Seeing as how there have been ample responses in answer to the OP's behavior, I'd like to side-step the (probably legitimate) concerns over his involvement in this scenario to post something that I hope will do everyone who has read this thread some good, as I can relate to the "surfer boy."
I have a habit of dressing provocatively (I've never walked around in public with my ass hanging out, cuz - even tho the guy may be hot enough to get away with it - that's just tacky, but I'll do subtler things to showcase my better features, like leaving the bottom few buttons of my shirt undone so that my you get a flash of my abs when the breeze catches my shirt) for a number of reasons. 1.) It's reflective of my personality. It shows that I have a positive self-image and am comfortable with my body and my sexuality. 2). Where I live, it improves the likelihood that you'll be approached by flirtatious guys (outside of "gay" establishments) than, say, if you were wearing a conservative, ill-fitting brushpopper and a pair of shitkickers.
But, the point I am getting at is that when I do this, the intended audience are my contemporaries. As people tend to do, I mostly hang around places where the other people would comprise my target audience, but when my day takes me to places (like stores) where the staff or clientele aren't what I'm "looking for," I'll make adjustments (fasten a button or two, or hike up my low-rise jeans) . . . if I think about it. Sometimes, I won't when my mind is elsewhere.
When, whether dressed provocatively or not, I inadvertently attract unwanted attention, I immediately "recoil" if you will. I make those adjustments and try to convey my disinterest as subtly and kindly as I can manage. If the level of disinterest is significant, it's not uncommon for it to be accompanied by the shivers.
Human beings (particularly straight guys, it seems) are conceited, by nature. When we see someone who's doing things to put themselves out there (women wearing short skirts or men wearing low-riders) our attraction to them tends to put thoughts into our heads like, "Wow, I'd bet they're doing that just for my benefit." I think we'd all do well to realize that most of the time, that's not the case. Unless the object of your interest makes clear, overt advances toward you, everyone would be better served if we'd learn to tell ourselves (whether it happens to be the case or not) that these are moments of our own wishful thinking, and leave them at that.
It seems entirely too easy to read too much into things if we don't.
Also, I might point out that as far as most of the guys and girls I know are concerned, having their beauty equated to that of a sunset and extolled upon in lyrical verse would also fall under "unwanted attention." I, once, discovered that this guy I slept with had a blog and wrote all these entries about me being "fiercely beautiful as a pallid vampire traveling under cover of the infinite night sky" or some such shit. However well intentioned, I didn't find it flattering. I found it creepy.
opcorn:Onslow, damn it, get your hand out of my pants. There is no popcorn down there! No, I am not smuggling an over-sized kielbasa! It's really that big! Alright, already, I'll let you blow me while GL is doing whatever! Do you believe this, Novice? What? You, too! When in Rome . . . oooooooooooh, yes!
