My first squirt (G-spot orgasm)

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  1. dongalong

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    I was recently stimulating my girlfriend's g-spot but before she had an orgasm she asked me to stop, familiar with this situation I asked if she felt like she needed to pee, she replied - yes, however she had just been to the toilet so I knew that she was probably holding back a possible g-spot orgasm or female ejaculation.
    Anyway she wasn't able to overcome this need to pee sensation so I gave up.

    I was wondering how other women managed to overcome this sensation to enjoy the many orgasms that the g-spot can give.

    Please describe your first g-spot orgasm experience and ejaculation if it occurred.
     
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    Ignore her and rub it harder - show no mercy.

    I had no idea that I was doing it my first time. I was diving and the only angle for my fingers in hindsight was on her G Spot. She squirted and drenched my face. I am not sure who was more surprised. That said, I then researched and reckon I can do this for four out five women. The first few times, your partner has to be totally relaxed, which is why erotic massage is often the best build up for the less experienced.
     
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    Can I borrow you for, say, an evening?
     
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    As a woman when a man presses hard in the G spot area.. you do get the feeling of having to urinate. IT does by pass if you cont. to massage... the more pressure, the greater the feeling. She will climax with alot of fluid and the pleasure is outstanding!!!! Good luck.
     
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    Of all things, I think G Spot massage is just technique, and ambience. I remember a site called the new and ancient sex academy, Dutch I think, that taught you how to do erotic massage and G Spot massage. I am not sure if it is still up, but there are plenty of free how to instructions and videos on the web.

    I have never tried any of th new G Spot vibrators, they look fun, maybe more for solo pleasure. Anyone tried them?

    My favourite position is with the woman lying on her front with the ass slightly raised. Kneeling by her side, you enter the vagina with your thumb pointing down and your fingers cupping and gripping the pubic bone. If as a woman you like to release control to your lover, this is the position for you and I love that feeling, I suppose it's something akin to having a guy by the balls :smile: And then your other hand is free to do all sorts of other things as takes your fancy.

    I suppose I am a bit of a geek on this, but I have noticed another major difference with this type of orgasm as opposed to a clitoral orgasm, namely that there is no downtime, no need to recover as there can be with clitoral orgasms. You seem to be able to go and go. If you are a pleasure giver there is nothing quite like it. Well maybe one thing.
     
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    Have I told you how much I enjoy your posts, Drifter? :biggrin:

    dongalong - I've had plenty of g-spot orgasms. Sometimes I get the 'need to pee' feelings and sometimes I don't. I have never squirted. I always try to relax into the 'need to pee' feelings when they happen, and those orgasms are more intense and pretty much the best orgasms I have - especially if the g-spot is being hit by my man's cock. He makes me cum quicker with his fingers but the sensation of g-spot stimulation and fucking at the same time is just a crazy orgasm. It's also unique to my current partner and I suspect has a lot to do with his girth and curve. And Drifter's right about 'no down time' on those orgasms - and it's utterly wonderful to have someone be able to do that for you.
     
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    I notice sometimes that when I am having sex with my partner..his penis will hit the super sensitive area and I cum very hard. Right after I cum..I notice that I am much wetter and he has noticed it as well. Nothing like I have seen in pornos...where is comes out in a stream..

    Could that be squirting?
     
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    I dunno there, Pinup Beauty- maybe you could demonstrate it in person?
     
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    Ladies, I frequently rub or push on my wife's gspot while licking her clit. I especially do this as she approaches orgasm.


    Is there any particular region of the gspot that you like stimulated more than others?
     
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    For me it's not something I can make myself do. I have squirted and the orgasm is not more intense because of the squirting. I agree about g-spot orgasms that it's a never ending supply and no down time is needed, or wanted!
     
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    I don't have any research to back this up, just my personal experience. But i would say that once you start stimulating towards a G Spot orgasm, you should leave the clitoris alone. It is fine to stimulate the clitoris to start arousal, but I think there are different physical responses happening with the two types of orgasm.

    A clitoral orgasm makes the PC muscle contract, this is exactly what you don't want during a G Spot orgasm, rather you have to let go. The feeling for the need to pee is actually the build up of female ejaculate, but it triggers the pc muscle to try to hold it in, this just stops the whole build up, so you have to learn to release that response.

