My ex and my friend

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by dimension, Mar 11, 2011.

  1. dimension

    dimension New Member

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    So just recently I found out that my ex is messing around with a good friend of mine. This was right after we broke up and she's been keeping it a secret for quite a long time. She still means a lot to me and I really feel like shit right now.

    What bothers me is that I keep visualizing and thinking about how they are having sex. And I can't seem to find a way to get the thought out of my head. I masturbate every time I think about it.

    Anyone ever have the same problem?
     
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    B_Bjen2848 New Member

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    hook up with a friend of hers who is hotter

    problem solved
     
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    why do you masturbate after you think about it?
     
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    sex=boner

    im pretty sure it hurts him emotionally, but visualizing sex and being a male=erection.
     
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    Good answer.
     
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    Are you possibly masturbating for the end result of cumming and then not having all the sexual feelings?
    I've done that in the past as a form of self control before i go out and i know i'm gonna meet someone hot. I just jerk it, cum and then don't behave like a slut coz i'm not having the "oh my God, he's so hot i wanna fuck him" feelings.
    While your situation varies substantially, the self control factor is the common thread here.
     
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    i'm guessing it's just another one of those threads where he posts something and never comes back
     
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