My first time....

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Namenda, Nov 12, 2011.

  1. Namenda

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    So I had my first venture with a guy. I'm bi. I'm not out. The guy I did stuff with is a friend and he's the only person I've come out to.
    He invited me to stay the night at his place late last night, so I decided I'd go.
    I was sleeping in his bed, but at the foot of the bed. Long story short, I asked to sleep at the top of the bed with him.
    Talked for a while, ended up laying on his chest with his arms around me. He fell asleep almost instantly but I couldn't fall asleep. I was enjoying this too much. Not sure how long I was up for but we just started caressing each other and before I knew it, well, let's just say we did some things. We didn't fuck or anything, but we did a lot more than I expected to happen when I got the text if I wanted to come over to his place.

    I just had to let someone know haha. There's no specific reason for this post. If you want more details, just ask.
     
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    cum join me man!
     
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    Sounds like a good experience and a nice first time. :smile:
     
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    Sounds like a nice connection. It's cool if you can be close and intimate with your best friend. There's already a certain level of trust. I hope things get better for you two. :smile:
     
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    Thanks! Just so everyone knows, he's bi as well. He has A LOT more experience with guys and girls than I do. It was definitely a learning experience. I had no idea what I was doing and I know he knew I didn't. It was sort of embarrassing, but it was nice to just enjoy everything.
     
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    No need to be embarrassed. We've all had a 1st time. He's probably honored that you chose him.
     
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    It's always somebody's first time for something bro.
     
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    Like the other posters have said;
    it sounds as though this buddy of yours is
    a real friend,
    and THATS GOING TO MAKE ALL THE DIFFERENCE.
    Enjoy any intimate experience with a good friend,
    they are hard to come by.
     
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    It sounds like it was a big night for you...I'm happy for you and definitely understand the feeling to want to share this with us. :)
     
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    Thanks for sharing!.... Glad you had a good time
    ;0.
     
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    Thanks a lot for sharing. sounds a lot better than my first time. the guy i was with really didnt give a crap about me, i didnt even really get off.

    im gald you found someone who you can trust
     
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