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My husband had me look at this site and offer my thoughts/experience. I consider myself an average American wife. I am not a wild swinger type nor was I someone promiscuous in college or after that. I of course did have some sexual experience and was certainly no prude. I never really thought about the size of a man’s’ penis until a group of my female friends one day in College all went together to a drive-in that was showing an x rated movie. We went there as a lark and of course thought much of the movie was either gross or funny. However, there was one scene where I did notice we all were silent for a minute or two when this extremely well-endowed black guy unveiled his penis and then proceeded to have sex with this thin skinny girl. We all finally started laughing and joking about it but secretly I imagined that something like that would hurt and not feel good at all. Yet, I wondered as the woman in the movie seemed to be enjoying herself. So yes there was curiosity but nothing compelling about it overall. In other words, I didn’t give it much thought after we all left and it was more about our doing something taboo together than what was observed.
I met my husband through a blind date and ironically I don’t think either of us really liked each other at first. But, circumstances changed as we were seeking some companionship together and became more comfortable with each other. I can’t say there was that one moment where we realized we were truly in love it just sort of mutually developed. In terms of our sex life which I know is the point here, it was fun and good. Again, I never really thought about the size of his penis, it was just his and perfectly fine. I use to call it his cobra because of the way it curved up when erect. Actually, I think for me and most women the hardness was what I thought was important and him knowing how to do oral. I liked also using a vibrator when he is inside me and that really can do the trick. I also liked the look of his penis, as he is circumcised and it has a nice shape.
We eventually had a son and as a mother I can tell you websites like this or all the pornography on the internet is of great concern. It is one thing to seek out an adult site for interest as an adult but you can hardly go online or even on your phone and not eventually get bombarded with some type of porn pictures. I guess that is the culture we now live in but I wish I could really protect my young son from being exposed too much early on to the things that are out there. However, having said that my husband would often encourage me to share in his fantasies or watching videos, etc sometimes as foreplay. Did I get off on watching porn? Not really. I think back and as several situations that have occurred I think it was more about pleasing him. But, I can say that some videos were stimulating and others pretty gross. No offenses to some, but there really are some ugly penises out there that I am glad I never had to encounter. However, there are many men with much bigger penises than I realized and it seems what people say is an average size maybe is kind of small. My husband is just average and after seeing so many pictures, or some of these videos, the spam that I can’t avoid, it did make me sometimes think what a bigger penis might feel like. However, don’t misinterpret, I don’t think men and women focus on body parts in the same way. Well at that time I didn't.
Over time, my husband started encouraging me to stimulate him in foreplay, by hand, or oral with me talking about having sex with another man. He would want me to fantasize and share about bigger penises than his, how they impressed me, how they would feel better, and so on. Was that really a turn-on for me? Probably not, but again if it made him excited then I was happy on occasion. At first, though, I was uncomfortable saying these kinds of things because I was afraid it would make him upset or feel less loved or inadequate. However, the way he responded or encouraged me to share was hard to avoid. Plus, it really turned him on what I would say these things. For instance, he would sometimes in bed have me looked at a video or pictures and compare his penis to the guys in those (which were always bigger). I also learned that if I wanted him to cum during intercourse to start talking about how a bigger penis would go much deeper, how it would feel bigger than his, etc. What eventually started occurring though was me really wondering about it for real.
Right now I am busy but will share more when I have the chance.
I met my husband through a blind date and ironically I don’t think either of us really liked each other at first. But, circumstances changed as we were seeking some companionship together and became more comfortable with each other. I can’t say there was that one moment where we realized we were truly in love it just sort of mutually developed. In terms of our sex life which I know is the point here, it was fun and good. Again, I never really thought about the size of his penis, it was just his and perfectly fine. I use to call it his cobra because of the way it curved up when erect. Actually, I think for me and most women the hardness was what I thought was important and him knowing how to do oral. I liked also using a vibrator when he is inside me and that really can do the trick. I also liked the look of his penis, as he is circumcised and it has a nice shape.
We eventually had a son and as a mother I can tell you websites like this or all the pornography on the internet is of great concern. It is one thing to seek out an adult site for interest as an adult but you can hardly go online or even on your phone and not eventually get bombarded with some type of porn pictures. I guess that is the culture we now live in but I wish I could really protect my young son from being exposed too much early on to the things that are out there. However, having said that my husband would often encourage me to share in his fantasies or watching videos, etc sometimes as foreplay. Did I get off on watching porn? Not really. I think back and as several situations that have occurred I think it was more about pleasing him. But, I can say that some videos were stimulating and others pretty gross. No offenses to some, but there really are some ugly penises out there that I am glad I never had to encounter. However, there are many men with much bigger penises than I realized and it seems what people say is an average size maybe is kind of small. My husband is just average and after seeing so many pictures, or some of these videos, the spam that I can’t avoid, it did make me sometimes think what a bigger penis might feel like. However, don’t misinterpret, I don’t think men and women focus on body parts in the same way. Well at that time I didn't.
Over time, my husband started encouraging me to stimulate him in foreplay, by hand, or oral with me talking about having sex with another man. He would want me to fantasize and share about bigger penises than his, how they impressed me, how they would feel better, and so on. Was that really a turn-on for me? Probably not, but again if it made him excited then I was happy on occasion. At first, though, I was uncomfortable saying these kinds of things because I was afraid it would make him upset or feel less loved or inadequate. However, the way he responded or encouraged me to share was hard to avoid. Plus, it really turned him on what I would say these things. For instance, he would sometimes in bed have me looked at a video or pictures and compare his penis to the guys in those (which were always bigger). I also learned that if I wanted him to cum during intercourse to start talking about how a bigger penis would go much deeper, how it would feel bigger than his, etc. What eventually started occurring though was me really wondering about it for real.
Right now I am busy but will share more when I have the chance.