My first sexual experience

[rtg]

Ummm it isnt clean to you???

What?

 

[deleted957600]

Ummm it isnt clean to you???

Clear?

 

[deleted936015]

clear! Thats the one

 

[MisterVIP]

Most guys don't walk up to random girls and get their numbers, there is a reason why the pick up artist sites are so popular because they talk about "cold approaching" and "day game". No, I don't frequent those sites.

As for the questions, most of the people that I'm not responding to I've had on my ignore list for a while now because they have a history of endlessly harassing me and following me around. Second, I was gone for 2 months and created this thread shortly after it was lifted because of what had happened, why would I even bother creating this thread. I have several posters that I speak to privately on here, some even have my phone number, and they are well aware of all of the stuff that had been going on between myself, this girl and others I had been pursuing but didn't end up getting. No, I'm not going to mention who they are, but we'd talk about the issues I was having with certain girls I was pursuing and all of that nonsense. In addition to this, I was and currently am seeing a therapist who specializes in relationships, I've been seeing this individual since late January.

Seriously, it's not that difficult to imagine a 6'4", fit/athletic and attractive guy who put in a fuck ton of work into the issues I had with all of this to have made it work out.

The fact that those "pick-up artist" sites exist does NOT mean that "most" guys need them. It just confirms there is a market for suckers...er...people in almost every subject. What you seem to be suggesting is that Ferrari dealerships exist because lots of people buy Ferraris. They don't. It's a niche market. Those dating sites are also a niche market, which target people of low confidence and low self esteem. Some of the things suggested there may be common sense stuff and true, as the best lies are often wrapped in some amount of truth, but at the end of the day, they just want money from guys who are desperate.

I doubt people are going out of their way to follow you around. In case you didn't notice, the website posts updates to each section on every refresh. Many people click on those new posts or look to see what other people they like may have said if they see their name in it - it's not all about you.

I recall suggesting you seek a therapist quite some time ago. Good on you for doing that. But your "woe is me" and "my shit don't stink" dichotomy indicate your therapy work is not done and has quite a ways to go.

Most of the posts I've seen from others appear to be offering honest assessments and advice based on the information you provide yourself. The fact that you don't agree with them doesn't make them "no-life posters." Who was the one going online begging for advice on how to get laid in the first place? You're seeing a professional already - you're not generally going to get the same "help you figure out the answers for yourself" feedback from people online as you would with a professional therapist in a safe space, especially when you admit you withhold a lot of details and only offer them when you're scrutinized to the point where you get angry at the blunt responses you're getting.

You seem to be becoming a legend in your own mind. Get off your high horse, dude. You may have put your peen in a vag, but you're still a virgin.

And if you think that's going to change simply by putting your peen in more vag, you're going to have a very empty life, trying to keep up your self-hype.

 

[sangheili90]

@Lilaussie

You are right though, I need to start using condoms if I'm going to be sleeping with these young girls that I haven't known for very long. Yesterday was my first day of a summer class, though I decided to drop the course and take it in the fall, and there was a cute girl that I was speaking with. She was waiting outside the class room before the start time so I walked up to her, asked her if she was in my class, introduced myself and from there she really got into me. Only problem was I overheard her talking to a group of girls about her boyfriend so I decided not to ask for her number before I left.

Me and a friend I made on campus are hitting the town up this weekend, so this'll be a first for me with a "wingman" so that should be an interesting experience as well. I tried the bar scene before but I went by myself and I never really felt comfortable doing that.

 

[rtg]

introduced myself and from there she really got into me.

He still thinks that just because a woman talks to him that she must want to bone him.

Only problem was I overheard her talking to a group of girls about her boyfriend so I decided not to ask for her number before I left.

I'm surprised he didn't have a rant about her being a slutty bitch for clearly leading him on.

 

[sangheili90]

I doubt people are going out of their way to follow you around. In case you didn't notice, the website posts updates to each section on every refresh. Many people click on those new posts or look to see what other people they like may have said if they see their name in it - it's not all about you.


Most of the posts I've seen from others appear to be offering honest assessments and advice based on the information you provide yourself. The fact that you don't agree with them doesn't make them "no-life posters." Who was the one going online begging for advice on how to get laid in the first place? You're seeing a professional already - you're not generally going to get the same "help you figure out the answers for yourself" feedback from people online as you would with a professional therapist in a safe space, especially when you admit you withhold a lot of details and only offer them when you're scrutinized to the point where you get angry at the blunt responses you're getting.

