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So there’s a world of choices out there and we really don’t know what you want to accomplish.
Prostate stimulation? Preparing for a real dick? Chastity? Butt plugs? Vibrating devices? Something to wear all day discreetly? And the list goes on.
Go to a few sites and look around. Then give some examples and ask for help.
Look forward to hearing from you.
 
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A word or two of caution, if I may:

Avoid anything "jelly", especially the non-name brand and on the cheaper end. These can be pretty toxic. Hit the well known online toy shops like Fort Troff, Mr S Leather, 665 Leather, PinkCherry AdamMale and others who are miles above the local mom-and-pop sex toy shop that orders bulk from China and get really iffy, fishy products.

Why avoid most cheap jellies?

That said, the higher end clear toys from OxBalls, DocJohnson and other manufacturers are safe. But you'll be dropping some good cash for those.

Also, beware the material the toy is made of and use the proper lube with it lest your toy and lube don't get along and the toy's surface reacts, causing rough texture which can trap bacteria and fuck up the toy's surface.
  • Rubber latex toys: no oil/grease based lube.
  • 100% Silicone toys: No silicone lube (which seems counter-intuitive)
  • All toys: fine with water-based lube.
There are several other materials which good toys can be made from and the site should specify what type of lube to use and/or avoid.

Storing your toys: wrap each toy up individually in a bit of cloth so the toys don't touch each other directly as they can often react to each other's material and sort of "melt" at the touching point.
 
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Have any of you guys tried a rattle ass lock? Sounds nice, but want to know what you guys think of it for a guy exploring butt play.
Here's the link if you don't know what it is Rattle Ass Lock >>> 50% OFF
 

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Would it be a good toy to start with?

I have a similar rattle butt plug device but it is more teardrop shaped. I was disappointed in that the rattle isn’t as pronounced as I thought it would be.
You may find the round faceted ball difficult to insert, especially if you are new to anal play.
Ft Troff is a super company and the price is terrific but I couldn’t endorse it as a toy to have as your first anal toy. IMHO you should look for something more torpedo shaped. Ft Troff has great options.
 
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Okay great thanks! Is it because it's just too large then?
 

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Okay great thanks! Is it because it's just too large then?

Not the size as much as the shape. Round will be much more difficult to insert than a tapered device.
If you’re looking for a ring and plug combo I would highly recommend the Oxball Sparkplug. I have pics in my folders.
 
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