Okay, dildo jokes aside. (Refreshing honesty on that, by the way.) What's the deal? You don't look unattractive. Seems like you're taking care of your body, and you seem pretty nice. Any reasons why you think you're not batting so well?
And, yeah, CL spam does suck.
Haha, well thanks for appreciating my honesty. And yeah CL spam does suck, but it has given me so, so many invitations to join XXXBlackBook.com or some shit like that.
As for why the rampant sexual futility, at least lately, I can think of:
1. The most attractive women to me, that I know, that I see around are in long-term relationships and off the market. Be great if they weren't, but they're not.
2. No real social network in the sense of friends who could provide a means to opportunities. Not a whole lot of people want to help me get laid, in other words. If anything, they think I've got women everywhere.
3. Never had any real luck picking up anyone at a bar. Not really my element, at least not the meat-market type bars. Some solo guy, who by the way doesn't resemble the typical crowd at the bars, probably is not going to get any. Nobody likes out-of-place strangers at the bar.
4. Everyone I've been with has come from one of four areas: Work, School, Internet, Friends (or at least introduced by friends or met a party, etc.). Given that I'm unemployed, not in school, Internet ain't working, and the friends are not helping...
5. Not really interested in anyone I'm meeting on a day-to-day basis. I mean the only people who come on to me are typically middle-aged, desperate women at the bar.
That would be about it mostly.