My First Time Using Dildo

[playashleysage]

Hi guys,
i'm male, virgin and not coming out yet

So, i just bought a quite expensive dildo around 80$ , i try to use it for my first time anal..
well the dildo didnt get into my butt hole,dildo head didnt even get into the hole..
is it usual for first anal try? hehe
whats should i do? should i push it harder? quite really hurt.. or is it like that? hehe


*sorry for bad english , hope u guys understand it

 

[chrisrobin]

Hi guys,
i'm male, virgin and not coming out yet

So, i just bought a quite expensive dildo around 80$ , i try to use it for my first time anal..
well the dildo didnt get into my butt hole,dildo head didnt even get into the hole..
is it usual for first anal try? hehe
whats should i do? should i push it harder? quite really hurt.. or is it like that? hehe


*sorry for bad english , hope u guys understand it

Don't try and force it, First relax and use a decent lubrication on both the dildo and your asshole, not just round the hole bit inside. It takes time be able to take a dildo, if you find its a strain and no success then try a smaller one.
A friend sent me one as a present and it took me 35 minutes before I got the whole thing inside me, felt awesome, had a great orgasm and when I reported back I was to my friend took 3 days till he could mange the same size.

 

[theplayerking]

You need to start small. A set of graduated buttplugs works well.

 

[hzs3fg]

You need to start small. A set of graduated buttplugs works well.

I don't think it is quite that simple.

I posted on this subject earlier - take a look: Pegging - How To Manage

 

[WilliamG]

Hi guys,
i'm male, virgin and not coming out yet

So, i just bought a quite expensive dildo around 80$ , i try to use it for my first time anal..
well the dildo didnt get into my butt hole,dildo head didnt even get into the hole..
is it usual for first anal try? hehe
whats should i do? should i push it harder? quite really hurt.. or is it like that? hehe


*sorry for bad english , hope u guys understand it

We need details: Size matters. Lubrication. It is everything... Let's work from here.

 

[CUBE]

Oh man. You need a small vibrating plug and lube you can tease yourself with. Enjoy!!

 

[halcyondays]

Clean out first with an enema kit.
Lube your butthole.
Start with a small butt plug heavily lubed.
To open your butt push like you're pooping--this relaxes sphincter muscles. What allows poop out allows toys in.
At the same time slowly & gently insert or sit on the small lubed plug until it slips inside.
Relax and get used to it being there for longer periods of time.
Get on and off it and add more lube as required.
Repeat.

When you get comfortable with it move up to the medium size butt plug. Could take several days of practice. Take your time.Use lots of lube. It's about feeling good not causing pain.

When you get comfortable with the medium butt plug move up to the large butt plug.

Once I got used to inserting the small butt plug I started using a lube injector to lube deep inside.

Equipment.

Enema kit
Water based lube (get a quart/liter size bottle because you will use a lot)
S/M/L butt plug set
Lube injector
Towels

After a session wash up equipment with hot soapy water and let air dry for reuse. Launder towels.

Take your time. It took me two weeks of graduated daily practice before I could comfortably get the large butt plug inside.

Good luck. Have fun.

 

[marriedasian]

We need details: Size matters. Lubrication. It is everything... Let's work from here.

+1 on this. $80 dildo?... it is either super realistic in shape and material or it's way too big for a beginner.

 

[WilliamG]

+1 on this. $80 dildo?... it is either super realistic in shape and material or it's way too big for a beginner.

Perhaps... Both good reasons to own! To me, $80 is the sweet spot for quality, realism, and feel. I look at it this way: It's like owning a pair of pants that are too small. With the right training... They will fit!

I tell everyone a fun starter is 1.25" dia by 6" long. But you will go bigger if you like it. They always go bigger...

 

[playashleysage]

hi guys thankyou for all your respond and teach me how to do it . hehe

im using this type of dildo, but i didnt use the extra uncut skin while im try to do anal haha