My first sexual experience

[TexanStar]

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However, quality women are going to want a guy who has all of those things, competition for them amongst men is tough and you need to set yourself apart from the rest. A woman who is attractive can literally just sit there and she'd have lots of men interested in her, this isn't quite the case for men as they need to have more than just that to attract a mate.

And there's the verbal diarrhea. It's evvvvvery time.

He could've stopped with the first paragraph and been fine. But he doesn't. He keeps going, and out pops the turd.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

He has a rehearsed diatribe. It is so predictable.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I get your point. You don't get mine. It's like you refuse to, so I'm over it.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

I don't think you understand what I'm saying. What I'm saying is that there really isn't anything else I need to work on in my life besides the void I had with women. If I wasn't happy with my career I'd go do something about it, whether that is go to school or whatever. The list goes on. This is the reason why I hired a relationship therapist, so that I could work on how to get the women that I wanted/want. I put in the effort with that, made myself go way out of my comfort zone and did this over many months and I've gotten to a point where I feel I can get the women that I want. Next thing I'm going to address, when it calls or it, is actually developing relationships with these women.

So, first "get the women". Next, "when it calls for it", you might try "actually developing relationships" with them.

Oh yeah, you got this.

 

[sangheili90]

I get your point. You don't get mine. It's like you refuse to, so I'm over it.

What delusional fairy tale land are you living in where a man's financial status, degree of education, outward appearance and life interests are not variables that improve a man's chances in the dating game? Women aren't attracted to overweight and/or unattractive men, they don't want guys that work minimum wage jobs, they don't want men that have no ambitions, no life and no hobbies or interests. Men need to compete, you and the rest of these posters are dead wrong if you don't accept this.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Really dude, you've been over this more than once on this site. You're just gonna double down and refuse to listen to any opinions that don't reflect what you want to validate to yourself. It's fucking stupid.

You just want to put women in our box, and sturdy the walls of the one you're stuck in. Be my guest. I'm not fucking you.

Oh, and for the record, my man is broke as fuck, doesn't go to the gym, doesn't have some bad-ass career. He's got Respect though, and he treats me like a person... Not some accomplishment or notch on his belt.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

What delusional fairy tale land are you living in where a man's financial status, degree of education, outward appearance and life interests are not variables that improve a man's chances in the dating game? Women aren't attracted to overweight and/or unattractive men, they don't want guys that work minimum wage jobs, they don't want men that have no ambitions, no life and no hobbies or interests. Men need to compete, you and the rest of these posters are dead wrong if you don't accept this.

Says the guy pushing 30 with no relationship and one fuck under his belt.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Women aren't attracted to overweight and/or unattractive men, they don't want guys that work minimum wage jobs, they don't want men that have no ambitions, no life and no hobbies or interests. Men need to compete, you and the rest of these posters are dead wrong if you don't accept this.

Way to over-generalize and lump 2 sexes into 2 groups who all act/think the same.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I know a few women who specifically pick chubby men. They are quite popular these days. My best friend is a bigger girl and she has an entire fan club dedicated to her. She picks up men everywhere we go.

 

[TexanStar]

" Women aren't attracted to overweight and/or unattractive men"

John Goodman & his wife of 28 years. Guess she married him for the money.

Steve Buscemi & his wife of 29 years. Guess she married him for the money.

John C Reilly & his wife of 25 years. Guess she married him for the money.

They don't want guys that work minimum wage jobs

Britney Spears & her husband at the time, Kevin Federline. Guess she married him for his body.

Dolly Parton & her husband of 51 years (guess she married him for his body)

they don't want men that have no ambitions, no life and no hobbies or interests.

Well no, dude, who would? People that don't have a need for some type of social interaction usually just get pets if anything.

Men need to compete, you and the rest of these posters are dead wrong if you don't accept this.

And we're back to the guy who's sum total relationship experience now boils down to one sexual encounter with a teenager who wasn't interested in being in an actual relationship with him.

