Well during xmas the whole family was at my cousins house and her boyfriend was there who i knew of course from times ago when i met him with her. Well we were there and i wanted some fresh air and i went outside and he followed me outside. It wasnt a big deal i knew he had been "drinking" which is a main reason why i didnt make a big deal about this until i received a phone call the other day. Well newayz back to what happened, well newayz he came outside with me and we started talking and he was explaining how sometimes when hes back from work "military" he has nothing to do and thinks we should hang out and i can show him around my area. Which isnt a big deal until he started saying how he remembers me from when i met him awhile back and how good i looked and how he thought he was gonna be hanging out with me more. I just thought oh hes drunk. Hes just saying things he dosent mean. Well he called me yesterday about hanging out next friday night and he told me to dress sexy like i always do and that he wanted everyone to see the fine ass lady hes with. I took that as ok well thats nice thanks. He also mentioned how if he gets too drunk he figures he can just stay the night at my place and the issue is my cousin is ok with him going out to the club with me but im sure he dosent say the things he says to me to her and im nervous and theres no way i want him staying the night at my house but i also dont want him driving home drunk because he lives 45 mins away so hmmm wat to do wat to do.. a lil advice please....please