My First Blowjob

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i really didnt know where to post this.i think we need a "mens issue" forum.
Anyways,i finally agreed to let my girlfriend of 2 years give me a blowjob.She felt bad for not being cant to repay the thousand times iv eaten her out.
I never let her do it before was because i really like her,to me she is the most beautiful girl in the world,and i didnt want to see a cock in her mouth.
So i let her do it yesterday and as i had hoped,i didnt like it.
Beleive me,it was good.We'v seen enough porn together for her to know what to do,even though it was her first time.But something just didnt feel right.
I know its wierd for a guy not to like getting a blowjob,but i guess she's really special to me.
Anyone else got this issue and know how i can get past it? I dont wanna tell her that i dont like her doing it.
 

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guy...do you have a religion against such acts?..is this a dirty thing to do in your eyes/mind...if so get it out in the open...if it only in your mind then turn the lights off and try again...try not to cum in her mouth and then the awful act may be easier for you to handle...have you this problem w/other women?....is this your first blowjob?...odd but interesting...
 

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religion is not applicable here.and i dont think its "dirty"(i taste my own cum!) i just feel wierd because being a guy im supposed to like getting a bj right? But i dont,not from her.
 

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indian...in sex i have learned nothing is wierd...may i suggest to not over think it...relax it is just sex...maybe here it is the love thing...but to deprive her of one of the most intimate part of sex will likely cause her to have also a problem..it is all good...try a 69 position, thus giving you a chance to re-focus while she is enjoying her part of sex...try not to finish sex w/just oral...incorporate oral as part of the entire session rather than just the main focus...look at the entire picture...and just enjoy, no stress in the bedroom is best advice i can give....good luck sir...
 

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The sensations that a mouth can give is unique. It feels different from a vagina. There is a lot of variety. There is licking, sucking, deep throating, tongue flicking, nibbling, and so many other sensations. I do not think the issue is physical. If it was your first BJ, you have only scratched the surface in sensation possibilites.

I had a friend who had this issue. He thought it was dirty to have a girl he likes "Suck his dick". I asked him, "well what if you get married and have a wife" He said, with a grimace on his face, "Especial my wife."

He associated the act with something dirty. And he is not even religous. HE could have a prostitute do it, because she is a whore. But to have his wife do that, the mother of his children? No way.

The good news is that he grew out of that way of thinking. No matter how beautiful you think a woman is, she is still just a woman. She is human and will have needs and curiosities. Dont treat her like anything more because that would be unfair. She will try to live up to an expectation that is unreal.

Unless you really dont like BJs, and she rather not give them, you have an agreemnet that is good for the realationship.
 

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Did it occur to you that she thinks of your cock the way you think of her pussy? There is no sex act for you that she cannot do to you back. Your penis isn't dirty and she's not degrading herself to give your cock pleasure.