The suggestion that everyone should try to bring something to the table in their romantic pursuits is fine, but your blanket statements about what all women are or aren't interested in is a load of bullshit. All else being equal, will a wealthy man have an easier time finding a romantic partner than a poor one? Sure. All else being equal, will a fit man have an easier time finding a romantic partner than an overweight one? Sure. But all else isn't equal, and easier doesn't mean impossible.

We've been over this with you several times before, but you act like a wooden doll trying to run through a checklist and pretend to the world that he's a real boy. Every time we correct you, it goes in one wooden ear and out the other. Any attempt to show you how fucked up your world view is gets met with defensiveness, so good luck trolling those high school graduation ceremonies for the next object of your pretend affection.

 

[328982]

Have you ever had some posts that you made, and which some could argue cast you in an unfavorable light, removed for you by the moderation team after the 15 minute editing window closed?

No, I didn't know I had an editing window - I've never deleted or edited a post, unlike some who try to bolster their position or look less foolish by steady revisions. I doubt Mods would delete posts just because they're unfavourable to the poster or half the site would go missing. A few full threads I've taken part in have disappeared, probably because posts breached TOS and that would be a decision taken by the Mods not by me or other participants. The thread you may be referring to had numerous flagrant breaches of the TOS, which I won't repeat here.

 

[deleted924715]

Says American women are the problem. Gets jibbed by a Mexican chick.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Says American women are the problem. Gets jibbed by a Mexican chick.

She might not have been keen on the idea that she'd be traded for chickens, stay in the kitchen and birth babies for a pickup artist wanna be.

 

[deleted924715]

Sometimes this place just makes me want to hug the living fuck out of my man, because I'm so fucking happy he's nothing like the people who post threads like this.

Me too <3

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

My husband knows about this "sangeili character" and when I update him on his latest adventures he just rolls his eyes and says "that guy is so clueless"

 

[rtg]

I've already mentioned this before, but when I've got everything going for me, almost to the nth degree... The vast majority of people have multiple things in their life that need to be addressed, improve in career, get an education, buy a better house, get a new car, etc. etc. I have and had literally everything, I'm healthy, I'm fit, I look great and attractive, I have lots of hobbies and interests, I'm well travelled, I'm educated, I'm financially set.....everything is squared away but I didn't have this one thing.

Tally update: 11.

He doesn't understand the difference between having superficial things and being a real, decent human being. I could create a tally for each time everyone pointed this out to him, but it would be never ending. I truly hope his psychologist (but I'm starting to doubt he/she even exists) is also treating him for narcissistic personality disorder.

Update: I just saw his post that it's a relationship therapist. This is not the type of therapy he needs. He needs the legit clinical shit.

 

[rtg]

However, quality women are going to want a guy who has all of those things...

Literally zero understanding of women. Obviously the women here telling him what women actually want don't count as we are anonymous trolls with no life who just follow him around an harass him.

A woman who is attractive can literally just sit there and she'd have lots of men interested in her...

Porn is not real life.

 

[deleted936015]

Someone... not pointing fingers.... has a pretty warped perception of the way the world works...

 

[bigbull29]

A lot of chicks marry fat, ugly rich dudes.

Looks won't make a marriage last. Money might, but it will make for a very miserable, loveless marriage.

And some heavier women are indeed quite popular with the dudes. I was just in NYC, and I saw a quite a few bigger women with more attractive males.

It is sad that we base people's value on their financial worth.

For the love of money is the root of all evil. You better believe it!

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I didn't find out my husband's bank account balance until I married him. He's taken care of me well. We are by no means rich. We own our home and cars and have a hefty 401k put back. I couldn't ask for more. I work a very part time job to pay for my waxing, nails, hair cuts, hair color, going out with friends. Plus I'm able to some of my money back in savings.

Look, a woman who didn't marry a man for money. If he didn't treat me well I wouldn't stay no matter how rich he was.