You seem to be becoming a legend in your own mind. Get off your high horse, dude. You may have put your peen in a vag, but you're still a virgin.

And if you think that's going to change simply by putting your peen in more vag, you're going to have a very empty life, trying to keep up your self-hype.

I actually do have a handful of posters that have followed me around for quite some time because of something I said they didn't like a very long time ago.

As for my posts looking for advice, those threads were from months ago. As I mentioned earlier, and I don't expect you to have read every single detail I have written on this thread, I was banned in early March and didn't have that lifted until about 2 weeks ago. This entire thread wasn't about looking for help or advice, it was simply sharing a story and then giving more updates into it.

As for the whole virginity and confidence thing, it actually did make a big difference for me psychologically. I realized logically that being a virgin really was not a big deal but the fact I was inexperienced made me not feel so confident. A phrase I told myself recently that seemed to help me get over this was "Virtually every single human being that walks on this planet at this very moment are the children of men who had some point had never had sex before.". Basically saying that if literally billions of other guys have lost their virginity so can I. You might have a different attitude when it comes to how to develop solutions to problems you face.

 

[693987]

I doubt people are going out of their way to follow you around. In case you didn't notice, the website posts updates to each section on every refresh. Many people click on those new posts or look to see what other people they like may have said if they see their name in it - it's not all about you.

Correct. I have him on block, so I literally cannot even see threads he makes if I go look in a forum section. The only way I see a thread he creates is if it's the one with the very most recent post for that section. Even then I only see it on the main page by title.

The man has a grossly inflated ego. I don't need to go look at however old of posts he made to point out his double standards and other.. unique characteristics he has. You can look at this thread alone and see what kind of person he is.

 

[Ed69]

Wow didn't realize it was all this hard to do.I bought a helmet and asked the girl behind the counter out.26 years later we have a life and children that we love............

 

[someperson]

I actually do have a handful of posters that have followed me around for quite some time because of something I said they didn't like a very long time ago.

As for my posts looking for advice, those threads were from months ago. As I mentioned earlier, and I don't expect you to have read every single detail I have written on this thread, I was banned in early March and didn't have that lifted until about 2 weeks ago. This entire thread wasn't about looking for help or advice, it was simply sharing a story and then giving more updates into it.

As for the whole virginity and confidence thing, it actually did make a big difference for me psychologically. I realized logically that being a virgin really was not a big deal but the fact I was inexperienced made me not feel so confident. A phrase I told myself recently that seemed to help me get over this was "Virtually every single human being that walks on this planet at this very moment are the children of men who had some point had never had sex before.". Basically saying that if literally billions of other guys have lost their virginity so can I. You might have a different attitude when it comes to how to develop solutions to problems you face.

did you hire her seriosusly no kissing
I mean there has been some crazy bitches trying to brand me (scratch my back up)


it seem the only women that are attracted to me are the crazy ones

 

[sangheili90]

The fact that those "pick-up artist" sites exist does NOT mean that "most" guys need them. It just confirms there is a market for suckers...er...people in almost every subject. What you seem to be suggesting is that Ferrari dealerships exist because lots of people buy Ferraris. They don't. It's a niche market. Those dating sites are also a niche market, which target people of low confidence and low self esteem. Some of the things suggested there may be common sense stuff and true, as the best lies are often wrapped in some amount of truth, but at the end of the day, they just want money from guys who are desperate.

I doubt people are going out of their way to follow you around. In case you didn't notice, the website posts updates to each section on every refresh. Many people click on those new posts or look to see what other people they like may have said if they see their name in it - it's not all about you.

I recall suggesting you seek a therapist quite some time ago. Good on you for doing that. But your "woe is me" and "my shit don't stink" dichotomy indicate your therapy work is not done and has quite a ways to go.

Most of the posts I've seen from others appear to be offering honest assessments and advice based on the information you provide yourself. The fact that you don't agree with them doesn't make them "no-life posters." Who was the one going online begging for advice on how to get laid in the first place? You're seeing a professional already - you're not generally going to get the same "help you figure out the answers for yourself" feedback from people online as you would with a professional therapist in a safe space, especially when you admit you withhold a lot of details and only offer them when you're scrutinized to the point where you get angry at the blunt responses you're getting.

You seem to be becoming a legend in your own mind. Get off your high horse, dude. You may have put your peen in a vag, but you're still a virgin.

