, I had outright detested "size queens" for what I thought were those women representing exploitation of hung guys..stalking and harassing them. It never really had occurred to me that some women deliberately NEEDED "size" for personal gratification--in a true, genuine physical sense. For these women, size does matter. And that fact makes an average fella feel quite left out. Again however, this is not the typical path of life. There are far more women who seek, accept, and would be very happy with a regular average size man.

    Men especially fret and worry over how (and whether) their size will be really be acceptable by their lover. For many guys, finally finding that special someone who can convince them their size is okay and NOT the most important attraction is the major turning point for them psychologically. And that totally new mindset DOES (thankfully) happen for many,many men at some point in their lives. I sincerely wish that experience for any man reading these LPSG threads and inwardly agonizing all the while.

    Vaginas are flexible, expandable, adaptable by design. If men could just really believe that fact and quit worrying about "fitting in and pleasing".

    But, it's more that fear of being rejected for our size that we men struggle with. Virtually any size penis (that's functioning properly) can get the job done....bring pleasure and procreate.

    Today's culture stresses the physical attributes and seldom the more important emotional aspects of a relationship. That emphasis on the physical easily translates into "size matters" and that just tears many of us men up. This brainwashing begins early in life for many of us. And it often takes a lifetime to analyze and unravel it all and (finally) get our lives back on track.
     
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    Couldn't of said it any better.

    As far as the realization part, I see the light at the end of the tunnel :smile:
     
  8. viking1

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    My conclusion is: bigger is better. I don't think I'll ever be convinced otherwise. There's too much evidence to that effect.
     
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    If so, what then?
     
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    Then, all guys who are average or smaller are handicapped to some extent when it comes to sexual exploits.
     
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    haha...well since most surveys show women prefer no bigger than 7 inches..id say the 8 plus range suffers a handicap when it comes to love making, unless they are lucky enough to find a sizequeen
     
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    I have seen studies where women picked 8x6 as the ideal size. It depends on whose study wish to believe. Just as with penis size studies, whose results vary by as much as 1.5". Which is a lot for something that size.

    This is just MY opinion, and is by no means a proven fact.
     
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    I don't agree! There is no way I'm gonna stop trying to have it either even if I did agree.
     
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    haha...OBVIOUSLY..no matter how many girls beg for my 6-7 incher..i would love shoving a 9 inch one in them

    but yeah...i did a little research and i think the 8x6 one was made up by a penis enlargement scam..
    i mean ive had 17 sexual partners...a few i felt they would enjoy bigger..most were completely happy and about 1 in 4 of them said it hurt sometimes and were usually sore

    all the other studies show that the preference is 6-7 inches..but i did see the 8x6 one..in that one i could believe the length for some reason but it said that most women were completely unsatisfied by a girth of any less than 5 inches...which i dont believe
     
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    That's good, nobody wants you, or anyone else to give up.

    This is the kind of answer I am looking for. Most of my posts are intended to spark controversy. That is, I have found, the best way to get good answers.
    I try to inspire debate without being nasty. I haven't had all that much sucess. Even some of my gallery pics were meant to be controversial, but it doesn't seem to have worked very well, either.
     
  16. viking1

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    This is great! Just the kind of response I am looking for.

    That's just what I said earlier. How much of this is fact, and how much is from the enlargement scammers, out for a buck?

    Does size really matter? I mean within reasonable limits. Still trying to find out after 35 years of searching and wondering. Truthful answers are greatly appreciated.
     
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    gotta be careful of those scams..they can make anyone feel inadequate if they wanna sell something
     
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    To put it very simply--

    "Does size matter?"
    YES.
    That doesn't mean EVERY GIRL IN THE UNIVERSE wants to have sex with an above average sized cock though. That can actually be exactly what she DOESN'T want to do. If there's such thing as TOO big or TOO small, which varies from girl to girl just how penis size varies from guy to guy, then size obviously matters.

    "HE HAD A BIG DICK BUT DIDNT NO HOW 2 USE IT"

    "SIZE DOSNT MATER BCUZ I HAD SEX WITH SOME GUY WHO WAS REALLY BIG AND HE HURT ME"

    Both those things are contradictions. People just automaticall assume "Does Size Matter?" means "Does a penis have to be above average in length and girth in order to totally satisfy a woman?" because this is what us men, closet insecurity mongers, assume...right off the bat at least.

    So yes, size matters. You have a key and you have to find the right locks for it. If you're average, your key will work for most women.
     
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    LemacST

    First of all, what does your name mean?

    Secondly, I thank you for this good work. I don't dish out complements, but I think we could have the next Mother Teresa in you. We shall see in time, but I have a feeling about this one.

    Thirdly, the "SIZE DOES MATTER" bomb-drop suits fraternity boys and their female counterpart - namely most women in the Western hemisphere. You see, this is an area of male insecurity so why not exploit it? It is unlikely a man will whip out his dick and prove a woman wrong if she says he has a small one; and he probably won't even find out if someone says that about him because it's hardly something people will talk about casually. Because of the elements of doubt in the area, many men, especially the very ones who could do with some confidence and attention are left insecure and wanking. As for the sistas who have a need for the big one, I say, "Tough shit sister, suck it up." And I mean that. Literally.

    Leastly, size matters in the world of serial fornication, aka dating, because for one night stands and personal ads, many women explicitly ask for "well endowed", never mind their cellulite, dandruff during the bleeding season, halitosis and baggage from fucks-gone-wrong past. As long as society continues with this bullshit of men being the first-movers, we're going to have an artificial premium on women, most of whom, let's face it, are meant for careers behind the camera, but nonetheless, I would fuck many of them anway, because I'm a nice guy. And one hell of a punctuator, might I add.
     
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    I almost completely agree with the topic creator. I've researched the issue of penis size quite extensively over the last 2 years or so, including reading of posts on this and other similar forums, and I've come to basically the same conclusion: Size matters, but it's more of a fit thing, than a bigger is better thing. The problem with forums is you've got to question everything you read on the Internet (including this), and always take it for what it's worth. You've got to piece together the bits of truth you'll find here and there, and always consider the author of your information, and how their bias will affect the truth.
     
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