My dream, what does it mean?

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    OK, I had a dream last nite that I was in my basement with my brother trying to find him some clothes to wear. I was going through a bunch of clothes that were on the floor, and he was standing there naked. when I looked up at him, his dick was hard as hell, I kept digging for clothes and all I could think about was sucking that dick. So I looked up and said come here. He moved closer and I started to suck him. At that point I woke up.

    What the fuck does this dream mean? Please help.
     
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    What was the basement like? Do you store clothes there? Is it finished or dank and cobwebbed? Is your brother gay or straight? Younger or older? How do you get along with him? Are you close, estranged, like friends or is he a best buddy to you?
     
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    its just a dream....i had dreams about my family members before. if you had a dream that you killed your brother im sure it doesnt make you a killer. you just have an imagination.....southpark comes to mind
     
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    "Lie down on the couch and tell me all about it"! Hey you could charge for that service!:biggrin1:
     
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    Maybe it means you need to up that 10% :tongue::biggrin1: j/k


     
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    No, I interpret dreams. It's a pastime of mine and I'm quite good at it.
     
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    i think you have the tendency to have sex with your own brother.

    it's just that you're overly thinking of him, you are urged by him, that's why even in your dreams you have him.

    so tell us.... you think, would it be possible to happen to you in reality?
     
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    The basement represents your hidden depths, your brother represents the 'masculine' side of you and your wanting to suck his cock means that you're more gay than you previously thought.
     
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    dreams mean nothing. only when your conscious do they mean anything.
     
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    Shall I add that My brother and I yrs ago, use to suck each other. I know, sick, yuk, weird. But It was very fun at the time. Why am I dreaming about this yrs later. I mean, it was very graphic, very, down to the veins in his cock.
     
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    Well now we all know...

    it was something that you used to enjoy at the time- and you have been without it for a while. I think your subconscious is just bringing to mind something that might be not fully resolved.

    I would be curious to know why you guys stopped doing that- if you grew apart, or both mutually decided that you didn't want to do it anymore... perhaps there is a part of you that is feeling either repressed guilt or wondering if your brother is "ok" with how things were left.

    I'd bet $1000 he's probably having simillar feelings, doubts or questions- so if you've got a good relationship with him, i'd say go grab a beer together and just tell him openly that you had a dream that kind of brought some memories/feelings back to the surface- and see how he thinks of you- and has "put it behind him" in the same way that you have... and that he doesn't regret or have bad feelings toward you. By doing that, you resolve the inner conflict, and you may put his question at ease at the same time. All kids experiment when young, man- grabbing cock is part of growing up.

    If we want to get freudian, yeah, the basement could represent the cobwebs of your mind, and the overtly erotic and masculine image of a big throbbing wet dripping cock (just the general phallus- not even specifically the fact that it was HIS-) could represent your unresolved feelings for closeness to a masculine influence- male bonding that doesn't have to involve anything sexually physical.

    Or it could be a drifting memory, knitting up with your nightly testosterone-driven sleep hardons, resulting in a wet dream.

    As Einstein was fond of saying, sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. Dreaming about your bro's veiny cock doesn't mean you want to be smoking it again- it could be that you were thinking about him, or about your own masculine issues in general- and a memory of him was represented.

    After all, we are often times best represented in a reflection of those who are closest to us. (Ever saw something in him that you really were bugged by, only later to realize that you do the same thing and you see it because you realize that you do the same thing?) There might be aspects of his personality (good or bad) that represent aspects of your masculinity- or at least are baseline comparisons for you.

    No worries, man, but it's an opportunity for you to have a good conversation with your bro and see if maybe he's thought about what you used to do too. That is, if you have the balls to tell him about it. I guess that depends on his maturity level too, and if he'd freak hearing it. I doubt that he'd not be open to listen, tho- based upon your past oral experiences. You guys sound pretty bonded to me.

    My guess was that it was just a variant of a wet dream, and I hope that you shot an especially big hot load in your shorts. Even just "chocking it up to male hormones run amuck" should put you at ease.
     
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    And after re-reading your original post, I'd add that "looking for clothes to cover his nudity" reinforces the idea of covering/uncovering his bare-ness... you see his "real" naked uncovered person and you are searching to appropriately cover something up...? Pretty clear. Your search would be in vain- because you have nothing that can adequately cover what your mind says is left bare and exposed.

    Or maybe you enjoy the role of being a caregiver to him- being an 'older bro' type, giving advice, helping him appear like his cool older bro.- dress like you, walk in the shoes you have found to be sucessful...

    And we could always equate fellatio to "brotherly love" --- and say that maybe since it was just the two of you alone in a private place, you decided to you draw your beloved younger brother to you (who you saw as uncovered, and needing to have his hard bone hidden from others like mom and dad,) and wanted to show him some masculine affection that he would enjoy---

    so your base unconsious (primative MAN mind) equated that bonding scene to include a blowjob, since it was part of your past.

    I'd talk to him about it- with no shame dude.
     
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    Excellent work mplsingleguy! You've got real talent for this. I'm impressed.
     
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    I concur! Only:

     
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    oops- good catch. yeah. good old Sigmund
     
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    While we sleep our brain is awake. Our dreams tell us our true thoughts and feelings.
     
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    I thnk that is true for me sometimes.
     
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