And if you think that's going to change simply by putting your peen in more vag, you're going to have a very empty life, trying to keep up your self-hype.

To add to what I said prior, my experience with this girl has definitely opened up a new gateway for me, no pun intended. Since being with her I feel more liberated and that this self imposed psychological burden has been removed. I've also been having a pattern in my dream life where I'm having sex with different women, one on one not orgies. The interesting thing is that their faces, bodies and voices are super distinct as if I knew them.....but they don't resemble any women I've ever met in real life or seen on tv, the internet, etc. I don't really expect you to understand where I'm coming from with this because it probably wasn't such a huge milestone for you, but the moment I flipped that Mexican girl onto her back and had her wrap her legs around my hips/lower back was when I moved to a different stage in my life.

I've already got money and living a comfortable existence, I'm fit, healthy and look good. I literally had everything but this, and now that I know how to get it I want more of it. I'm entering a phase where I'm probably going to be trying to get with a lot of women, how long this will last I don't know, but if I do actually find someone who'd be really good wifey material I hope for my own sake I realize it and settle down with her.

 

[rtg]

I've already got money and living a comfortable existence, I'm fit, healthy and look good.

I'm going to hazard a guess and make my tally 10.

I literally had everything but this, and now that I know how to get it I want more of it.

I can't think of anything that he has going for him. Except for maybe his imaginary money and narcissism. Some chicks may dig that....

 

[328982]

Honestly, why so much interest in whether it's a true story or not? It's just words on your screen, on a site devoted to dick.

Either you like the words or you don't. Unless you're planning to hook up with him, I don't understand why it matters whether it actually happened or not. It's unknowable, anyway.

Quite. And all this mindless mobbing of an individual we've never met and never will is quite ugly and...well, boring.

 

[693987]

Quite. And all this mindless mobbing of an individual we've never met and never will is quite ugly and...well, boring.

Oh no. Multiple aren't allowed to have similar opinions about something without it being a mob, I guess. Gee, weren't you just recently pointing out how terrible it was for someone to post in threads just to have an opinion about others? Oh wait, that entire thread magically disappeared after you said people had wrong opinions just because they differed from yours, and you tried to make it all about a subject that a good portion of the people never even touched on.

 

[328982]

Gee, weren't you just recently pointing out how terrible it was for someone to post in threads just to have an opinion about others? Oh wait, that entire thread magically disappeared after you said people had wrong opinions just because they differed from yours, and you tried to make it all about a subject that a good portion of the people never even touched on.

I have the guts to go it alone not as part of some lynch mob. Still sore over our little clash? Try to get over it - I know I have.

 

[693987]

I have the guts to go it alone not as part of some lynch mob. Still sore over our little clash? Try to get over it - I know I have.

So, just because other people happen to share an opinion with me, one of us is supposed to change it just because reasons? That is absurd. Just because sometimes people have a shared opinion about something doesn't automatically mean people are a mob, sheep, or anything of the like. You only seem to make an issue of people having opinions that may agree with someone else's when people have an opinion that differs from yours. Convenient.

As for the thread where you were calling people out for singling out gay people when they weren't even talking about gay people? Yet again you're making assumptions about me that are wrong. Also very convenient.

 

[rtg]

So, just because other people happen to share an opinion with me, one of us is supposed to change it just because reasons? That is absurd. Just because sometimes people have a shared opinion about something doesn't automatically mean people are a mob, sheep, or anything of the like.

Agreed. I formed my own opinions about the OP. I initially gave him the benefit of the doubt and thought he was just a misunderstood virgin. But it didn't take long to see his true colours. I formed my own views of him over my own interactions with him and from watching his interactions with others and by just reading his posts.

If I was driven to get into a mob bashing then I'd be trolling many more threads.

 

[someperson]

So after months of threads and posts asking for advice on how to get laid, he starts a thread claiming to have done the deed. After being grilled with legitimate questions about things that don't make sense, he offers additional (newly thought up?) details. After that raises more questions, he posts that he has "skills and confidence that most guys don't have."

lolwut?

 

[rtg]

All I heard was "I have a very particular set of skills" and the word "pursue"

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

I have the guts to go it alone not as part of some lynch mob.

How does that happen? The fact that several people might share similar opinions doesn't mean they're plotting behind the scene.

Please explain how one might "go it alone" in this thread. Without starting a sideshow/derailment.