My first gay experience, RECENT!!!!

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There are AHOLES everywhere, even here. I for one enjoyed your story, and applaude you for shareing with us. Man on Man sex is beautiful, nothing more beautiful than two buddies pleasuring each other...Just ignore the AH's

Thanks alot man. I've been so excited since it happened I just had to tell someone. And since I'm still leading the "STR8" life for now this site is my only forum to do so.

Glad you enjoyed!
 

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Wow that is a SUPER hot story, well told too :)

As for adjusting the gay/str8 %, you need to put what *you* feel is the right breakdown for you, not what others think. You still could be 99% straight.

He is a lucky kid and your gf is lucky too....quite the impressive tool you've got :wink:
 

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probably 80 straight 20 gay for now

Nah, he didn't reciprocate. 90/10 at best.

Wow that is a SUPER hot story, well told too :)

As for adjusting the gay/str8 %, you need to put what *you* feel is the right breakdown for you, not what others think. You still could be 99% straight.

He is a lucky kid and your gf is lucky too....quite the impressive tool you've got :wink:

Thanks for the input guys. I think I'm gonna go with 90/10. At least until I see where the next few weeks take me. ;)
 

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So glad you were able to experience man on man sex. So many guys are hung up on it. It's just sex ! Contratulations for having the balls ( and nice ones at that ) to try !
 

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Is no one else thinking of the girlfriend in this situation? I don't much care which gender you're fucking, but if you want to fuck someone else you either need to end it with your girlfriend, or discuss opening up the relationship.
 

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Is no one else thinking of the girlfriend in this situation? I don't much care which gender you're fucking, but if you want to fuck someone else you either need to end it with your girlfriend, or discuss opening up the relationship.

Yeah I did, this is the reason why I do not want to be in a relationship. I read this kind of shit and think, NO THANK YOU.
 

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She's always telling me how hot it would be if I hooked up with a guy. Just so happens she doesn't know about this one cause we were fighting. Considering she would be cool with it I see no problem in keeping this from her until I truly know how to feel.

I thought it was really hot, but will I go completely gay?

That's some shit I have to work out first before I talk to her.
 

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She's always telling me how hot it would be if I hooked up with a guy. Just so happens she doesn't know about this one cause we were fighting. Considering she would be cool with it I see no problem in keeping this from her until I truly know how to feel.

I thought it was really hot, but will I go completely gay?

That's some shit I have to work out first before I talk to her.

Just because she thinks it would be hot, doesn't mean she actually wants you to do it. Or maybe she WOULD like you to do it, but I doubt she would want it done behind her back.

Wherever your feelings are right now, you need to not do anything like this again until you have spoken to her.
 

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I dunno. There is more to being gay than just having same-sex. I say just enjoy expanding your experiences and don't sweat putting a label on everything. Sex with a friend is great, regardless of which sex they are.

Like the Christmas song on South Park said "..cos sucking Dick brings peace and love and joy..." ha ha ha
 

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Just because she thinks it would be hot, doesn't mean she actually wants you to do it. Or maybe she WOULD like you to do it, but I doubt she would want it done behind her back.

Wherever your feelings are right now, you need to not do anything like this again until you have spoken to her.

Exactly! I fantasize about TheBF with a guy, but if I found out he did it behind my back? Oh boy... It would not be good! :mad:

If we had talked about first and decided on it together, we're being honest with each other and not violating each other's trust and if it's something we decided to do together, then it would be a shared experience for us.
 

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walk a mile in his shoes, then comment. opinions are like assholes right?

You don't need to have been in someone's shoes to know when they are treating someone badly or without respect. Even if she had done the same thing to him first, it doesn't give HIM an excuse to behave badly. I would be saying the same if the genders were reversed. It's great that he had wonderful and enjoyable sex, but he shouldn't have done it if he risked hurting someone in the process.

I guess we won't be seeing any comments from you in any threads. After all, you haven't experienced exactly what the other posters have, so you can't comment, right?
 

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Exactly! I fantasize about TheBF with a guy, but if I found out he did it behind my back? Oh boy... It would not be good! :mad:

If we had talked about first and decided on it together, we're being honest with each other and not violating each other's trust and if it's something we decided to do together, then it would be a shared experience for us.

That's just the sort of thing I meant. Thanks Petite :smile:.
 

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Well that sounds like a great reason not to tell her. ;)

I'm not even sure you SHOULD tell her. Part of me is all for honesty. Another part thinks that telling her might only upset her. Although if the other guy is a friend of hers, you should probably tell her before he does. I think you've managed to get yourself into a bad position. I don't envy you (except maybe for the great sex :tongue:).