    I hve posted in the past about the process of learning to orgasm and some women scoffed me, but I think this and vaginal orgasms are the case in point. Because you can have clitoral orgasms fairly easily and do so through masturbation as guys do, it is not always easy to transfer to the different responses needed for G Spot and vaginal orgasm. Once you know those responses, mainly muscle relaxation, you can orgasm quickly and often, but during the process of letting this happen, you may need long sessions of penetration and to be completely relaxed. Perhaps this is why bigger guys seem to be able to make women have vaginal orgasms more frequently, simply because you have to relax the vagina, whereas you are using your pc muscle to tighten on other guys because we think that that makes for better sex.

    Again, I have no real studies on this, I am just throwing the ideas out there for comment.
     
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    I don't think I've got a bloody g-spot... if I have no-one has ever found it. If only someone could design a sat-nav for that purpose!! lol
     
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    *gets out his dowsing rod* :p
     
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    good luck tim.... I'll let you know when you find it! haha
     
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    Interesting topic, but in all my years of a very active sex life I have never squirted. I can orgasm very easily sometimes after just a dozen or so thrusts from my partner. I have huge orgasms from clitoral stimulation and can find myself very very wet, but never squirted like the women I have seen in porno.
    My hubby who is a very experienced in many ways in the bedroom has never managed to produce this G spot O. I guess some woman are all made slightly differently down there.
     
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    I don't know about this squirting. I've had several girlfriends orgasm while stimulating their G-spot. In all cases I was the first ever having them orgasm that way but none of them squirted. Even when they told me they had this peeing sensation. I can tell you that it is very satisfying to have them experience something new. In all situations having them shoot up to the stars was my goals (rather then squirt).
    I short; some do and some don't (just like some squeak and some growl).
     
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    well, my wife has squirted.... I think it surprised us both, the first time. However, it is not a regular on "on demand" thing. The setting, the stimulation and the relaxation all need to fall perfectly together... with 6 kids, that can be rare!!!
     
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    It goes without saying all women are different. The woman I am currently dating is very sexual but has never squirted prior to us dating, even while pleasuring herself.

    I've able to make a few women that I've been with do this, my hands are a little bit on the larger side, about 8 inches in length from bottom of palm to tip of the middle finger, so I have decent finger length. By using my pointer and middle finger I would just curl my fingers up and massage her wall then before you know it.....she would orgasm and squirt.

    Now going back to my current girlfriend and how all women are "designed" differently, I tried what I've done in the past. She would orgasm but wouldn't squirt....until....I pressed down on her lower stomach a little. This pushed her inner wall onto my fingers that much more. The first time I did this she had a very large orgasm and squirted quite a bit. She reacted very nervously cause she didn't know what happened, she thought she pee'd on me. I explained what happened, it was so cute, she was like "really, are you sure?" She was all red from being embarrased. But now, she goes out of the way to ask for it.
     
  19. Maia

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    I can squirt about 1 out of 10 orgasms if my husband is entering me from behind, while I am standing facing the mirror (or wall or anything I can put my hands on to stay upright at about 50 degree angle, we just enjoy the mirror the most) I orgasm very suddenly in that position, and usually contract very hard which pushes him out of me.

    I have squirted once from masturbating, clitoral only. I thought I pee'ed on myself that time, so I changed my panties before my husband came home. I usually wear my panties while I masturbate, and keep them on until my husband removes them, because he really likes feeling between my legs and finding my panties all wet. The time that I squirted in them, I told him I changed them because I pee'ed while masturbating. He told me it was probably me just squirting like when he fucks me in the standing position.

    The best position for me to squirt in, which I will squirt everytime, is when I lay on my side facing my husband, at the edge of our bed. He kneels on the floor at the side of the bed, and sucks at and plays with my nipples with one hand, and with the other fingers my g spot in a kind of pulling motion where he tugs towards himself. My heart starts racing and I can't breathe, the pleasure is so intense. Then I orgasm and squirt a lot. It probably takes about 15 seconds from start to orgasm. I actually get apprehensive sometimes when he puts me in this position because it is just so intense I feel like I can't handle it at times. Once, in the early morning we did it and I passed out.
     
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