My Cousin keeps hitting on me (advice)

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  1. cannycrumpet

    cannycrumpet New Member

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    My cousin kind of knows Ive always been a dirty cow but we have always had a normal relationship as freinds and family, but recently he has been grabbing my arse and gagging like a dog to fuck me.

    He is always bragging about his cock size and it is pretty big probably around 8 x 6.5

    Thing is I know hes just being a typical male that basically fucks anything that moves, but I am a bit afraid if he catches me after a few drinks and my gaurds are down I will let him screw me.

    And regret it for the rest of my life or would I.



    QUESTION ?????

    Have you ever slept with a cousin and did you regret.

    Would you ever consider it.



    Please NO your a slut comments I dont intend on doing anything about it Im just curious.
     
  2. Flashy

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    well, i guess that depends on how distant a cousin.

    1st cousin is not a good idea...2nd...probably not a good idea either...3rd, well, maybe if you *really* liked each other...after that, the stigma tends to fall away the further you get.
     
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    I was in lust with my second cousin, never slept with her. (Our grandmothers were sisters). First cousins is a total "not going there".
     
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    yea if its your first cousin, hell fucking no. thats just wrong and even the others are debatable
     
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    eh, I'd be inclined to go with it. You might regret it later if you didn't. But then again, you might regret it later if you did. Nothing is ever that easy when it comes to someone that close to you (family or wholly unrelated). Not being flip here, but this is something ultimately you'll have to figure out for yourself. You'll know if you don't already.

    Best wishes with it!
     
  6. D_Harvey Schmeckel

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    some cousins are almost like siblings, and no way could I fuck them; others not so much and hell yes!
     
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    i slept with all 3 of my male cousins and yes i would do it again and again. they are all married with kids now.
     
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    Depends on your relationship with him and the general family relationship. It sounds like you are interested, but not sure about the ramafications.

    To me it is sort of like fucking a friend. Can you do that and not feel weird afterwards? Would it change your relationship?

    As hot as you are I can understand his side.

    Honestly, you might want to sit down with him when you aren't drunk and ask why he is flirting so hard with you. Try and see if he is teasing you or if he really wants to take it to the forbidden zone.
     
  9. dolfette

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    ew!

    not because he's your cuz but because he sounds so crass and skeezy.
     
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    Most replies are what I expected.

    Yeh pretty grey area not a good place to go.

    I think a straight hard talk is in order and he either has to stop it, or
    stop visiting.

    Men huh always thinking with there meat.


    :eek:
     
  11. D_Sparroe Spongecaques

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    I personally wouldnt even if my cousin was the nicest guy in the world.....which none of them are.All are mingers and 2 are Hooray Henries **barf**

    In your shoes i'd tell him to f*ck himself and if he carried on i'd grab his bollox and twist them round til he was singing soprano Geordie style ;)
     
  12. dolfette

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    ^humour!
     
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    why did you mention his cock size here .... .. seems like you are curious too .. if that is the case satisfy your curiosity .... we all know family and social rules ....what is there to ask about ?
     
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    maybe a return trip to turkey will keep your mind off your cousin :rolleyes:
     
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    It,s called curiosity I was totally surprised that he was acting like this and wasn't sure if many people have come across it.

    I mentioned his size because he keeps boasting about it in front of me which I thought was rather desperate attempt to get me interested.

    I was just curious and wanted some opinions its not something Id like to chat to Friends about.
     
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    Probably?
    Probably?
    Trust me. Guys that brag that much know exactly how big they are. The word, "probably", does not exsist.

    OK, that tells me that you are the curious one here. You have a close relationship with your cousin and you probably joke around sexually a lot. But being on this site has probalby made you curious and you are looking for an excuse, or a justification to give into your curiosity.

    You just want to get fucked be a big dick and your cousin is convieniently there. I doubt you need the alcohol to do it, but he might.

    If your pics are true, you shouldnt have trouble getting laid. But finding a big dick you trust is more difficult.

    Now, is there something you REALLY want to ask us?

    Because the answer is simple. "Dude, you are me cousin. If you dont quit it, Im telling my aunt."
     
  17. dolfette

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    *snicker*
     
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    Please!
    Blood is not water!
    I would NEVER do a cousin!
     
  19. cannycrumpet

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    LOL that old chestnut ok the story was a little exaggerated ( you trying to say I'm a Raleigh burner ) :tongue:
     
  20. D_Harvey Schmeckel

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    Genetic sexual attraction has some interesting aspects:
    Genetic sexual attraction - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
    the gist of which seems to be that we are socialized with the incest taboo consciously and unconsciously
    (see Westermarck effect of reverse sexual imprinting):
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imprinting_(psychology)#Westermarck_effect
    but unconsciously there is also attraction and when the socialization is absent the attraction will express itself. (As with siblings raised apart.)
     
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